I see, so perhaps I misunderstood what dshix meant by not being able to pray for others. We can pray for others, and can still see these prayers answered…they simply won’t grant me sanctifying grace.
I do want to mention one thing here, some people are very hard on themselves when it comes to “Mortal Sin.” I don’t know you nor what it is that you believe has placed you in a state of Mortal sin; however, I feel compelled to caution you about being overly scrupulous.
Reading thru many of your other posts/threads it sounds like you are at a difficult point in your faith journey. I usually advise finding a good spiritual director, and as many have pointed out to me, this is not always easy and may be more difficult in your situation; however, I think you would find such guidance to be most beneficial.
Ok, let’s hit the nail on the head:
If you will take careful note of the last sentence of Dr. Gregson’s answer in my post, IMHO, that should support what you are saying. This is also how I interpreted Dr. Gregson’s answer and I have seen this same type of answer, if not in as many words, from other Apologists that I would trust as being true to the faith and the Magisterium.
DSHIX answer, while good, is not as clear as I think intended, and appears to be primarily referring to the merits that one receives while in a state of Sanctifying Grace,
Merit de condigno, and down plays
Merit de congruo that one receives as a Mercy from God, IMHO, both are received by the Mercy of God - I’ve heard it said many times by Apologists, Deacons, Priests, and Bishops - No prayer or good act is lost, God can and will use it for the salvation of Mankind.
I do however, agree in principle, with DSHIX last statement - that staying in the state of mortal sin is the most dangerous thing a human being can do for our eternal soul.
With that said, God has mercy, he doesn’t want us to chose the dark path. Even in your case there may be salvation for a truly contrite heart which is why I suggested the devotion to the Divine Mercy. In the private revelation to St. Faustina (taken from
thedivinemercy.org/library/article.php?NID=3987)
Repeatedly, in His conversations with Sister Faustina, the Lord spoke of His merciful response to souls that trust in Him: I desire to grant unimaginable graces, He told her, to those souls who trust in My mercy. … Sooner would heaven and earth turn into nothingness than would My mercy not embrace a trusting soul (Diary 687, 1777).
Over and over again, He stressed that He could never reject a repentant heart, never refuse an appeal to His mercy:
I am Mercy itself for the contrite soul. … Souls that make an appeal to My mercy delight me. To such souls, I grant even more graces than they ask. I cannot punish even the greatest sinner if he makes an appeal to My compassion (Diary 1739, 1146).
further, from the Oblates of Divine Mercy (
saint-faustina.com/drp/?q=chaplet),
Jesus told St. Faustina that He would rather be merciful than just towards sinners. In order to spread devotion to His mercy, He has given us many tools and gifts. One of the most important messages and powerful gifts Jesus gave to St. Faustina was a very special prayer: The Divine Mercy Chaplet. He calls it the last refuge for hardened sinners and it is a powerful tool in the fight for souls.
Trust in our Lord, pray the Divine Mercy chaplet daily, and arrange to receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation as soon as you can - you may have to call the parish office and make arrangements, talk with a priest and explain your situation.