Wedding Officiated by a Deacon

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Thank you all for the prompt answers. Since Marriage is confessed to be a Sacrament in the Roman Catholic Church, that’s what threw me for a loop.
As our local deacon says, he can “carry, marry and bury.” I k now that he can and has Baptized babies (carry) and performed weddings (marry). I am guessing he can also preside at funerals (bury)??

I know that he also can bless people and objects. Our local deacon blessed my mother’s rosary with the most beautiful blessing.
 
No, they are not. In fact, it’s expressly forbidden.
Maybe the PP was confused about the bride and groom ministering the Sacrament of Marriage (rather than Holy Communion) to each other? 🤷

In the marriage rite, the presider acts as the witness for the Church. The bride and groom actually “complete” the Sacrament, so to speak. For that reason alone it doesn’t seem odd to me that a deacon could serve as the witness.
 
Maybe the PP was confused about the bride and groom ministering the Sacrament of Marriage (rather than Holy Communion) to each other? 🤷

In the marriage rite, the presider acts as the witness for the Church. The bride and groom actually “complete” the Sacrament, so to speak. For that reason alone it doesn’t seem odd to me that a deacon could serve as the witness.
Heck, even a lay person can witness a Catholic marriage. It’s not unheard of in our diocese where priests have to travel long distances between parishes. If a priest is not going to be in the parish for more than a month the bishop may, with Rome’s approval, appoint a lay person to prepare the couple and witness the marriage.
 
I give up, you all holier than thou Catholics win. Yes. I’m a liberal Catholic, happy?
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So let me get this straight. You misread their comment; they politely correct you but apologize for potentially misleading you; and you respond like this?

Your comment was entirely uncalled for.
 
Heck, even a lay person can witness a Catholic marriage. It’s not unheard of in our diocese where priests have to travel long distances between parishes. If a priest is not going to be in the parish for more than a month the bishop may, with Rome’s approval, appoint a lay person to prepare the couple and witness the marriage.
I learned something today, thanks! 😃 Obviously not an ideal situation, but still an interesting bit of information. 🙂
 
Yes, a deacon may assist at a wedding. “Assist at” means he asks for and receives the couples’ consent in the name of the Church. The deacon must have been delegated to assist. This delegation may come from the Ordinary or parish priest (called pastor in some countries). He may have a general delegation or he may have been specifically delegated for this wedding.
A deacon has full facilities to witness and preside at a wedding same as a the preist, except for the Consecration, by his ordination. He recieves these facilities at his ordination and no other approveal form the ordinary is required. If he presides at a wedding outside of his assiened area, then he would need permision either from the pastor of the parish if within the same diocese, permission from the ordinary of the diocese of the ordinary that he would be going to.
He might assit a priest at a wedding, but he can perform the cerimony without any special permission except agreement with the presiding priest.
 
A deacon has full facilities to witness and preside at a wedding same as a the preist, except for the Consecration, by his ordination. He recieves these facilities at his ordination and no other approveal form the ordinary is required…
This is inaccurate.

Can.* 1108 §1. Only those marriages are valid which are contracted before the local ordinary, pastor, or a priest or deacon delegated by either of them,

Can.* 1111 §1. As long as they hold office validly, the local ordinary and the pastor can delegate to priests and deacons the faculty, even a general one, of assisting at marriages within the limits of their territory.

§2. To be valid, the delegation of the faculty to assist at marriages must be given to specific persons expressly. If it concerns special delegation, it must be given for a specific marriage; if it concerns general delegation, it must be given in writing.
If he presides at a wedding outside of his assiened area, then he would need permission either from the pastor of the parish if within the same diocese, permission from the ordinary of the diocese of the ordinary that he would be going to.
While this is true, it is also true he requires delegation of the faculty in his own parish.
He might assit a priest at a wedding, but he can perform the cerimony without any special permission except agreement with the presiding priest.
Nope, see above. It may seem that way because in most dioceses, the bishop grants this faculty to each deacon as a matter of course. They do not have to seek permission each time.
 
What your are missing is that the deacon at ordination, when given his faculties by his local ordinary in writting, usually for a specific area, a parish. He is also given permission by his Pastor. These things happens at the time a deacon is assigned to a parish and he is not required to get permission each time he presides at a wedding unless it is outside his parish.
It sounds like you are admitting that 1ke’s interpretation of the canons he cited is correct - the faculty of witnessing a marriage is granted by a document from the bishop and permission from the pastor, rather than by virtue of ordination. This is a bit different from what you stated earlier,
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FAB:
A deacon has full facilities to witness and preside at a wedding same as a the preist, except for the Consecration, by his ordination.
For most practical purposes, that statement is true enough, but in unusual situations not as much. For instance, a deacon who is a refugee does not automatically possess faculties in the new territory he has fled to, and I imagine the new bishop could choose not to grant any or to limit such faculties until language skills were adequate, etc.
 
What your are missing is that the deacon at ordination, when given his faculties by his local ordinary in writting, usually for a specific area, a parish. He is also given permission by his Pastor. These things happens at the time a deacon is assigned to a parish and he is not required to get permission each time he presides at a wedding unless it is outside his parish.

Peace,
Deacon FAB
I am not missing anything. In fact I said precisely that (and in the very post you are responding to)-- a deacon is typically given this faculty (at least in the US) at ordination and does not ask permission each time.

That is not the same thing as having the faculty **by virtue of **his ordination. The faculty must first be given.
 
