Yes Really. Disobedience from Bishops does not make an apparition a lie/deception.
Firstly, Im not devout to Med. Im devout to Our Lady of Guadalupe and of Fatima (approved apparitions). To me it makes no difference if the apparition is approved or Rejected there. So no I dont believe in the apparition there, because im not required to believe in it. Im not Required to believe in Guadalupe or Fatima either, but I do knowingly they are approved.
Second, behaviour of priests and bishops does not make an apparition a lie. Međugorje has become one of the most popular pilgrimage sites for Catholics in the world and has turned into Europe’s third most important religious place, where each year more than 1 million people visit. All im stating, and which shouldn’t generate more comments really, is that there is no official approval or rejection from the Church.
Third. The Roman Catholic Church has prudently been cautious to approve, disapprove or condemn reported apparitions." In general, studied apparitions are classed as “not worthy of belief,” “not contrary to the Faith,” or “worthy of belief.” The message of an approved apparition cannot have any content that is contrary to the teachings of the Church. The Church has not declared Med to be “not worthy of belief”, at least not yet.
Go to this Link:
campus.udayton.edu/mary/resources/aprtable.html
It classifies the apparitions of the 20th century according to our Church. This site classifies them as follows:
"The Mary Page’s Classification
On our Web site’s apparition directory, the column titled “Approval of Supernatural Character” is marked either “yes,” “negative decision,” or “no decision” depending upon what action the local bishop has taken for the specific apparition. A “yes” denotes that the bishop has concluded the apparition’s character is supernatural. A “negative” decision denotes that there is some problem which the bishop has identified in the apparition and concluded that it does not have a supernatural character. A “no decision” is used to denote one of two possibilities. In one scenario, the bishop is either studying the case or he has studied the case, but the decision cannot be made until further analysis is completed. A second possibility, is that the Church has never begun to study the reported apparition."
If you go to the list there, you would see that there is “no final decision” taken on Medjugorje’s case. This is all im stating. Nothing less, nothing more. Not a “Yes”, Not a “No”. If the Church has not filed a final decision yet, we cannot have assurance that Med’s apparition is a lie/deception, or to be worthy of belief.
Im not defending Med’s case, certainly I am informed of strange things concerning this apparition. All im saying is wait for the Church’s final veridict. If it never comes, In any case, ad if you 2 (Marybeloved and adoglover) find it a deception/lie etc, simply do not believe in it.

I think debating of an unapproved apparition is quite unreasonable.