Anyone else who is not eligible to receive Communion “should not approach Holy Communion nor receive a blessing” As stated in the letter from the CDW, they should neither approach nor receive a blessing
There are no blessings at Communion time, as far as the Church’s liturgical norms are concerned. There is just no such thing. The Roman Missal, the General Instruction, etc. nowhere, absolutely nowhere does the Church allow for blessings at Communion-time. On the other hand, the Church does very strictly prohibit adding anything to the Mass without prior approval from the Holy See
Father, with due respect, and I have esteem for your evident competence with the various issues you capably address, please be advised that what you write is in direct opposition to the dispositions of the Conference of Bishops of England & Wales and the practices that we legitimately have in Europe. I’d be glad if you did not sweepingly indict us or the bishops on the other side of the Atlantic opposite America of wrong doing; we are glad of their leadership and our cordial relations with them. We find our actions quite licit
Norms of the papal court are a thing apart and distinct, but both Popes St John Paul II and Benedict XVI did this; I’ve heard Benedict speak on it. It’s something we implement at diocesan & parish levels. It’s something I do. We use a sign on the continent different from that used by North Americans
Celebrating the Mass: A Pastoral Introduction was published by the Bishops Conference to address matters and provide clarification on the Mass. In Number 212, page 95, we read:
Even though some in the assembly may not receive ‘sacramental’ Communion, all are united in some way by the Holy Spirit. The traditional idea of ‘spiritual’ communion is an important one to remember and reaffirm. The invitation often given at Mass to those who may not receive sacramental communion – for example children before their First Communion and adults who are not Catholics – to receive a ‘blessing’ at the moment of Communion emphasises that a deep spiritual communion is possible even when we do not share together the Sacrament of the Body and Blood of Christ.
liturgyoffice.org.uk/Resources/GIRM/Documents/CTM.pdf
So you disagree with another member of the clergy on this forum. The following is a quote from **Don Ruggero **on this topic. I have highlighted in bold the part that you say is untrue. [Quotes removed]
I find myself a bit in the crossfire. It’s my preference not to escalate this to another series of confrontations needlessly
As zab quotes of me, I’m aware of the letter that was sent to a private person by Father Ward, the Priest Under Secretary for the Congregation of Divine Worship (CDW) and the Discipline of the Sacraments.
He wrote his reflection under the rubric that “this matter is presently under the attentive study of the Congregation” and he added that “for the present, this dicastery wishes to limit itself to the following observations”. The observations are useful but they’ve not been enacted by a positive act and we still await a definitive ruling, after 8 years.
Meanwhile, Father Ward has received company. Arthur Roche, the former Bishop of Leeds and Chairman of the Department for Christian Life & Worship of the Conference of Bishops of England & Wales, who oversaw the document I quoted above and wrote its forward, was appointed as His Grace, the Archbishop Secretary for the CDW!
Joined by a new CDW prefect, His Eminence Robert Cardinal Sarah, it is hoped that the issue could be brought to resolution.
I’ve visited with various clerics with strong opinions about this matter.
The Archdiocese of New York in the United States has a very good statement which I think sounds a balanced approach to a contentious issue that concerns the expression by gestures of what we can all agree are very different values.
*Should an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion give a blessing to one who comes forward in the Communion procession, but who does not wish to receive the Eucharist?
No. In this case, an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion should direct the individual who wishes to receive a blessing to the nearest priest or deacon. In general, the practice of giving blessings in the course of distributing Holy Communion is discouraged (see Congregation for Divine Worship and Discipline of the Sacraments, (Protocol No. 930/08/L).*
nyliturgy.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/EMHCGuidelines10.12.141.pdf
I don’t know where the original poster resides.
If she resides in the United Kingdom, the custom is well established and the poster should come forward for a blessing if she wants to. No one is forced!
If she lives on the continent, it is a norm also there but check carefully before proceeding as the gesture does vary and using a gesture of another land or culture can be very confusing to us. Eastern Catholics who wish to receive here in a Latin rite parish use a gesture identical to the gesture Americans use to indicate they want a blessing rather than receiving
If she lives in USA…I shall leave that to the American clergy to sort out. In the Archdiocese of New York it’s “discouraged.” I know some bishops have banned and reprobated the practice. While I appreciate the rationale they present, it really has to be understood as proper to the limits of their jurisdiction. It does not apply beyond. If the bishop orders it not to happen, it should not happen by clergy or laity in that diocese. If he allows it or does not forbid it, it is the discretion of the priest. If the priest allows it, it is the discretion of the person to go forward or not
Beyond that, I prefer not to discuss differing opinions as they serve little purpose in the absence of authoritative pronouncement