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powerofk
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As I’ve said before - it seems as if you’re too concerned with the “rules” of the faith. Sure, it seems as our faith has many rules, but, in reality, there are only two: Love God above all & Love your neighbor as a person made in God’s image. Focus on these. Infallibility is a hard, hard concept to understand, especially for those coming from other faith traditions. Breathe. Jesus’s burden is to be light, not heavy. As I’ve said, the “laws” of the Church are just examples of what is love and what is not love. Be willing to let go and let God and His Church transform you. Ask God to help you, and ask Him to help you submit your will to His - the Church exists to perpetuate God’s Will.Thanks everyone for your replies.
What if the Church’s authority is the big thing you’re struggling to believe? How does one get around that? I have a big problem with Infallibility, for example. It’s not that I’m not familiar with what the Church teaches about it, it’s just that it seems misguided to me (and makes me think maybe the “true” Church is really the Orthodox Church or that maybe there is no such thing as a “true” Church).
I’m torn because if God is out there and this is His Church then I don’t want to be disobedient, but it’s possible in my mind that He’s out there and that the Church is a man made institution/or I’m in the wrong Church.
It’s not just the contraception…in general the quantity of rules gets under my skin to the point that I start to think it’s all man made. Not because I don’t like rules and structure, because I do, but because there seem to be SO MANY RULES. It’s so legalistic. I don’t need a rule that says that I have to get to mass every Sunday to make me get to mass 95% of the time. If I love God, it flows naturally to want to make it to church. Plus, I like religion, I like fellowship, I like communion. But some weeks, for whatever reason, I just didn’t feel like going. Maybe because I had family in from out of town and they are not Catholic so had no intention of going to mass and instead wanted to spend all Sunday at a theme park. Maybe because I had a little baby and I was just too exhausted to get out of PJs that day. Whatever. Reasons. Not grave reasons, but reasons nonetheless. In those instances, out of a honest desire to commune with God, I would have felt inclined to make it up and attend on a weekday. But we all know that doesn’t count. And so the guilt would drag me to mass on those types of occasions despite my desire to see my family or get some extra rest. This doesn’t seem right to me. It feels like coercion. It feels like an abuse of authority to say we have to have such strict attendance or else mortal sin/hell. It seems unrealistic. And very petty. These are the types of rules that apply to my life, there are of course a huge amount of rules that apply to other people’s lives that don’t affect me but that I’m aware of and bother me nonetheless because it drives home the point of the Church being so legalistic.
Part of the problem with the Pharisees was that they focused too much on the “letter of the law” and forgot about the “spirit of the law”.