TimothyH;9163321:
For short time I worked at a temp at a Jewish company and worked pretty closely to this really cool Orthodox Jewish woman. She was very fun and open about her religion and practices, so I got to learn a bit about Orthodox Jews.
No one wants to be told they are in the dark. In fact, they are because… I hate to repeat myself, but “He came into his own and his own received him not.”
Praying for someone in darkness is one thing. No one with any sense is going to walk up to someone and say, “Hey, you’re in the dark. Convert now!” except for those street preachers. I would take another approach, for example talking about the things we have in common like love and fear of God.
But that doesn’t mean in my own church, I don’t pray for their conversion.
I agree that faithless/treacherous Jew is not good language to use.
Yet that was part of liturgy.
And now it’s bad?
That is disturbing.
But the Jews today are not the same people as were the Chief Priests, Scribes and Pharasees at the time of Jesus. The average Jew on the F train from Forest Hills is a far cry from being a member of the Sanhedrin.
I’m not passing judgment on a past Pope, any past liturgy, any prayer offered, nor anyone who offered it, nor anyone who goes to the EF or anything else about the Church. You keep asking me how it is bad. I’m not saying it’s bad. I’m saying that the language is not needed today, that’s all.
Jewish people today can be some of the warmest, nicest people in the world. I know mostly reformed Jews, sorta like the Evangelicals of Judaism. Down here there are a fair bit of Messianic Jews. Some of the wildest church service I have ever been to. Freaky theology but super nice people. Warm smiles and great food, and lots of it.
When I worked on Long Island and in NYC, half my friends were Jewish men who were married to Catholic women. These guys probably spent more time at Mass than they do at Synagogue. I heard “Yea, I’ll probably convert after my mother and father die” from more than one of them.
Seriously, the
one’s who recieved him not are not the same as the average Jew in the street today. Israel is one of our staunchest allies and the largest concentration of Jews outside of Israel is right in NYC - nothing new to you. The average Jew in the street is probably closer to Joseph of Arimathea than a Pharisee. The last thing a guy wearing a yamika with a mezuzah on his office door want’s to be called is a “Faithless Jew”.
I know a guy who is in NYPD Homicide, high up, who converted. He used to hate his father. He converted and changed. Confession and the Eucharist softened him. He took Jesus words about leaving his gift on the altar seriously and started obeying the fourth commandment for the first time in his life. His father said, “Whatever they did to him at that Catholic Church seems to be working” and now he dotes on his elderly father. His son got both bar-mitzva’d and confirmed. They say, “We got both sides covered”

Their “Jewishness” is who they are. You can never take their Jewishness out of them. The last thing they want to hear is that their family is a bunch of faithless Jews and such things.
Going to bed now. Good night.
-Tim-