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On my second marriage (the first was annulled) I had a ‘civil wedding’ and not a church wedding and I planned for a second church wedding as my wife’s been asking. My question is, IS IT POSSIBLE to have a second church wedding?

just a little confused.
 
yes, convalidation of your civil marriage can be a small or large affair, as you and your spouse decide.

Make an appointment to discuss your wishes with your priest.
 
On my second marriage (the first was annulled) I had a ‘civil wedding’ and not a church wedding and I planned for a second church wedding as my wife’s been asking. My question is, IS IT POSSIBLE to have a second church wedding?

just a little confused.
Depends on a lot of factors. If your wife is a baptized Catholic, and no other marriages (that haven’t been annulled), then you can marry in the Church. But you need to talk to your parish priest or pastor ASAP and bring ALL of your documentation along with you. Tell him everything and follow his recommendations.
 
Depends on a lot of factors. If your wife is a baptized Catholic, and no other marriages (that haven’t been annulled), then you can marry in the Church. But you need to talk to your parish priest or pastor ASAP and bring ALL of your documentation along with you. Tell him everything and follow his recommendations.
Whether or not his wife is Catholic is not relevant. He can convalidate his marriage to. A Catholic or a non Catholic in a large or small ceremony
 
Whether or not his wife is Catholic is not relevant. He can convalidate his marriage to. A Catholic or a non Catholic in a large or small ceremony
Wait, he didn’t get married in a Catholic Church. So technically, he’s not married, right? That’s the way I understand it. And if he married a non-Catholic outside of the church, how can they just have a ceremony now?
 
Wait, he didn’t get married in a Catholic Church. So technically, he’s not married, right? That’s the way I understand it. And if he married a non-Catholic outside of the church, how can they just have a ceremony now?
A Catholic can marry a non-Catholic in the Church at any time (if they go through the necessary prep.) My aunt was away from the Church for some 15 years and had three ceremonies: a civil wedding (they eloped), then a Protestant ceremony, and then a convalidation ceremony many years later (so that’s when they “counted” as actually being married). My uncle was willing to have the marriage convalidated so she could return to the Sacraments, and other than a few meetings with her priest there were no major hurdles they had to go through.
 
OP, if you or your wife are a baptized Catholic ( I am assuming you at least are as you had a previous marriage annuled) then I am sorry to inform you that the Church does not recognize your marriage as valid. In the eyes of the Church you are not married but you would of course be able to get married. Talk to your parish priest about it and he will help you with all the paperwork and prep. 🙂
 
Wait, he didn’t get married in a Catholic Church. So technically, he’s not married, right? That’s the way I understand it.
Correct, he is in an invalid marriage that he wants to validate.
And if he married a non-Catholic outside of the church, how can they just have a ceremony now?
Because that is what a convadliation is. I am not understanding your confusion. He is in an invalid marriage that he wants to make valid-- so he needs to convalidate the marriage.

Which can be done in as small or as large a ceremony as he and his spouse desire and whether or not she is Catholic.
 
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