Earlier you said she was a Catholic, specifically a Greek Orthodox Catholic who follows a Patriarch - which would refer to a Melkite Greek Catholic who has a Patriarch that is in communion with Rome.
The Catholic Church is clear that woman may use abortive forms of medication & surgeries as long as the use of them is not intended to abort a child - per Pro-Life protest speaking on Catholic Answers. They gave some examples - a pregnant woman with cancer in the uterus may have surgery to remove the uterus based on the intent being to remove the cancer, but had the negative side affect of killing her baby. Another example, if the birth control pill fixes an ailment the woman is suffering, she can take it for that purpose.
An Orthodox spiritual father and a couple may end up discussing and receive a blessing to temporarily use a non-abortive birth control such as NFP - but you’re right, the spiritual father who knows the couple will discern whether or not such a dramatic thing is necessary for the health well being of the couple and their existing children.
In Orthodoxy, everything is surrendered to God and every one has a spiritual father to whom obedience is due. Orthodoxy isn’t just a “Jesus and me” religion. Christ established His Church to guide and direct us in all things!
A. She said Orthodox. I know of NO Orthodox churches
in Communion with Rome. Please list them for me.
B. she did not want me to have an abortion. She did
not want me to end an existing pregnancy. She wanted a tubal ligation
to prevent any future children based on a random
supposition that IF I became pregnant I MIGHT die,
but not necessarily.
Please show me in the RC where that is a permissible
action.
C. This was thirty years ago. I distemember whether
she said Patriarchs or what. My understanding was
somehow her own church had some sort of council
that left these decisions to the women. My understanding
from counseling other Orthodox women who have
had miscarriages stillborns and abortions that this
permission for birth control and tubal ligation is
the norm not the exception.
D. If the Orthodox opinion is that all must be obedient
to God and all submitted to God- then answer
the following- is God infallible?
If the answer is yes God is infallible if I say God
is infallible is there some possibility I could be wrong?
Because I’m a fallible human being, does my stating
God is infallible subject to error?
If yes than God is NOT infallible is he?
If God Himself is not infallible than the Orthodox yes
have made their point and the Petrine seat should
step down immediately.
If God is infallible then the Orthodox should rightly
assume that he who says God is infallible is a fallible
human being and has spoken infallibly on Gods infallibility.
And should immediately recognize their own error
in refusing to state clearly who and what God actually is.
If God is the creator intentionally of all living beings
and is the creator of conception do the Orthodox
then put forth that the infallible God makes mistakes
in conception? If so God is not infallible.
If God, being infallible, cannot make a mistake in
conception, then there is no possibility that there is
ever a divine reason for birth control or abortion.
If there is never a holy reason to assume that God
erred in the conception of s human being within a
human being than all cases of abortion become
a matter of grave issue and abortion becomes
an inherently evil act.
If the Pope states this, defends God’s infallibility
in matters of procreation, he himself is a fallible
human being who has made an infallible statement.
It is the subject being addressed that is infallible in
Nature and not the Pope himself.
So what I see when I view all the Orthodox views
on the subject on CA is a. Either the Orthodox believe
still that their God is not infallible and could potentially
err so do not allow the nature of His infallibility
to be stated by fallible humans, or B. they know
God is infallible but refuse to state such as an infallible
statement because of either obstinate or fear
of reprisal but who knows why?
If God is infallible, than my saying God is infallible
IS infallible- not me but the statement.
And it should be considered infallible coming from
the mouth of any Tom, Dick and Harry and should
have not caused fear and anger out of the mouth
of the Pope. It should not have taken a Pope to
say it- you should have said solong ago.
Unless of course a nagging suspicion remains that
there might be the occasional error on the part of
God, he makes mistakes when creating life that
are subject to our correction on His behalf.