I ran across this quote once, and it sums up my gut feeling pretty well:
CALVINISM, THE GOD DISHONORING SCHEME
"…Such is Calvinism, the most unreasonable, incongruous, self-contradictory, man-belittling and God-dishonoring scheme of theology that ever appeared in Christian thought. No one can accept its contradictory, mutually exclusive propositions without
intellectual self-debasement. For a theologian to flounder about in the morass of its opposing doctrines and assumptions, in a vain attempt to make them harmonize, and then admit that
these are only feeble attempts to extricate ourselves from the profundities of theology,' is nothing but self-stultification. It holds up a self-centered selfish, heartless, remorseless tyrant for God, and bids us worship Him. ..........[The] God of Calvinism, is represented as creating countless billions of men and angels on purpose to send them to a hell of eternal torment, as he pleaseth, for the glory of his sovereign power over his creature!’ He sits on His throne and, `according to the good-pleasure of His will,’ causes them to pour like a niagara tide of life, into the yawning abyss of hell, with as little compunction as we would kill a few flies, which we have not even created!
"It is a historic fact that Calvinism has been a fruitful mother of infidelity. In its womb were born Universalism and Unitarianism, the twin sisters of unbelief. By the natural reaction of the mind they arose, as a mental protest against the monstrosities of the reigning theology. One extreme follows another. Nothing is needed but Calvinism and Carnality as parents, with evolution for a wet nurse to produce the modern drivel of New Theology.