What a Priest told me about purgatory

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I’m not sure if this is strictly compatible with Church teaching (I suspect it is), but I think of Purgatory as like military basic training (boot camp). It might be painful but it is necessary in order to make you ready for something greater. Like they said (actually sang) in the old US Army recruitment ads on TV, “Be all that you can be,” and in an infinitely greater way, that’s what we desire for the afterlife.
 
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Sure, venial sin will land you in purgatory if Ieft unconfessed. I know full well that the CCC states that we should go to confession at least once a year, but we should go frequently, even if only to confess venial sin. Many popes have promoted frequent confession for this reason. Mortal sin on the other hand, will land you in hell if left unrepented!
 
It bothers me that OP was never taught this fact about purgatory. I hope we are being more meticulous about teaching the faith these days.
 
waitasecond; if you die in a state of perfect contrition’ you are going to HEAVEN, not purgatory
Well, we read it differently, don’t we? There is no one in purgatory who has not been absolved of their sins, whether their contrition is perfect, or not.

There is no way for human beings to know/ascertain that we are in “a state of perfect contrition” sins some sins are hidden from ourselves.
my “death fantasy” (and i am not a “weirdo” about this sort of thing) is to croak 30 seconds out of confession, kneeling before a statue of Mary with a rosary in my meat hook

so were that to have had happened (i admit a fantasy) i am still going to purgatory???
It is certainly laudable, and to be encouraged. Having been absolved of sin does not preclude purgatory. Jesus forgave the thief on the cross, but instead of taking him along when He died, left him on the cross to suffer for the rest of the day and have his legs broken. He allowed the thief to suffer the temporal punishment of his already forgiven sin.

No one can know what unconscious attachments to sin you may still have. Only God can judge what cleansing we still require, and apply His mercy to do so.
 
Kneeling before Mary? Why not before God?
The two are not separated. As the wise men found Jesus upon the lap of Mary, bowing down to Him, so she is not absent as we kneel before God. She is now ever in His presence, and her soul magnifies the Lord, so as we look at Him through her, He is enlarged and clarified.
 
I am not quite sure where to post this. One of the Diocese’s Priests was doing Mass tonight and I went to confession. We talked a little bit. He said even venial sin would cause you to be in purgatory. Is that right? I have never heard that. But I am not quite sure what examples of venial sins are. I know you can go to Mass and that forgives them. there’s supposed to be other ways too.
I believe (correct me if I’m wrong) that you believe that once a sin has been forgiven that all is done and over. THat is not really the case. Yes the Sin is forgiven and you are no longer in danger of the loss of heaven. But the raimifications of that sin can still be felt throughout the world. This must also be atoned for. Penace reduces this effect to a certain degree.

A good analogy that is given regularirly is that say you break a window and you ask for forgiveness. The window owner forgives you which relieves your guilt of breaking the window. The window however is still broken. That window must still be repaired (reparations must be made to fix the window).

Another property of Purgatory is that it purges any attachment to sin that you have not let go of during your time on earth. These attachments must be purged from your soul to make it pure. For nothing impure will enter heaven.
 
waitasecond; if you die in a state of perfect contrition’ you are going to HEAVEN, not purgatory

am i misunderstanding catholic dogma here?

my “death fantasy” (and i am not a “weirdo” about this sort of thing) is to croak 30 seconds out of confession, kneeling before a statue of Mary with a rosary in my meat hook

so were that to have had happened (i admit a fantasy) i am still going to purgatory???
Possibly! But you don’t have to. You should get to know Saint Therese (the little flower) she will tell you all you need to know about skipping purgatory. She is a wonderful Saint.
 
Not sure why people worry about Purgatory. Anyone who dies and finds themselves in Purgatory should be happy because it means they have been saved. Next stop Heaven.
Saint Therese of Lisieux, tells us we do not have to go through purgatory. GIve her a read to learn how.
 
Well, we read it differently, don’t we? There is no one in purgatory who has not been absolved of their sins, whether their contrition is perfect, or not.
Not true. If you only committed venial sin, and then, without reconciliation, died… you would need purgation (aka ‘purgatory’).

Here’s the way it works:

Everything in heaven is perfect. But, we humans aren’t perfect. So, something needs to happen between ‘death’ and ‘heaven’ to purge us of our imperfections.

What kind of imperfections, you ask? Simple: unrepented venial sin and/or the ‘temporal punishment due to sin’.

After all, venial sin doesn’t sever our relationship with God, it merely harms it. ‘Purgation’ removes that damage to our relationship with God.

In addition, when we sin, we do harm to ourselves and to everyone. Whether or not we go to confession, that harm is real. This is what the ‘temporal punishment due to sin’ is.

