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Well I heard about that, but I don’t know if it’s accurate. I should have included this beforehand.
No it’s not. When it comes to the sacraments, “cheated” is putting it mildly.‘Cheated’ is a little harsh perhaps?
OP did not indicate that the priest read the list.Well I heard about that, but I don’t know if it’s accurate. I should have included this beforehand.
how is this a lesson? why asking things here is bad?And as for “random persons” this should be a lesson to the OP, as to any other scrupulous, that asking questions here is a bad idea. But now that she has opened that can of worms, the truth, whether from “random strangers” or from a priest is still the truth. In this case, she has it, painful as it may be. She was cheated by that priest, but now hse has the knowledge to rectify it. And “assuming it’s valid” is not the next step. Going to valid confession is.
For the scrupulous its best to stick with a trusted confessor and not a public forum where all sorts of personalities exist with differing levels of knowledge and opinions.porthos11:![]()
how is this a lesson? why asking things here is bad?And as for “random persons” this should be a lesson to the OP, as to any other scrupulous, that asking questions here is a bad idea. But now that she has opened that can of worms, the truth, whether from “random strangers” or from a priest is still the truth. In this case, she has it, painful as it may be. She was cheated by that priest, but now hse has the knowledge to rectify it. And “assuming it’s valid” is not the next step. Going to valid confession is.
so you think it is better not to ask anything? It is better to stay ignorant?
If you doubted you should have asked your own priest. But that said you were fortunate to have a priest here who gave you the correct answer but you just as well got wrong and conflicting answers. Who then would you have believed? That does not help you. This is a discussion forum but is not the best place for spiritual advice and more so if you’re scrupulous which I think you are.so in this case I should have not doubted that this confession was valid?