Wedding Music help

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Really nice arrangement. As I wrote on the first page, I’ve thought of that song played during the ceremony. However, I didn’t know there’s a variation to it. But yes, every time I hear the original, I think of funerals especially Princess Diana’s.
The descant they did at Princess Diana’s funeral was actually very nice and the music itself is not a particular favorite of mine. There are a couple of different arrangements to St. Francis’s prayer. Allen Pote is one and then there is one by Rutter, which I think is also nice:

youtube.com/watch?v=S631tbfalF8
 
Is “Let There be Peace on Earth” a good song for communion during a Wedding Mass?
 
Is “Let There be Peace on Earth” a good song for communion during a Wedding Mass?
I personally wouldn’t choose it for a wedding mass, but it’s up to the couple and the music director/priest helping them. I associate the hymn with funerals.
 
I personally wouldn’t choose it for a wedding mass, but it’s up to the couple and the music director/priest helping them. I associate the hymn with funerals.
Is there another hymn that emphasizes 1) peace and harmony between men and 2) unity in Christ that you might consider?
 
Is there another hymn that emphasizes 1) peace and harmony between men and 2) unity in Christ that you might consider?
For Hymns:
Ubi Caritas that was previously suggested would work.
Where Charity and Love Prevail
Love Divine, All Loves Excelling
At That First Eucharist
Lord Of All Nations Grant Me Grace
Not For Tongues of Heaven’s Angels
When Love Is Found
 
For Hymns:
Ubi Caritas that was previously suggested would work.
Where Charity and Love Prevail
Love Divine, All Loves Excelling
At That First Eucharist
Lord Of All Nations Grant Me Grace
Not For Tongues of Heaven’s Angels
When Love Is Found
Thanks!
 
Why has no one suggested “The Servant Song?” The original has “Brother” as the first word but we don’t sing it that way… It has always brought tears to my eyes because it seems like a wonderful model for marriage.

Will you let me be your servant
Let me be as Christ to you
Pray that I may have the grace
To let you be my servant, too

We are pilgrims on a journey
We are brothers on the road
We are here to help each other
Walk the mile and bear the load

I will hold the Christlight for you
In the night-time of your fear
I will hold my hand out to you
Speak the peace you long to hear

I will weep when you are weeping
When you laugh I’ll laugh with you
I will share your joy and sorrow
Till we’ve seen this journey through

When we sing to God in heaven
We shall find such harmony
Born of all we’ve known together
Of Christ’s love and agony

Will you let me be your servant
Let me be as Christ to you
Pray that I may have the grace
To let you be my servant, too
 
I know I haven’t gone through that stage yet but I want to be prepared. I know certain secular music is not allowed during a Nuptial Mass but I want to stay away from the usual Canon In D/Trumpet Voluntary/Jesu Joy Of Man’s Desiring picks. I’m not saying they are not beautiful pieces of music (they are), but my fiance and I want to be different.

Here’s what I want to use:

Prelude: Malher’s 5th Symphony, 4th movement (hope I can use this, the music is beautiful)
Processional: Ave Maria (the Bach version, not the Schubert) and The Arrival of the Queen of Sheba
Liturgy of the Word Hymn: Morning Has Broken, Turn, Turn, Turn, or I Can Only Imagine (to appease the non-Catholic family members)
Rite of Marriage: Grow Old Along With me (another song I hope to use if it’s allowed)
Recessional: Ode To Joy

Any other suggestions if I can’t use a couple of songs. Like I said, I want to stay away from the usual songs played at weddings. :harp:
Your parish organist should be able to give you suggestions and recommendations and it is polite to consult with him. You should not choose music to appease non-Catholics—it is a Mass, right? Well, there are liturgically appropriate hymns, use them. Again, please talk to your parish music director/organist for guidance, not us.
 
Your parish organist should be able to give you suggestions and recommendations and it is polite to consult with him. You should not choose music to appease non-Catholics—it is a Mass, right? Well, there are liturgically appropriate hymns, use them. Again, please talk to your parish music director/organist for guidance, not us.
We’re planning to do outside of Mass.
 
We just chose our favorite hymns, as opposed to specific wedding hymns. My goal was to have hymns that many attendees knew and would be willing to sing. Also, when I now hear these hymns, I think back to that day.

Processional: "All Creatures of Our God and King"
Offeratory: *** “Holy is His Name”*** (Magnificat)
Holy Communion:*** “How Great Thou Art” ***- My husband wanted this. And when I went to see where to use it, I never before had thought of it as a Eucharistic song. But it worked. What better time to tell Jesus “How Great Thou Art” than when he is right there during Communion. And if any protestants wanted to sing to Jesus during Communion, so be it!
Ave Maria
Recessional: "Lead Me, Lord" - Not only is it related to scripture, but I like the upbeat joyful feel of the tune. On second thought, we should have changed it to Lead US Lord…
 
I’ve always thought this would be a beautiful processional if you had a long aisle or if you did an arrangement of it which would be shorter and used for just an organ and oboe or strings and oboe. It’s so hauntingly beautiful to me. Another oboe concerto of Albinoni is usually recommended for weddings, but I love this one. I would have used it had I the right instruments and the budget. I also didn’t want to make my friend have to learn a new piece for the organ. He had enough on his plate with the choir and all that.

