I agree here. I did choose the option to avoid HP or LOTR or similar but not because I think it should be avoided altogether but I do think age makes a big difference, so I guess I just think that there are appropriate times to avoid magic and times it is okay.
God bless.
I think there certainly can be some people who should avoid HP, LOTR, etc, and I can think of some morally problematic aspects to Harry Potter even without the magic part. I think older tweens and teens can deal with it, but younger kids might not.
Option 2 still comes closest to my overall take on this, much as I’d state that “alcohol in moderation is not a sin” but I do realize that there are SOME people who shouldn’t drink alcohol at all, whether they are recovering alcoholics, recovering from some other addiction, have some medical reason not to, etc.
BTW regarding popular franchises that feature magical beings, I also think
Twilight is very problematic in the way it describes supposed “ideal” romance, it also winds up with what even the author admits is an “anti-human” message that depicts the vampires as obviously superior to humans, and to whom mere human morality is irrelevant.
I don’t think it’s going to inspire anyone to actually believe vamps are real or to go drink anyone’s blood. But I do think it’s far from harmless, especially when it comes to preteens and below.
I also think that merely depicting occult beings is not the same as endorsement. Most vampire stories, even those with sympathetic vampires such as the Lestat books, don’t really show them as living ideal lives that humans should envy.
Another show popular in its time with teenagers that had “good vampires” was Buffy the Vampire Slayer, the Angel character is “good” for most of the show, one could also argue that Spike starts out evil and becomes good (though some would disagree), but vampires are still portrayed as “evil” overall in the show and only a few misguided humans actually want to become vampires.
It also helps that the Buffyverse vampires can be killed fairly easily by normal humans using the standard methods such as staking, exposure to the sunlight, burning them, etc. Garlic and crosses don’t kill them but do repel them. While it helps to have superpowers like Buffy doses, her non-superpowered friends actually do help her in most of the episodes.
Twi-pires, on the other hand, can essentially only be killed by burning them AFTER their bodies have been torn apart. So they can only be killed either by fellow vampires, or the werewolves. Mere humans are totally helpless against them. I also thought it very icky how the idea of the werewolves “imprinting” on women (or little girls) was portrayed as superior to human methods of finding a mate.