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StephieNorthCo
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If you google san diego reader events. Every time I’m looking for something happening (concert etc) it shows up. Not sure why or how they do it, but… there it is.
So true… I am glad you have been able to bring people back.Yes for many people beautiful Liturgy appeals… I can speak first hand as a convert. I led a lady to the Church in this manner as well. I simply brought her to a beautiful, reverent OF Mass with polyphony, incense, chant… and she was hooked. An agnostic cousin of mine who can’t stand Evangelical praise and worship style services of his youth also has shown an interest in Catholicism thanks to the couple reverent Masses I’ve taken him to.
The Council of Trent condemned as heresy the notion that external symbolism doesn’t matter… because the Church has always understood that it the externals are how we reach people…
It does get very frustrating after awhile. Rather than take action (after sufficient review and planning), nothing gets done. We intellectualize about the problems, we craft excuses for their existence and in the end all they do is multiply. @ComplineSanFran 's story consumed some of my thoughts and prayers today. What he experienced sounds chillingly like my parish. How could such conditions possibly exist? They exist because no effort is made to solve them. More effort is often expended on ignoring them or actually choosing to believe they don’t exist in the first place.I’m sorry, the post asked about improving mass attendance. I didn’t realize we had to clear the “not attending” reasons with your expectations before we consider options.
I will just go tell them they should know better. That’ll solve it.
People complain about not feeling welcome and we roll out donut Sunday.
People complain about the lack of reverence and get told “Well you should put up with everything because it is Christ.”
Yes, it is a grand mystery why the pews are empty.
May I tell you of one experience I had not long ago? I am a cradle Episcopalian and have always been active in my parish. However, I had heard of one RC church here in San Francisco and decided to visit it to see what it was like. (I often have opportune to visit churches in other denominations - much learning to be done from different branches of the Church).
I got to the church, and walked up the steps. There was no one to greet me. I saw a bulletin lying on a table, so I took one, and went to find a seat. I said my prayers and looked around a bit. The church was filling up; there were older women in lace head coverings, there were students from the local university, there were families, there were gay couples (this is San Francisco, so quite expected), there were single people sitting alone.
The mass began with the entrance hymn but no one sang. A few people mumbled their way through the music. The sound system was WAY too loud and only picked up the music director singing.
The homily was - honestly? - pretty boring, I saw iPhones coming out at that point. Communion happened and most people left after receiving. I stayed but as we finished the last verse of the closing hymn, there were only about a dozen of us left. I looked around and the church was empty. The priest was at the back door talking to a few people, but he didn’t seem to see me waiting to introduce myself. So I went home.
Now I have been to Catholic masses many, many times, and they have not all been this way. But let me tell you, on this particular Sunday at this particular parish, I felt unwelcomed. There was no passing of the peace, so I didn’t even have a chance to say hello to the people around me.
So, to answer to OP’s question: perhaps be a bit more welcoming and inviting. Be glad people are in your pews. This is your community of faith.
Colleges often have late Masses. We used to go to an 11 PM Sunday one, as I recall.I live near OSU’s campus (You can guess which one of the 3) and the Newman Center 930 is always packed
Possibly. There is only one other RC parish in town plus the Newman Center. I think it would draw a HUGE number of college-aged kids.It would draw people from other parishes, as they would use the 10PM Mass as an excuse to sleep in or simply has an option. But I’ve never met anyone (besides college kids) who said “without an evening Mass, I would never go to Church” (though I’m sure there are a few people who work on Sundays who might be in that boat).
Not just priests. Many people in the Church. It is good to see that on many campuses (or next to campuses) there is more action in ministering to the faithful.But I don’t think priests lacking an ability to “think outside the box” is reason why many parishes do not have evening masses.
Isn’t that one of the possible consequences of following a priestly vocation? If an additional evening Mass attracted more people to attend Mass, how could not locking up one’s Sunday evening take precedence? If an extra 1K attended Mass would it be worth locking up a Sunday evening? How about 500 or 100?Most diocesan priests live in the diocese they are from, and often have family near by. Most priests I know, like to spend time with their family on Sundays (if possible). So if Father often visits with his brother’s family for dinner, etc on Sunday nights (or even some Sunday nights) he’s not going to be open to scheduling an evening Sunday Mass. Esp if he doesn’t have someone who can cover for him on nights he can’t celebrate Mass.
For diocesan priests, having a Sunday night mass locks up their Sunday evenings, which is why most local diocesan priests are not open to scheduling a Sunday evening Mass.
Yup. Meat processing towns like Chicago had 03:00 Sunday Masses. Detroit and Flint had 04:00 Masses. My own home town had a 06:00 “Milker’s Mass” to support the dairy industry.BTW - In the Northeast, it was not uncommon for some city parishes to have very early morning Masses at times like 2AM for people who worked for Newspapers.
