I’ll just focus on the services/mass.
Catholics believe we have valid sacraments and our liturgy is good. The problem arises on the Orthodox end. Most Orthodox priests won’t give you communion, although a larger number might be willing to hear your confession (which is unrelated to mass). Meanwhile, Catholics are much more willing to give us Orthodox communion at their services. Orthodox services however have the antidoron, which is unconsecrated bread. This bread is for everyone, including non-Christians and those Orthodox who did not feel called to the Eucharist. As a former Catholic, I would at least say that attending an Orthodox service is better than no service, even if you are unable to receive communion.
Another issue is that a large number of Orthodox churches don’t use English in their services, although a number of such churches are making the transition by using both English and Greek. Chances are, if you encounter an Antiochan Orthodox Church, they will use English. If it is Greek, I’d say the chances are around 50-50 for exclusive Greek use.
As for commonalities between Catholic and Orthodox vs. Catholic and Protestants, it really depends upon the denomination of Protestantism. If you speak of something like Pentecostals, then yes, Catholics have more in common with us.** If you are talking about the Anglican Church, then Catholics would have more in common with the Anglicans than they would the Orthodox**.