Hi Tristan,
Me again. OK, I totally get what youāre saying about the skimpy clothed women and the people you know and then see at mass and you canāt help but think OMGosh⦠are YOU Catholic?? Because nothing in their life seems the least bit honoring to God. I totally get that. But hereās the thing⦠the Catholic Church is HUGE and there are all sorts of people at different places in their spiritual walk at mass. The good thing is they are AT MASS⦠there are so many people who donāt give a hoot that itās Sunday⦠mass is the last thing on their mind. So yay for them that at least they are there. Maybe this particular Sunday is the first one theyāve been to in awhile? Rather than judging them, itās best that like the other poster said, we let God work on us. None of us are perfect - we are all a work in progress. Some peopleās sins or struggles might be more obvious than our own, but you and I both know - weāve got our own issues.
And finally, as you begin your VERY EXCITING journey toward becoming Catholic, headās up⦠Satan is going to want you to notice everything and everybody in the Church who will cast doubts that this is Godās Holy Church. You will find yourself sitting behind skimpy dressed woman who chat through the entire mass, rather than the very devout family who pray reverently. Itās just the way it works out⦠trust me. It wasnāt so long ago that I was where you are now and it wasnāt the nuts and bolts of the Catholic Faith that almost drove me away - but Catholics themselves, acting how I thought they shouldnāt act. So beware of that little trick of Satanās. Keep your eyes on Him and He will direct your path.
God bless you!!!