I understand what you are saying, but I’ve also heard priests say “we are people too and need downtime just like everyone else.” The last thing a parish needs is a burned out priest.Isn’t that one of the possible consequences of following a priestly vocation? If an additional evening Mass attracted more people to attend Mass, how could not locking up one’s Sunday evening take precedence? If an extra 1K attended Mass would it be worth locking up a Sunday evening? How about 500 or 100?
Conversely, when there are parishes with multiple priests (including quite a few who are not elderly) and also probably 6 to 10 parishes within a couple miles of each other, would it be so much to ask that they try to stagger their Sunday Mass times a little rather than having 8 out of the 10 parishes having Masses at exactly the same hours in the morning?Should a 60 year-old pastor be forced to give up spending Sunday evenings with his brother or sister just because some people would rather sleep in on Sundays?
There’s 6 other days in the week. I’m serious about that.I understand what you are saying, but I’ve also heard priests say “we are people too and need downtime just like everyone else.” The last thing a parish needs is a burned out priest.
How about we ask this question: Should a priest celebrate a Mass on Sunday night if it will mean that another 200 people will attend Mass each Sunday?Should a 60 year-old pastor be forced to give up spending Sunday evenings with his brother or sister just because some people would rather sleep in on Sundays?
Pretty much any Catholic parish in the town I live in could be considered to have a “college ministry” – if it chose to.Now, if a Pastor has a college ministry… that’s different. College ministries should be offering one or more Sunday evening masses.
On the good side, maybe that allows the priests to go to the games, right?NOTE: with this said, I’ve seen many parishes in NYC and Long Island offering Sunday night masses (7 or 8PM) due to sports. I’m not sure how I feel about it (because it obviously means sports is being prioritized over Mass), but it does offer an option to parents who would normally say no to Sunday sports.
NOW THIS IS SOMETHING I AGREE 100%!!!phil19034:![]()
Conversely, when there are parishes with multiple priests (including quite a few who are not elderly) and also probably 6 to 10 parishes within a couple miles of each other, would it be so much to ask that they try to stagger their Sunday Mass times a little rather than having 8 out of the 10 parishes having Masses at exactly the same hours in the morning?Should a 60 year-old pastor be forced to give up spending Sunday evenings with his brother or sister just because some people would rather sleep in on Sundays?
Look, I don’t disagree with you. I think you have a valid point. I’m just arguing the position that I’ve heard from some priests.phil19034:![]()
There’s 6 other days in the week. I’m serious about that.I understand what you are saying, but I’ve also heard priests say “we are people too and need downtime just like everyone else.” The last thing a parish needs is a burned out priest.
How about we ask this question: Should a priest celebrate a Mass on Sunday night if it will mean that another 200 people will attend Mass each Sunday?Should a 60 year-old pastor be forced to give up spending Sunday evenings with his brother or sister just because some people would rather sleep in on Sundays?
Pretty much any Catholic parish in the town I live in could be considered to have a “college ministry” – if it chose to.Now, if a Pastor has a college ministry… that’s different. College ministries should be offering one or more Sunday evening masses.
That precisely should be happening at the level of the deanery, with and under the Vicar Forane.Conversely, when there are parishes with multiple priests (including quite a few who are not elderly) and also probably 6 to 10 parishes within a couple miles of each other, would it be so much to ask that they try to stagger their Sunday Mass times a little rather than having 8 out of the 10 parishes having Masses at exactly the same hours in the morning?
And their position is correct.I’m just arguing the position that I’ve heard from some priests.
I would say none of that. Mass is not entertainment, it is worship and on certain days, obligatory. People attending mass are not to be entertained but because it is obligatory worship. Just like eating, mass is a part of our lives.In your opinion, what could be done to most improve Sunday Mass attendance in your parish? Things that are actually controllable at the parish level? My top 5 would be:
- Celebrate ALL Masses in a highly reverent manner.
- Spend the resources to craft and support the Masses – good music and capable musicians, carefully selected and well-trained ministers, etc.
- If the parish is large enough, “tune” Masses to their audiences, e.g. Family Mass, Solemn Mass, Teen/College Mass, etc.
- Ongoing adult catechesis focused on the liturgy. (I would recommend 5 minute or less lessons that effectively complete homilies.)
- Fellowship hour following each Mass.
No where in my posting did I suggest it was.I would say none of that. Mass is not entertainment
I suspect a great many more would be willing to sacrifice 90 minutes of their Sunday evening if it meant more souls attending the Mass.Look, I don’t disagree with you. I think you have a valid point. I’m just arguing the position that I’ve heard from some priests.