Tomasso Albinoni Oboe Concerto in d Minor (Adagio movement)

youtube.com/watch?v=_55t28ZhRjw
 
Back from Mass. I really have a feeling my parish is more lenient when it comes to music. They played “Day By Day” from Godspell right after communion and Garth Brooks’ “The River” during offering. I’m not saying “let’s crank up some Beatles music at church”, but at least I know that I might have some additional choices.
 
Back from Mass. I really have a feeling my parish is more lenient when it comes to music. They played “Day By Day” from Godspell right after communion and Garth Brooks’ “The River” during offering. I’m not saying “let’s crank up some Beatles music at church”, but at least I know that I might have some additional choices.
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I know it was their contemporary and kids choir who performed yesterday. I couldn’t help but singing along. On a Saturday Mass, the organist played “All I Ask Of You” right before Mass.

Please don’t hate my parish for sneaking some secular (with religious undertones) during Mass.
 
Update: I think I have my ideal music setup! We’re now changing to a nuptial mass. I want to know if these songs are appropriate:

Prelude and Processional
Air - Handel
Arioso - Bach
La Grace - Telemann
Jupiter - Holst (I personally want to walk to “Zadok the Priest” but the aisle is too small, this is a good alternative)

Interlude
(Resp. Psalm: haven’t decide that one yet)
The Gift Of Love (Presentation of Gifts)
I Have Loved You (Communion)

Recessional
Arrival of the Queen of Sheba

So what do you think of the updated list? Should I change anything?
 
Update: I think I have my ideal music setup! We’re now changing to a nuptial mass. I want to know if these songs are appropriate:

Prelude and Processional
Air - Handel
Arioso - Bach
La Grace - Telemann
Jupiter - Holst (I personally want to walk to “Zadok the Priest” but the aisle is too small, this is a good alternative)

Interlude
(Resp. Psalm: haven’t decide that one yet)
The Gift Of Love (Presentation of Gifts)
I Have Loved You (Communion)

Recessional
Arrival of the Queen of Sheba

So what do you think of the updated list? Should I change anything?
I think these are very nice choices. Instead of identifying your processional as Jupiter since that was for his tone poem and not just “absolute music”, perhaps use “O God Beyond All Praising”. I am partial to your processional since it is what I used for my processional when I got married. 😃 You have very nice taste. 😛 Holst, himself, had the music adapted for use in hymns… originally for “I Vow To Thee My Country”. I think Zadok The Priest is awesome, too, but it’s better when you have a really good choir suddenly break out in song, rather than just an instrumental.

For my personal taste, I’d only change “I Have Loved You”, but it’s a pretty hymn and I know other people like it.

This is so exciting!!! Is the wedding day close?
 
I think these are very nice choices. Instead of identifying your processional as Jupiter since that was for his tone poem and not just “absolute music”, perhaps use “O God Beyond All Praising”. I am partial to your processional since it is what I used for my processional when I got married. 😃 You have very nice taste. 😛 Holst, himself, had the music adapted for use in hymns… originally for “I Vow To Thee My Country”. I think Zadok The Priest is awesome, too, but it’s better when you have a really good choir suddenly break out in song, rather than just an instrumental.

For my personal taste, I’d only change “I Have Loved You”, but it’s a pretty hymn and I know other people like it.

This is so exciting!!! Is the wedding day close?
We were going to wait until next year but decided why not have it this year instead!

And good thing I’ve done extra research since my first posting about this topic months ago. I understand it’s better to refer “Jupiter” to its hymn title but you get the idea what song I want to play. After all, my original post is choosing wedding music that isn’t the usual wedding songs.

Now it’s do decide whether to only use an organ or add a trio or quartet.

I might swap “Gift” and “IHLY” but “Gift” is perfect for the presentation of the gifts.
 
We were going to wait until next year but decided why not have it this year instead!

And good thing I’ve done extra research since my first posting about this topic months ago. I understand it’s better to refer “Jupiter” to its hymn title but you get the idea what song I want to play. After all, my original post is choosing wedding music that isn’t the usual wedding songs.
Aww!!! That’s wonderful!!! 🙂

Yes, the Holst is not the usual wedding repertoire. 🙂 When we were married almost 10 years ago, no one I knew used it. I can count on one hand how many have used it in the past 10 years and I do weddings almost every weekend during the wedding season. None of the weddings I have ever cantored chose it. I saw it done at a royal wedding (I believe in the Netherlands… don’t quote me on it, but it was a royal wedding) and two weddings posted on YouTube. Now, your wedding. 🙂
Now it’s do decide whether to only use an organ or add a trio or quartet.
Depends on your budget. I would definitely keep the organ, especially if you want your guests to sing the mass parts and the hymn. Strings are beautiful, but be sure to audition them because they can be pricey, since you might be paying $200+ per player, which is fair because you are paying for expertise and their time, preparation, etc., BUT it all adds up. If you are going to spend the money, make sure they are good and have experience with the liturgy or at least have someone there to walk them through. The organist could probably do that. I love working with string groups. It can add a lovely texture to the music when added to the organ.
I might swap “Gift” and “IHLY” but “Gift” is perfect for the presentation of the gifts.
I like “Gift of Love” for the offertory as well. I sing it a lot for weddings and that is where we usually place it.
 
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