A Capuchin priest used to call the daily struggles of our daily difficulties and responsibilities in living good Catholic lives, ‘the gray martyrdom’.
Humble though our daily lives, in these lived in love of God and in quiet, faithful love of others, regardless of how we feel, is surely taking up our cross in union with Jesus.
It is of great significance in this regard, that God did not become incarnate as a glorious, adult, human personage,
but as a little child, who lived and grew in a life that is barely mentioned in the gospels…with all the ‘ordinary’ challenges of humanity.
“He fully divine and fully human” genuinely lived those first 30 years, in what Father John called, “the gray martyrdom”… of a life of goodness and love, lived in family union. In living thus, Jesus showed us the value of carrying our crosses in our ordinary daily lives