Eve is the one that ate it first but Adam was the one called to die as a martyr. Text suggests he was beside her
So she took some of its fruit and ate it. She also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate it
Adam’s test of love was to lay down his life for the garden and his Bride, Eve. God commanded Adam to tend the garden and watch over it. He was told to guard the garden. (Gen. 2:15) If God told him to guard it, that implies some evil threat.
In English, the bible uses the term serpent or snake. The actual Hebrew word used was Nahash: meaning a Ferocious/Vicious beast-like figure. A very horrifying, unimaginable, fearsome creature. Satan manifested himself to Adam in a life-threatening manner.
Adam failed to guard the garden: the devil entered and he saw the beast as a life threat and consequently failed to guard the garden and his Bride from Nahash.
Scripture text suggests Adam was beside Eve when tempted, but when Nahash tempted Eve, Adam was silent. Why? He was a coward and didnt stand between the Nahash and his Bride.
Genesis 3:1 Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?”
Genesis 3:4 “Surely if you disobey, you will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman.
Scholars see this as an implied death threat. Implication: “If you don’t disobey God, I’ll kill you.”
When the emperor Nero persecuted the early Christians, he tells them “Deny God and you will not die.” Implication: If you do not deny God, I’ll kill you.
Adam was told by God he would die if he ate of the fruit. He chose is earthly life over his supernatural life. Nahash appears in a threatening manner and threatens that if they did not eat of the fruit, he would kill them. In the ancient text of the bible, God says to adam if he ate if the fruit he would ‘die die’. The words greatest death, worst, etc. did not exist so repetition was used. The worst death possible being Hell.
Thus, Adam failed to lay down his life as a martyer. Which is why Jesus had to die the worst death: to be the martyr adam failed to be. Also a reason why Jesus is also refererd as the New Adam.
I wanted to put this out there because i find it interesting. But yes, Adam was beside her at the fall.
Here’s the link to the talk, it’s a bible study of the book of revelation but the part about Adam and Eve is towards the end.