Thanks for the additional info, can you help expand on the following issues?
Originally Posted by Aramis
- Set the bar low and encourage going beyond, so all can meet it, vs set the bar high and relax it for those who can’t meet it.
The difference is expressed for example in the approaches to fasting. In the West, a bare minimum is set for fasting regulations (abstinence from meat on Fridays during Lent, obligatory Mass every Sunday, Holy Communion once a year, eating light on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday) while it is expected or encouraged of the faithful that they do much more on their own volition, for the sake of piety (weekly Communion is strongly encouraged, many people go to daily Mass, people are supposed to fast from midnight before receiving Holy Communion although it’s only an hour-long fast on the books, and people are expected to voluntarily to abstain from meat on Fridays and do some kind of penance on Wednesdays, and in general to fast on their own volition).
In the East the standards are MUCH higher - abstinence from oil, alcohol, and any sort of animal product (meat, egg, or dairy) on all Wednesdays and Fridays and every day during four extended fast periods (Great Lent, the Apostle’s Fast in early June, the Dormition Fast in August, and the Philipovka for forty days before Christmas), as well as on the preparation days before big feasts (the Glorification of the Life-Giving Cross, for example). But it’s not a mortal sin if someone is unable to keep this rule, and part of the exercise is to teach us humility through our inability to keep it.
The Communion fast - strict fast (abstinence from booze and animal products) - also lasts for three days, and breaking it does not carry with it the penalty of mortal sin.
Going to Liturgy is also viewed as a privilege rather than as an obligation, so while there are Holy Days of Obligation for Eastern Catholics because we are conforming to the standards set by Rome, traditionally within Orthodoxy instead of making it a mortal sin to skip Liturgy on Sunday, the Church imposed the penalty of excommunication - which I believe was expected to be administered by the priest of the parish or the spiritual father of the excommunicand - on anyone who deliberately avoided the church for three Sundays in a row. It is a privilege and not a duty, but one which we must accept with gratitude.
The tendency to set the bar high but relax it for what the post-Vatican II Church might call “pastoral reasons” also explains why the Orthodox permit divorce when thought necessary but excommunicate widowers who enter into fourth marriages. (Catholics follow the Catholic Church’s teaching on this matter, however.)