I am with you 100%. We ought to believe things because they are true, not because they are comforting.
But this thought ought to rankle atheists just a bit: atheism has no answer to this particular question: why is there evil?
Clearly when we look at the world we see: we should not be this way! We should not be enjoying a feast while a beggar is at the end of the table in want of some nourishment.
And yet we do.
Why?
Many atheists DO feel they have an answer for that question. And many people don’t accept that answer as satisfactory.
Many theists feel they have an answer for that questions. And many people don’t accept that answer as satisfactory.
It is not true that no atheist has an answer, but it might be true that none has an answer that is satisfactory to you.
No matter where one falls on the theism scale, there is not “default” answer that can be considered ultimately true.
I don’t see anything better or more true in telling one’s daughter that a journalist was beheaded because there is a God. Nor is it more comforting.
If we come back round to being able to use God to supply comfort by saying that in the end the evil will be punished, that may bring comfort to one who believes it, but again, there is no proof that compels one to believe it.
I am not arguing FOR atheism. I am pointing out that weak arguments for either side get us nowhere.
The idea that one should believe because they might get a chance to say “told you so” in the afterlife, is an insulting and ridiculous argument for faith.
The deepest desire for some sort of ultimate justice is noble, but even that desire is not proof that such justice, or the God who might meet it out is real.
In the end they are dressed up versions of the age old arguement that the Universe could not have created itself…therefore…God.
And the response that God could not have created himself…therefore…question remains unanswered.
And people with what they feel is AN answer claiming by default they win because someone else is willing to honestly say “I don’t know”.
Trying to corner one’s opponent into saying “I don’t know” doesn’t automatically make the one with what they consider an answer correct.
Likewise, telling an opponent that any answer they supply is unsatisfactory, doesn’t make their answer incorrect or mean they must keep trying to provide answers that will make everyone happy.
You are intelligent, and you know all this.
It is my opinion that many arguments and discussions like this one are insulting and do disservice to any notion of God or faith.
I learn more about faith, and a person’s understanding of God when they share it with me, rather than try to use arguments to convince me why I should believe the same.
Several months ago there was a discussion where someone put forth the example of shark rape as proof for God. I know that such arguments and “lines of reasoning” have given the impression to many that believers are fools and unworthy of respect or intelligent discourse and that if indeed they are properly representing their God, that he is likewise a fool and unworthy of respect.
Unfortunately people (and deities) are often judged by the company they keep.
Both theists and atheists get painted with a broad brush based on some of their loudest examples, not necessarily by their best or most representative ones.