Good Evening,

I’m going to be part of the wedding party for a couple Roman Catholic friends of mine getting married this weekend. I found out tonight during the rehearsal that the parish’s Deacon will be officiating the wedding, not an ordained Pastor/Priest, which kind of surprised me.

Since this isn’t the norm, are there any special provisions or approvals that have to be made beforehand by either the Priest or the Bishop?

Thank you.
As long as they’re Roman Rite, it’s a non-issue.

If they were Byzantine, Armenian, Chaldean, Antiochene, or Alexandrian Rite, it would be an issue…

But, since the late 1970’s, Roman Rite deacons have been permitted to officiate at weddings.

Deacons of the various Churches in Union with Rome almost never receive faculties to even give blessings, and the marital blessing requires a priest. And by canon law, Catholics of those churches in union must be married by a priest, even if having their marriage in a Roman Rite parish.
 
. I found out tonight during the rehearsal that the parish’s Deacon will be officiating the wedding, not an ordained Pastor/Priest, which kind of surprised me.
I’m bothered by the lack of attention to this portion.

Deacons are not substitutes for clergy, or “clergy light.”

Deacosn ARE ordained clergy of the Catholic and Orthodox churches. They predate the presbyterate.

Unfortunately, many ignorant folks find the restoratn of the diaconal order innovate, rather than than a restoration of something wrongly suppressed.

hawk
 
I’m bothered by the lack of attention to this portion.

Deacons are not substitutes for clergy, or “clergy light.”

Deacosn ARE ordained clergy of the Catholic and Orthodox churches. They predate the presbyterate.

Unfortunately, many ignorant folks find the restoratn of the diaconal order innovate, rather than than a restoration of something wrongly suppressed.

hawk
Or even a restoration of something rightly suppressed.
 
The proper ministers of the Sacrament of Matrimony are the couple themselves. The priest is there as a witness and to give the couple a blessing.

The Church recognises the validity and permanence of weddings carried out elsewhere, but lays down particular rules for Catholics. The rules permit a deacon (with the approval of the Parish Priest) to be a witness and bless the couple. Of course, a priest is required if there is a Nuptial Mass.

The wedding also has to comply with the law to be legally valid. In the United Kingdom, the officiating deacon has to be an “Approved Person” and I suspect that there is a similar requirement in the US.
 
Or if there is a Registrar present, he/she takes care of the civil law side of the marriage. In other words, the Registrar is the ‘Approved Person’, as in our parish, where the priests change frequently, being Religious, so do not go through the process of being ‘Approved’, as they won’t be in place long enough to justify it.
 
Or if there is a Registrar present, he/she takes care of the civil law side of the marriage. In other words, the Registrar is the ‘Approved Person’, as in our parish, where the priests change frequently, being Religious, so do not go through the process of being ‘Approved’, as they won’t be in place long enough to justify it.
Can’t a parishioner volunteer do it? It doesn’t have to be a priest. The “Approved Person” in our parish is a lay person.
 
A deacon has full facilities to witness and preside at a wedding same as a the preist, except for the Consecration, by his ordination. He recieves these facilities at his ordination and no other approveal form the ordinary is required. If he presides at a wedding outside of his assiened area, then he would need permision either from the pastor of the parish if within the same diocese, permission from the ordinary of the diocese of the ordinary that he would be going to.
He might assit a priest at a wedding, but he can perform the cerimony without any special permission except agreement with the presiding priest.
That is not correct. At ordination he becomes a deacon. As a deacon he might be allowed to assist at weddings. He does not require the automatic right to assist at marriage because he is a deacon. The law is quite clear on this. A deacon must be given faculties. If an ordained deacon assisted at a marriage without faculties the marriage would be invalid due to defect of form. A deacon needs faculties to assist at marriage. They may be granted by the ordinary or by the parish priest (called pastor in some countries, to avoid confusion). The faculties may be given generically, i.e. a deacon can assist at all weddings in the stated territory. The faculty may be given specifically for one wedding. The Code of Canon Law makes all this clear.
 
That is not correct. At ordination he becomes a deacon. As a deacon he might be allowed to assist at weddings. He does not require the automatic right to assist at marriage because he is a deacon. The law is quite clear on this. A deacon must be given faculties. If an ordained deacon assisted at a marriage without faculties the marriage would be invalid due to defect of form. A deacon needs faculties to assist at marriage. They may be granted by the ordinary or by the parish priest (called pastor in some countries, to avoid confusion). The faculties may be given generically, i.e. a deacon can assist at all weddings in the stated territory. The faculty may be given specifically for one wedding. The Code of Canon Law makes all this clear.
So if I’m understanding you, correctly- you are not disagreeing with Deacon FAB when he said that deacons receive their faculties at ordination. Your disagree with his statement that it is by his ordination that he has his faculties. Maybe he is not saying it correctly, but I take it to mean that he and other deacons were given their faculties at their ordination.
 
So if I’m understanding you, correctly- you are not disagreeing with Deacon FAB when he said that deacons receive their faculties at ordination. Your disagree with his statement that it is by his ordination that he has his faculties. Maybe he is not saying it correctly, but I take it to mean that he and other deacons were given their faculties at their ordination.
Exactly, he specifically stated that they receive their faculties “in writing” at the time of their ordination. That does not mean that by virtue of Holy Orders they have faculties, but that they are generally given at the same event.
 
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