But one passage I found in the Diary of St. Faustina (1628). Our Lord told Faustina that she would recognize that she had love for her enemies… if she retained her peace and prayed for them… and wished them well.
Thanks… This made me realize i could be in sin :
I do not retain my peace very well when people do me wrong. Oh, i keep my peace while in the situation, while in the midst of dealing w/ them… but then later, when alone, i go on and on about it, to myself and/or to God…
I am getting better about this (anyone who stays in Christ usually does

) but, well, sometimes one has to examine the “psychology” of what is going on within… take a look @ the issues going on deep inside… (not always easy… ).
one Hail Mary is usually all I can muster up… in this situation.

but, I’m working on it. Pray for me.
That is more than i usually manage…

But while i admit i probbaly should say the Hail Mary or other formulated prayers as soon as a problem arises… it may also be good to do what I am now doing: take a good look @ such questions as: Why do i feel SO offended? (did i find offense where maybe none was intended? do i expect too much from the person, am i seeing things through tainted lenses, etc.).
another thing 2 remember (but not easy 2 remember when in the middle of things:whacky:

uch: ) is that God uses unpleasant experiences w/ others to make us realize more fully that they cannot be for us what only He (Jesus) can be…