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RoryMcKenzie56
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Tone matters VetA.
I am probably more in disagreement with Mark as one who assists almost exclusively at SSPX Masses than you. St. Paul was “all things to all men that he might by all means save some”. There is nothing wrong with giving the truth in doses if you will. If the full truth kills, it seems wrong to “call it like it is”. Our goal is to persuade, not be merely correct. And if people hate us, if we offend them, they are disinclined to listen. It is important to be truthful and amiable at the same time.
I hope my own tone is not perceived as condemnatory of you. I am sure you mean well, but our Lord condescends to consider our frailties, and charity does to others as Jesus has done to us.
Mark, do you think my children’s confessions to SSPX priests are invalid? They are not responsible for our decision to take them there. Would you be able to make an exception in their case? Or would you hold that any mortal sins they may have confessed and been absolved of by our SSPX priest are still on their souls? Or would you perhaps at least be willing to confess to not knowing for sure?
Thanks for your consideration.
Rory
I am probably more in disagreement with Mark as one who assists almost exclusively at SSPX Masses than you. St. Paul was “all things to all men that he might by all means save some”. There is nothing wrong with giving the truth in doses if you will. If the full truth kills, it seems wrong to “call it like it is”. Our goal is to persuade, not be merely correct. And if people hate us, if we offend them, they are disinclined to listen. It is important to be truthful and amiable at the same time.
I hope my own tone is not perceived as condemnatory of you. I am sure you mean well, but our Lord condescends to consider our frailties, and charity does to others as Jesus has done to us.
Mark, do you think my children’s confessions to SSPX priests are invalid? They are not responsible for our decision to take them there. Would you be able to make an exception in their case? Or would you hold that any mortal sins they may have confessed and been absolved of by our SSPX priest are still on their souls? Or would you perhaps at least be willing to confess to not knowing for sure?
Thanks for your consideration.
Rory