Well, my son is gone and the bullying continues

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The girl the OP is taking about is pretty disturbed and is just throwing whatever accusation at him hoping something would stick.
 
Roseeurekacross said:
The catholic church is in a huge scandal at the moment about historical child abuse.

Please stop contributing to it with discussions like this
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In defense of Domer, discussions like this are not how the problems in the Church came about; in fact, it was the contrary: the scandals came about because the concerns of victims or their parents were downplayed, dismissed, or ignored.
 
Discussions that include calling children over sexed, and discussing this with other children are NOT OK

And just reinforce the abysmal attitude to protecting children that led to historic child sex abuse.

They should never be condoned.

We should be saying hey wait a minute. You are calling a child over sexed. That’s not ok

I make absolutely no apologies for this stand and protecting all children
 
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Teenagers cannot be oversexed? Really? They’re actually rather famous for it, as a group. We’re not talking about prepubescents, but high schoolers.
 
Teenagers are children. Children who were subject to historic sex abuse by priests and laity

Teenagers are children who also require protection as children.

We are not talking about adults. We are talking about minors.

Adults runnng around calling minors oversexed is very wrong.
 
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I don’t want to sidetrack this thread, so k will just agree to disagree with you.
 
Hmmm, a lot of times when I changed schools, my old friends and I had little to talk about because I was no longer there, so we ended up being too gossipy.

Maybe if you could arrange more outings with the friends so their friendships could develop in a different direction, that would give them more to talk about?

Your son’s “wanting to know more” may need to be dealt with by you. What’s the benefit he gets from this? I have noticed in myself a tendency to engage in stuff that is not good for me like jealousy and resentment, and I have learned to ask myself that question, altho the answer usually isn’t pretty 😦

In your son’s case it may just be an easy mode of connecting with his friends, but consider that, and ask him about it–it does sound like you two are very close, which is good.
 
I don’t see where Domer, who is the mother, is discussing this with the teens; she is instead discussing it with us.
 
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Where do you think predators come from? Does the ability or desire to predate not appear until someone is 21? No, “children” are capable of predation as well as adults. Then they grow up and have more scope.
 
Kathleen18 said:
Then you as a Mom go to his friends parents and explain that the texting him about this stuff needs to stop. If it doesn’t you take the phone and you block the numbers.You also contact a lawyer or the police…it is obviously harrassment.
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This is sound advice 🙂
Could this work for you and your son @Domer90 ?
It sounds a very worrying situation for you,God bless and I’ll remember you both in my prayers.
 
The mention of Sandy Hook is extremely disturbing.

These teens were 6 when it happened. It was researched by these teens and a red flag. I would report this.

As for the mentally ill young lady, we have to have compassion with language it is invisible disability too that domer was going to lecture about.
 
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Maybe the OP meant Sandy Hook-style rumors in that these teens are accusing him of being a potential school shooter without actually using the term Sandy Hook themselves.

The OP’s choice of words can be really confusing.
 
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