I’m not arguing that God can’t save those who believe they are beyond saving. That whole section is about Jesus referring to those who believe the accumulation of wealth will save them.
It is true that the word “this” in Matt19:26 refers to the case of wealth, but when He expands and says “With God, all things are possible” the Church does not limit the statement to wealth alone. So, with God, even Judas being saved is possible. Do you see why the Church does not say that any particular person is in hell? The Gospel image of God has to be taken as a whole. Is there any person for which God has not counted the hairs on his or her head? Who He does not hold in the palm of His hand? For whom He is not “Abba”, or “Daddy”, the understanding, loving Father?
And yes I can probably say that I have resented people in my life. For a myriad of actions and reasons.
Me too! For me, probably every day there is triggered some resentment towards someone! The gut-level resentment happens faster than I can think to stop it. I used to fight it, to drive it down, to say “don’t think that way”, but it did no good for me. Instead, I take the time to pray, to understand the motives, emotions, thoughts etc. of the person I have reacted to. In time, I always am able to understand and forgive.
Same for Judas, I resented him when I read the story. I really can’t imagine a person of good conscience
not resenting Judas! Have we not all been turned against at some point in our lives, had someone violate our trust? Being a traitor is wrong, and Judas is a prime example. Do you agree that a person of normal conscience would in high likelihood have a gut-level reaction to Judas?
Indeed, are we ruling out the possibility that someone (even a saint) who says Judas is in hell actually wants him to be there? This is an important question in terms of evangelization.
Yet, no matter what my feelings are towards that individual, I can’t justly proclaim that they are in hell, assuming they are dead, or that they will go to hell at the end of their life, simply for what they did.
Well, that is certainly to be commended, and also shows a good conscience. You are disciplined to refrain from judging. However, if I hold onto those “feelings” of resentment, I am still essentially holding something against the person, right? While it is praiseworthy to discipline oneself not to think of a person going to hell, if I am holding a grudge inside, even if it is something I do not think of, there is a holiness lacking. For those of us who have more troubled lives, though, the lack of holiness in holding these “minor” grudges is sort of “below the radar”. Anyone who watches the nightly news is going to have his resentment triggers pulled many times, usually without even realizing it has happened. Do you agree?