I have started a response to your comments on annulment. While I am not totally sure about the Pauline Privilege, there is one annulment form which, in mind, seems to refer to it.
In the meantime, I was checking the thread to see what replies you had and I spotted the item above regarding the extra stuff.
In general, Marian doctrines flow from the original doctrine of Theokotos. CCC 66 refers to this process in general.
scborromeo.org/ccc/para/66.htm
This process begins with a true statement such as Theokotos. Through study and prayer, often over centuries, the Catholic Church finds necessary truths which relate to Theokotos. My friend calls these truths indirect doctrines.
The doctrine of the Assumption of Mary is based on her position as Theokotos in that being the Mother of God, she would naturally be assumed into heaven. One description of the assumption is that it was the happy departure of Mary from this life. Certainly, this is what Jesus would want for His mother. As I understand the doctrine, it is the “departure into heaven” which is important and not necessarily death as we experience it. However, please check the actual declaration document.
The co-redemptrix or mediatrix theory which we currently hear about is not a doctrine.
It is a proposal. This means that this theory is still under study. Regardless of how adamant its proponents are, it is not a necessary belief.
The doctrine of Mary’s immaculate conception follows from Theokotos because human preparation for Theokotos is involved. The womb which nourished God would not be part of a wounded nature. Thus, Mary was preserved from the normal transmission of the state of original sin. The intimate love between Mother and Divine Child did not cease.
Yes, there are Saints. My mother is a Saint whose feast day is November 1, “Feast of all Saints.” The word “saint” simply says that the person is in heaven. I know I do not have the authority to call my Mother a Saint; but, it is her love for Jesus and all people that I consider saintly. When I remember her, it is kind of like talking to her.
Getting back to “but prayer is to God and God alone” Prayer to God is a necessity. Whether one prays to additional people in heaven is a personal decision. Yes, Catholicism does encourage prayer to Mary. And I would suggest that one at least winks at her.
Acknowledging Mary as Theokotos is appropriate. Appreciating her as Theokotos is also appropriate. As Theokotos, Mary emphasizes that God is primary. Nonetheless, praising her and thanking her for her motherhood is good – Hail Mary full of grace. It is all right to throw in a petition or two as long as you remember that she is secondary.
Eventually, I hope to get back to my reply on annulments.