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Disciple96
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There are several reasons that I find this post disturbing. But the main one is the attempt to drive home the notion that this fight is not worth fighting and isn’t ours to fight anyway. And my answer to that is; Oh, really? Then whose? The Lord expects to stand up when we see abuse and say something about it. Stick with what is safe? How courageous. And the dig at benedictgal about her status or power in her diocese, really, that was simply an attempt to belittle her and trivialize this whole argument.Why do you tune in and listen to these kinds of things?
It upsets you and there’s nothing you can do. It’s not your fight. So why do you keep asking for a punch in the face?
But then why criticize it? You did what the Lord asks and fulfilled your obligation. Just give it to Him. Just put up with it for that one week and next week, get back on track with whatever Mass you love and find uplifting, and be grateful that you don’t have to attend a Mass that doesn’t fit you.
benedictgal, you’ve described many times how even in your own parish, music that is not the best continues. You seem to spend your whole life fighting for the perfect Mass, yet you are not in any position of authority to be able to effect changes in abuses or deficiences in the Mass. I may be wrong, but it really doesn’t sound to me like you are a layperson with an “in” into the diocese that gives you a little bit of “power” to get things changed.
It sounds like you talk to priests and bishops and write letters and most of them keep brushing you off.
This must be extremely frustrating and discouraging. Why do you keep it up?
I know you don’t want to give up, and that you keep hoping that your struggle will make a difference someday. But in the meantime, why deliberately visit Masses that you KNOW will be bad?
I really don’t get it. When something upsets me, and there’s nothing I can do about it, I try not to go there. It’s not good for me.
But I think you’re fighting a battle that is not yours to fight.
I’ve wondered this about other people on this forum. It seems that the people who really despise the abuses the most are the ones who keep finding them. Then why don’t they stick with what’s safe? Or–if they continue to find abuses in EVERY Mass all over the world, then maybe??? they should consider that the Mass they’re looking for doesn’t really exist.
And I could turn this around and say to you: If liturgical abuses don’t bother you and/or if you don’t like reading about them, why do you read posts in threads like these? Why not stick to a subject that is safe or more to your liking? Why insult someone who is knowledgeable and is trying to do the right thing, the proper and devout thing? If you prefer to serve the Lord by sticking to what is safe, then, by all means, stick to that. And have the courtesy to allow others to wage the battle in your stead. You’ll benefit from it in the long run, whether you choose to engage in the battle yourself or not.
I could turn it around like that. But I won’t. It’s too petty and does nothing to foster the fraternal charity that we are supposed to practice toward each other. God bless you, Cat. May the peace of our Lord, Jesus Christ, be with you, now and always.