So… if you die in a state of mortal sin, your eternal destination is hell.

But, if you die and are not in a state of mortal sin, your eternal destination is heaven. However, if you have unrepented venial sin or still have temporal punishment due to sin… then the process of ‘purgation’ removes these imperfections from you, so that you might enter heaven.

OK? 👍
waitasecond; if you die in a state of perfect contrition’ you are going to HEAVEN, not purgatory

am i misunderstanding catholic dogma here?
“Purgatory” isn’t a final destination. If you “die in a state of perfect contrition” for your sins – presuming that you hadn’t been avoiding the sacrament of reconciliation for quite a while, right? – then your final destination will be heaven… but you might need ‘purgation’ on the way there. 😉
 
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What if someone desired to make a confession, but was unable to because they did not have access to a priest?
That’s what @brian_custer is talking about, more or less, with his appeal to “perfect contrition.”

God is merciful; He knows your heart. We don’t believe that God would say “awww… I would have forgiven you if you’d made it to confession, but since you got hit by a bus on the way, I guess I’ve gotta send you to hell…”

Be at peace. 😉
 
But, if you die and are not in a state of mortal sin, your eternal destination is heaven. However, if you have unrepented venial sin or still have temporal punishment due to sin… then the process of ‘purgation’ removes these imperfections from you, so that you might enter heaven.
Is not everyone in purgatory destined for heaven? St. Paul wrote that he was not aware of anything against Himself, but did not judge himself (worthy of heaven) because there are parts of ourselves we cannot know. We may have unconscious attachments to sin of which we are unaware.
 
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Not sure why people worry about Purgatory. Anyone who dies and finds themselves in Purgatory should be happy because it means they have been saved. Next stop Heaven.
Saint Therese of Lisieux, tells us we do not have to go through purgatory. GIve her a read to learn how.
One of the great saints.

And you are right - if we follow Catholicism closely in its pratices and devotions, all of these are designed to avoid purgatory. It is not something that cannot be done but rather something that is meant for us, by the grace of God that has been poured on us.

And we also pray for the souls in purgatory to quicken their stay there.

The pain in purgatory is real – the suffering of purgatory is likened by the saints to burning in a blazing fire. In fact, some saints have even said that the pain of purgatory is not all that different from the suffering of hell.

In reality, perhaps most of us are simply not holy enough to bypass purgatory, and the vast majority of us will experience its cleansing fires - the suffering, which we would want relief.

God bless.
 
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The pain in purgatory is real – the suffering of purgatory is likened by the saints to burning in a blazing fire. In fact, some saints have even said that the pain of purgatory is not all that different from the suffering of hell.
This contradicts the Church teaching which says it is entirely different from the punishment of the damned.
 
I know by experience that it is easier to get to Jesus via Mary. And by Jesus to God. Be careful that it is not given that you would be deceived as to believe a lie. I know there are similarities. But Jesus gave his mother to the Church and through her come all graces. “Woman behold thy son” and to John “Son behold they Mother.” She is the mediatrix. Sin is real. And not hyperbole.
 
So you say but the phrase used emphasizes bowing before Mary not Jesus.
For us, there is no distinction. Mary only deserves any veneration because Jesus has given it to her.
I can only imagine that IF she is aware of these things she would be abhorred at people kneeling before her humble soul.
She knew that she bore the Son of God, as the Angel told her. She understood that anyone who knelt, did so our of reverence for her Divine Son.
Its incomprehensible to me why people have to take a good thing and love it to its own disgrace because they blindly eat the spoon fed fables they are given.
I do not think it is possible to love the Mother of God “to disgrace”, but I do agree that some people do seem to go “overboard” and treat her like a goddess. I agree that Mary would be abhorred by such behavior. She points to her Son only.

But the Church founded by Christ does not “spoon feed fables”. If people experience this, it is not coming from Christ, or the Church of which He is Head.
 
This contradicts the Church teaching which says it is entirely different from the punishment of the damned.
No, both things are true. Being separated from our attachment to sin can be very painful. Anyone who has ever given up a favorite vice knows this. At the same time, the purification to prepare us for Heaven is entirely different from the punishment of the damned. For those who die in Christ, the final destination is the beatific vision. For those who have rejected God, the final destination is eternal separation from Him.
 
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This contradicts the Church teaching which says it is entirely different from the punishment of the damned.
No, both things are true. Being separated from our attachment to sin can be very painful. Anyone who has ever given up a favorite vice knows this.
Yeah, but the ‘punishment of the damned’ isn’t a “being separated from one’s attachment to sin”… 😉
 
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