For the record, I’d be more concerned that as described, you dislike anything in a foreign language. Beyond the EF, I imagine this stunts your life in countless ways.
You’re probably right about missing out, but wouldn’t say I live a “stunted” life.
I have so many blessings in my life, so many wonderful involvements in various musical groups, two beautiful and loving daughters and an amazing son-in-law, my parents-in-law (who are rapidly failing in health but still looking for any adventure they can find in life!), a fun brother who is one of my best friends, and interests/hobbies (e.g., touring historic sites, collecting uranium glass, flea-marketing and vintage shopping, reading, etc.), and of course, enjoying life with my husband of 40 years–I really don’t think I’m missing out on much.
I have never been interested in travelling outside of the U.S.–never.
I like opera, but nowadays, the translations are posted and can be read throughout the opera.
Most of the Spanish-speaking or African-language speaking people in our neighborhood (we live in a very diverse neighborhood!) prefer to speak English as much as possible when they’re with non-family member
There are plenty of books written in English, and any non-English books are usually available in an English translation as well, so I think I’ll have enough reading material until I get to the place where I can’t see to read anymore!
And since I’m usually the one accompanying the soloist or choir singing in a foreign language, I don’t have to worry about being able to speak it or understand it–I just have to pay attention to the director (or soloists) and make sure I’m doing my best to support the singing with my accompaniment.
And of course, I have my Catholic faith–I’m a convert (2004), and I love Holy Mother Church more than ever! And I am so grateful for the Mass and love receiving Jesus in Holy Communion, and that our parish has a 24/7 Adoration Chapel where I can worship Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament.
No, I’m not stunted.