I disagree with you about the wearing of the scapular while swimming, bathing, etc. I know some Discalced Carmelite monks in Wyoming who celebrate the Carmelite mass of 1938, and they also are very observant of the all the Carmelite constitutions and rules. Each monk wears his scapular continuously, in the shower, bathing, always, just like Our Lady said. Our Lady of Mt. Carmel said we should wear it continuously, not when you take a shower you can take it off.
The famous Trappist Thomas Merton died in the bathroom of his hotel in an eastern country, I think Thailand, while he was removing his scapular. As soon as he began to take it off he slipped grabbed the lamp and fell on the floor and was electracuted to death in the water on the bathroom floor, with his scapular laying next to him.
Our Lady said to wear the scapular CONTINUOUSLY, you could call me scrupulous, but that is what Our Lady said to do, and that is what Discalced Carmelite monks do. I would not like to be Thomas Merton laying on the floor in the bathroom dead because Our Lady finally found a chance for me to take my scapular off.
God bless