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Monica4316
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I feel drawn to Carmelite and Passionist spiritualities… also the Dominicans, but I don’t know very much about them.
I would have to agree with your two statements above. No doubt about personality and favorite saints making a difference.Do you agree that attraction to a particular spirituality has a lot to do with one’s personality? In other words, an introverted person may be more attracted to a cloistered lifestyle and vice versa? And people tend to be attracted to a particular religious order because they identify with one or two of its Saint’s personality?
That is a good point. I originally did not know that the Carmelites have an active branch because my first Carmelite contact was with the Teresian cloistered Carmelites. They were accessible to where I lived and I got to know them well. No other religious Order attracted me since.I would have to agree with your two statements above. No doubt about personality and favorite saints making a difference.
But I have to say that location might play a part in all of this. By that I mean, if you live close to a Passionist monastery and have been going there for awhile, you’ve had the chance to become intimately involved and exposed to their charism and way of life. That alone makes it easier to come to know, connect with and love their spirtuality. Now you might be in love with the Benedictines or Carthusians, but if they don’t have a monastery close by, or at least some kind of personal support, you are likely never to become involved with them in the same way.
I think the chance to actually attend a monastery makes a big difference…
Great! Do you have Carmelite Nun or Sisters where you are?What Catholic spirituality attracts and inspires me? All of it. Every time I learn about a new saint etc I feel blessed to be a part of such a wonderful church that produced so many amazing people like St Damien of Molokai, all of the Teresas, Thomas Aquinas, Ignatius of Loyola, and so on. That said the spirituality that attracts me the most is one I somehow didnt know much about until recently and when I learned about I thought it and its saints were nuts and wanted to avoid it at all costs. That changed though and now Im very pro Carmelite.
for good Jesuits too like Fr Pacwa and my sd.
Much to my surprise yes but not that close to me. According to this OCD site there are a total of nine Carmels in Japan.Great! Do you have Carmelite Nun or Sisters where you are?
My thoughts exactly. I’m very thankful to God for all. That is why I had to ask the question Can a person be attracted and inspired by more than one order or Saint? Curious that’s all.What Catholic spirituality attracts and inspires me? All of it. Every time I learn about a new saint etc I feel blessed to be a part of such a wonderful church that produced so many amazing people like St Damien of Molokai, all of the Teresas, Thomas Aquinas, Ignatius of Loyola, and so on. That said the spirituality that attracts me the most is one I somehow didnt know much about until recently and when I learned about I thought it and its saints were nuts and wanted to avoid it at all costs. That changed though and now Im very pro Carmelite.
for good Jesuits too like Fr Pacwa and my sd.
not to mention Saints Elias(Elijah) and Eliseus(Elisha; Hellenic names are so nice).:yup: Our Lady of Mt. Carmel was one of, if not the first, apparitions of Mary I read about when starting to learn about the Catholic faith. I learned about the Brown Scapular, and the Rosary, too. I’ve been a Carmelite at heart ever since! (funny since my mom always says I look good in brown - carmelite color) I think Mary definately had a hand in my conversion.![]()
Do you agree that attraction to a particular spirituality has a lot to do with one’s personality? In other words, an introverted person may be more attracted to a cloistered lifestyle and vice versa? And people tend to be attracted to a particular religious order because they identify with one or two of its Saint’s personality?
I agree with both of those things. The two things that really attracted me to the Dominicans are the fact that I went there for the profession of vows, then on retreat with them, and I really love to learn and study. The more I’ve found out about them the more I see how Dominican I have been my whole life without knowing it.I would have to agree with your two statements above. No doubt about personality and favorite saints making a difference.
But I have to say that location might play a part in all of this. By that I mean, if you live close to a Passionist monastery and have been going there for awhile, you’ve had the chance to become intimately involved and exposed to their charism and way of life. That alone makes it easier to come to know, connect with and love their spirtuality. Now you might be in love with the Benedictines or Carthusians, but if they don’t have a monastery close by, or at least some kind of personal support, you are likely never to become involved with them in the same way.
I think the chance to actually attend a monastery makes a big difference…
Me?:compcoff:Spirituality is an age-old concept in the Catholic Church. Simply put, it means an attraction to a particular way of living your spiritual life or your relationship with God, which affects your attitudes and way of thinking. Some people get their inspiration from a particular Saint, taking the saint’s example and virtues, as a way to live their lives. God gave us canonized Saints to highlight their virtues for the faithful’s imitation. Some spirituality are inspired by a religious Order’s spirit and charism. What about you?



To some extent, I identify myself with St. John the Baptist.not to mention Saints Elias(Elijah) and Eliseus(Elisha; Hellenic names are so nice).
Does the’austerity bit’ do it for you?As among Secular Franciscans and Third Order Dominicans(Secular, not Tertiary), whom would you say is more austere? As for lay orders in general, would not that probably be applied to Discalced Carmelites?
That’s great!Me?:compcoff:
I would say that there are two major influences in my life as of RIGHT NOW. This subject to change, of course:coffeeread:
The first influences is the Confraternity of Penitents, by which I live the old Franciscan Rule For The Third Order Of The Continent, sometimes referred to as the rule of the year 1221. Esentially a life of quiet, unassuming penance and prayer in the priuvacy of our homes. Simple clothing, few posessions, frequent fasting and absitenance, and all that good stuff.
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You should really give the credit to Saint Francis. I get the impression that he wanted his Third Order, even if living in the midst of the secular world, to eat to live, not live to eat.:tsktsk:That’s great!
I applaud your choice to live a life of abstinence and fasting in an age of such gluttony and wasteful consumerism!:clapping: