i have this doubt that i dont seem to have a good answer.
can we buy stuff? i mean if i go to walmart or another store i know they have to work all the day, so am i somehow supporting them to not respect the Lord’s day? or going to the store, that opens all day like any other day.
i really like going shopping or at least to look around, but i dont want to make others to sin, since for them it would be just work.
It all depends on whether you follow the Traditional Teachings of the Church, or the not-so-defined teachings of Vatican II. If you want to follow the Traditional Teachings, then really you should not buy anything that is not necessary. For example, in the 1962 Missal published by Baronius Press Ltd, it states in its “Devotions for Confession” in the section regarding Examination of Conscience that, and I quote: “Have you kept holy the Lord’s Day, and all other days commanded to be kept holy? Bought or sold things, not of necessity, on that day? Done or commanded some servile work not of necessity? Missed Mass or been wilfully distracted at Mass? Talked, gazed or laughed in Church? Profaned the day by dancing, drinking, gambling, etc?”
Going out clothes shopping on a Sunday when you have plenty of clothes IS a sin! If you had a family day on Sunday, and you forgot to buy the chicken, I suppose that wouldn’t be a sin, since Sundays are about family.
Also, Sundays are about God, so try to do things which please God and not yourself. Read the Bible more, say another Rosary, burn candles or incense, chant the Divine Office (in Latin if you have it), meditate on a verse from Sacred Scripture etc. You could also tidy your house. Even as God ordered the Universe, so you can order the chaos in your house to reflect the order of creation. This is what I do. I like to tidy and clean on Sundays, offering my work as an act of adoration to the Most Blessed Trinity. Think about what would please the Father. Also, think of it as Father’s Day! When Father’s Day comes around, you go and give gifts to your father, and spend time with him. Well, is not your Father in Heaven more deserving of your time and love?! It can be hard to fulfil your obligations during the working week, so try to make up for it on Sundays.
On another note, the 1917 Code of Canon Law defined servile work as heavy work lasting more than 2 hours. The modern Code doesn’t define what it means by servile work. I tend to find that post-Vatican II documents don’t really define what it means, which causes the sorts of crises that are in the Church today. I tend to follow the more traditional practices of the Church, even if they seem to be “medieval”! But, it works for me!
If you are struggling between what to do, then pray. God will answer your prayer in good time. Say a Rosary every day for nine days to ask Our Lady to help you understand what God’s Will is for you. You could also read “Introduction to the Devout Life” by St. Francis de Sales. It is amazing! You could also pray to him, and ask him to help and guidance. And if God doesn’t seem to be answering you, then maybe He wants you to try out different things. I don’t think He will send you to Hell for trying! Find out what helps you to glorify God on His Holy Day.
Hope this helps. God bless.