What does an excellent Confirmation program for teens look like?

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Our parish is looking to revamp our Confirmation program. It is geared towards teens (mostly freshmen). The youth ministers implements it. Currently, the kid’s sponsors are the primary educators. This has mixed results since many sponsors are older friends and siblings. The text is not heretical, but not that great either. The kids meet three times in big groups, have a retreat (usually a touch feelly New Agish thing), and do community service. There must be something screwy with the Youth Ministry formation because all the Confirmation retreats have been so bad. The one I went to as a sponsor the facilitators put on a pagan creation myth skit and had the kids decorate cardboard boxes to symbolize their “gift” to the Church.

I’m thinking apologetics would be a good foundation.

I am on the committee for revamping this. Personally, I’d like to see Confirmation take place much much younger. These kids need those Graces!!

Does anyone have any experience of a good program? Any resources?
 
My eldest son dropped out of our church program for Confirmation because it was so half baked. They meet once a month for 1 hour in groups of 10 kids and one group leader and they have a retreat…it was a joke he learned more in Religion class at school than at Chruch!!!

we switched mid year to another parish confirmation program…his first meeting was this past Sunday and when he was done he actually was excited!
this new church has meetings every Sunday from 830am to 10pm and then they attend the 10am Mass. The instructor is well known in our Diocese and is WONDERFUL! They discuss what they learn the Priest is actively involved in the process unlike our old parish and as soon as I can I will get you the name of the book that they use.
 
JMJ Theresa:
Our parish is looking to revamp our Confirmation program. It is geared towards teens (mostly freshmen). The youth ministers implements it. Currently, the kid’s sponsors are the primary educators. This has mixed results since many sponsors are older friends and siblings. The text is not heretical, but not that great either. The kids meet three times in big groups, have a retreat (usually a touch feelly New Agish thing), and do community service. There must be something screwy with the Youth Ministry formation because all the Confirmation retreats have been so bad. The one I went to as a sponsor the facilitators put on a pagan creation myth skit and had the kids decorate cardboard boxes to symbolize their “gift” to the Church.

I’m thinking apologetics would be a good foundation.

I am on the committee for revamping this. Personally, I’d like to see Confirmation take place much much younger. These kids need those Graces!!

Does anyone have any experience of a good program? Any resources?
I think Apologetics has a place. Also Church History specifically the Martyrs and those persecuted for the Faith. I think that our teens today need to really understand that many Christians died for the faith. Social justice and social morality also fit in here. The Saints like Maximilian Kolbe and Archbishop Romero and even John Paul II how he stood against communism and it’s treatment of people as things.
 
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Karin:
The instructor is well known in our Diocese and is WONDERFUL!
Hi, Karin. It is nice to see a neighbor on these boards. If you don’t mind me asking, are you in the Diocese of Trenton by any chance?
 
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Seamus:
Hi, Karin. It is nice to see a neighbor on these boards. If you don’t mind me asking, are you in the Diocese of Trenton by any chance?
Hi Seamus…

HOWDY!!! So what exit of the turnpike are ya:) ?!?! (Sorry you know all Jersey folks always ask this question)
We are in the Diocese of Newark…at the rate we are going though we may end up in the Trenton Diocese…we seem to keep going further south in our search for a Chruch that is not in left field somewhere…we found one in Orange that we like but it is still to early to tell:)
 
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Karin:
Hi Seamus…HOWDY!!! So what exit of the turnpike are ya:) !!!
Hi, and thanks for the chuckle your post gave me. Readers that don’t live in New Jersey might not know that our exits generally correspond to mile markers. As such, if someone in Jersey knows what your exit is, they almost always know just how far away they live from you. (e.g., Let’s see … The Oranges are in the 140s … I am at 109 … Hmmm… Hey, I am about 45 minutes south of Karin.)

To answer your question, I am very much a Jersey Shore sort of guy. As such, when we speak of exits, we are almost always talking about one’s exit on the GSP (Garden State Parkway). That said, get off on Exit 109 and take Rt. 520 through Red Bank (where I work) into Rumson … 🙂
 
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Seamus:
Hi, and thanks for the chuckle your post gave me. Readers that don’t live in New Jersey might not know that our exits generally correspond to mile markers. As such, if someone in Jersey knows what your exit is, they almost always know just how far away they live from you. (e.g., Let’s see … The Oranges are in the 140s … I am at 109 … Hmmm… Hey, I am about 45 minutes south of Karin.)
Well actually I am exit 18W on the Turnpike and we commute to the Oranges to go to Church 🙂 …so I think we are even further apart than 45 minutes
 
JMJ Theresa,
I think I still have the list of questions my kids had to answer in their confirmation training. If I still have it, I could send you a copy if that helps. I do know that our parish really hit on contributing to the community and required the kids to do 30 hours community service hours and they (gasp) had to sign into mass for a year. The kids that didn’t pass the test got one more chance to pass, otherwise they had to make arrangements to learn all the things they were asked about over. My parish is very conservative so the program was pretty demanding. Basically the questions would show you all the areas they were taught from and may give you some insight as to what our DRE thought was important.

If you want the questions…pm me OK?
 
