I have some bad news for you both. I converted from atheism as a result of a series of supernatural and miraculous events. In a very real sense, I was forced to convert by the very power of God himself. I was not searching, I was not seeking. The events that lead to my conversion came completely from the outside and all the people involved, including the young lady who was killed, were complete strangers to me.
As for the gun being pointed to the head, I believe that was the method Muslims used on two Fox News photo-journalists who converted to Islam after being kidnapped and held hostage in the West Bank in 2006.
See this article.