Luke 6:30 : Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back.
So if someone takes my expensive computer or if an old lady who can barely survive with her money gets robbed me or she aren’t supposed to demand our stuff back?
Also “Give to everyone who asks you”, if someone asks for your expensive computer will you just give it to him? Or if someone asks something all day (for example, come to town with me, come play with me,…) are you supposed to say yes to everything?
The key to understanding such verses is contained in the second great commandment…Love your neighbor as yourself (Mt 22:36-40) This is also echoed in the so called “Golden Rule” which just so happens to be the very next verse, Luke 6:31 - Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".
Thistle’s reply - a quote from a commentary and from St Augustine -likewise echoes this idea of treating others as we would wish to be treated.
The thing to remember is that this works in different ways. If you were in need - surely you would wish others to share with you, but you would not (or at least should not) wish them to do so to the point of injuring themselves or denying necessaries to their children or spouse etc…so you would only ask for what you truly need - and no more.
So - when considering how to respond to someone who asks of you - you must consider what you would wish the reply to be if you were in their shoes.
The issue of stealing is something more difficult. Yet still the “Golden Rules” still applies. If you would not steal…it is reasonable to expect not to be stolen from. But charity must prevail in all things. The question needs to be asked why they stole…how much did they take…was it from your necessaries or from your abundance…What is the best and most loving way to deal with the matter (if they are caught).
Another aspect of this is that as Christians we should not become attached to “things”. Remember the Rich young man who could not let go of his possessions even though doing so would help him achieve perfection.
If someone takes something that is unimportant to us…do we worry about getting it back? Probably not. If it is important and we want/need it back…is it important for the right reasons and is our attitude toward the one who took it a charitable one?
Obviously there are not easy and clear cut answers to these things. Only prayer and meditation on God’s Love toward us and how we can best show that Love to the world.
Peace
James