Ideally, it doesn’t exist because we really should be confirming folks in 2nd grade.
 
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frommi:
Ideally, it doesn’t exist because we really should be confirming folks in 2nd grade.
Agreed!

However since we follow the German model we must work with what we have.

I would actually suggest calling St. Thomas Aquinas Parish Youth Office in Rio Rancho, NM. They have one of the most outstanding Confirmation programs that I have ever seen. It has been a great success in the Archdiocese and if anyone wants any suggestions about the Confirmation program or Youth Ministry in general I am sure that the Youth Ministers would be more than happy to assist.
 
since our diocese until recently had no officially approved Confirmation program, and until recently the bishops did not issue any guidelines on high school texts, I was on my own when I took this DRE job 4 years ago. I began with Confirming Faith by Ave Maria Press because these were the manuals and student workbooks I found in the office, so I assumed they okay. The trouble is this program relies heavily on mentors or sponsors, which were not forthcoming in this parish.

We struggled for a few years but this year we have an excellent team of catechists and a high school text which is excellent, which we are using for the second year. It is Introduction to Catholicism by the Midwest Theological Forum. There are 4 books in this series, intended for Catholic High Schools, and if I were a school principal I wouldn’t even bother to look at the competition.

Confirmation in this diocese is age 16, and requires a minimum of 6 candidate/parent/sponsor sessions, a retreat and a service component.

This parish is one of the strictest. We require that the candidate have been attending CCD regularly for at least two years. The 9th & 10th grade curriculum is broken into blocks which must be completed concurrently with the candidate/sponsor sessions, keyed to the Catechism and the layout of the textbook: The Creed, Sacraments and Liturgy, Moral Life in Christ, and Christian Prayer and Spirituality. Each of these blocks ends with a mini-retreat or day of recollection.

The actual Confirmation preparation component at the candidate sponsor sessions uses the pamphlet “Getting Confirmed” by Liguori, which is approved by the diocese. We cover this in the first session. The remaining sessions are based on a resource I found from Ignatius Press: Sacrament of Confirmation, which comes with a 4-part video by Bishop Wuerl, a catechist guide, and a student guide. It works well with 4 session (2 hrs each) or an all day retreat. These are on Sunday afternoons during the year. With these resources we cover the Church, Sacraments of Initiation, The Rite of Confirmation, and Discipleship.

Our Confirmation retreat or “Spirit Day” focuses on the Holy Spirit, based on scripture and the catechism. If we could get parents to chaperone this would be an overnight, which is mandated by the diocese, but I just have not been able to get the help up until now. This is held at the nearby Campus Ministry Center, and we have priests from a nearby charismatic parish help with the presentations.

Another part of our program is optional small faith-sharing groups (about half the candidates participate). This is an outgrowth of 2 years ago, when we found ourselves with only a couple of adult catechists. We trained the previous year’s confirmandi, who were eager to help, as small group facilitators with a lectionary based resource. It was very successful, and we made up with doctrinal content by having a few sessions with our pastor presenting key topics.

I guage our success by the fact that at least half the confirmands return the following year either as volunteer catechists elsewhere in the program, in other parish ministries, or as small group leaders for our discipleship and evangelization program (small but growing). Some also participate in adult ed, apologetics and bible studies. We have had a smaller confirmation class each year, because the requirements have become stricter (including dress code) but a higher percentage of confirmands return and remain active in parish programs and RE.

Also students who dropped out a few years ago are returning as seniors or college students to rejoin a Confirmation program. We have a satellite program on the nearby college campus, since many go to school there. We use the same materials and format, modified for adult needs, for adult Confirmation programs.
 
If there is not a youth group in the parish, confirmation class should meet every week- or at the very least, every other week. If you meet once a month, kids forget what you’ve talked about by the time the next meeting comes along- plus, they don’t have a chance to get to know each other well enough to be open and ask questions.

I would use the Baltimore Catechism as the basis for the class, and have discussions on things that are related to the questions in it. I would NOT lower the age Confirmation is received.
 
Thanks for the replies so far. PuzzleAnnie, wow. What a great program. Can I ask how many kids you see go through? We usually have a large group–50-80 kids. I really like your texts. I may use them myself when my kids get to high school.

I’m not sure what the committee/youth minister will go for, though, so I am really hoping for more suggestions. Even if your parish program isn’t great overall, does it have some good components?

Also, I’d really like more details and (name removed by moderator)ut on Confirmation retreats. Ours is really really ineffectual and New Agish.

I’m wondering if the youth minister should really be overseeing Confirmation. It seems like the training of YM in our area seems to focus on whether a luau or a costume party would get better attendance. Although, I’d say our YM is very organized and gregarious.
 
A.M.D.G.

I’m not sure if you’re still interested in a good Confirmation program, but one that I know of is called “Oneight” by Life Teen. store.lifeteen.com/oneight.aspx there is a link if anyone is interested!

Pax et Bonum,
JeffreyH
 
A.M.D.G.

I’m not sure if you’re still interested in a good Confirmation program, but one that I know of is called “Oneight” by Life Teen. store.lifeteen.com/oneight.aspx there is a link if anyone is interested!

Pax et Bonum,
JeffreyH
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