What does homeschooling mean to you?

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Title says it all. It occurred to me in a different discussion here that part of the communication difficulty lay in the fact that people have a wide range of ideas about what’s “homeschool” or “homeschooling” when they think about it or discuss what they do educationally.

So, what does homeschooling mean to you? How would you define it?
 
To us, it means providing a classical Catholic education for ourselves, children and parents learning together. Both parents teaching, using Catholic materials, including teacher manuals where appropriate. The only secular source we use is Saxon Math. We do our own field trips as a family. We incorporate playing outside with neighbors and park days with other homeschool families for fun and fresh air. We do religious education with the parish, in addition to religious studies and catechism memorization work that we do as a family at home. Next year, we hope to be able to do more, but we have been through a rough year and we are trying to build up our health and wellbeing and develop solid routines this year. At some point, we intend to learn a musical instrument as a family, maybe guitar, but we are starting with recorders this year.

So for us, it is more of a holistic lifestyle approach, relying upon wonderful curriculum that suits us, but creating our own lessons and assessments as appropriate, and making learning a family endeavor. Also, incorporating hobbies and interests as subjects/samples for their portfolios, instead of leaving those for outside of “school” boundaries. But above all, maintaining as our focus the purpose of man, “to know, love, and serve God in this life, and to be happy with Him forever in Heaven.”
 
Parent-directed education occurring primarily at home, perhaps with some co-op or outside classes being taken. I would not include cyberschool or independent studies programs coordinated by schools.
 
To us, it means providing a classical Catholic education for ourselves, children and parents learning together. Both parents teaching, using Catholic materials, including teacher manuals where appropriate. The only secular source we use is Saxon Math. We do our own field trips as a family. We incorporate playing outside with neighbors and park days with other homeschool families for fun and fresh air. We do religious education with the parish, in addition to religious studies and catechism memorization work that we do as a family at home. Next year, we hope to be able to do more, but we have been through a rough year and we are trying to build up our health and wellbeing and develop solid routines this year. At some point, we intend to learn a musical instrument as a family, maybe guitar, but we are starting with recorders this year.

So for us, it is more of a holistic lifestyle approach, relying upon wonderful curriculum that suits us, but creating our own lessons and assessments as appropriate, and making learning a family endeavor. Also, incorporating hobbies and interests as subjects/samples for their portfolios, instead of leaving those for outside of “school” boundaries. But above all, maintaining as our focus the purpose of man, “to know, love, and serve God in this life, and to be happy with Him forever in Heaven.”
I totally agree with this POST 👍 That is pretty much what it means to us. It also means freedom and flexibility. Every new year brings different surprises and curriculum ideas with different children having different needs:juggle:
 
I think of homeschool as any type of formal education taking place in the home - so that would mean a parent-created curriculum, a purchased curriculum, or even an online/distance learning curriculum where teaching an evaluation are done by a third party. Not sure if I would count hiring a tutor, but I guess considering my criteria I would have to.🤷

I know families who do all of the above (or a combination) and they all refer to it as “homeschool.” So that’s all that accounts for my definition.😛
 
Parent-directed education occurring primarily at home, perhaps with some co-op or outside classes being taken. I would not include cyberschool or independent studies programs coordinated by schools.
Why wouldn’t you include cyberschool?
 
Somewhat related:

There’s a new school in our area that offers three days a week of in-class instruction and then the other two days are at home. I believe they offer materials for the two days at home, which might or might not be a good thing. It’s positioning itself as a budget classical school, which may or may not be a winner.

Our private school used to offer a two day a week program for homeschoolers, with the two days covering art, art history, music, music history, PE–basically, the non-core subjects. They discontinued it, which may or may not have something to do with the new school picking up the baton of 1/2 week school.
 
The comments were the kind of thing I was looking for, the different definitions people operate under.

I have to think about it myself, I think for me it comes down to how much parent-management is happening. The parents don’t have to be the only or even primary ones teaching, they can simply be managing the people who do teach.

But it’s why I started the thread, to think about it more systematically.
 
This isn’t really my turf, but I have been struck by the fact that our family does a number of things that I’ve heard homeschoolers mention.

I got deeply into the school curriculum wars about 9 years ago and used to hang out a lot with the excellent Kitchen Table Math online community–it was an “afterschooler” community at the time of parents talking about their kids’ school work and how to survive middle school. (Our oldest was just starting pre-K at the time.) One of the things I learned from my time with the math wars parents is the need to take a lot of responsibility for kids’ education, even when they are supposed to be in a good school.

Here are some of the things we’ve done at home:

–lots of reading instruction and practice for both of our older kids (I own a huge library of little phonics books) starting seriously around 4. With my middle child, there was a time where I was afraid he was going to learn to read before he potty trained…
–lots of Kumon workbooks (especially math–I really love their Geometry and Measurement series)
–a lot of home reading and audiobooks
–my husband reading “serious” books with the kids–Platonic dialogs, C.S. Lewis’s Mere Christianity, a book about catastrophic building failures, etc.
–Kindles for the kids, loaded with free classics (Dumas and huge fat Polish historical novels are less frightful on the Kindle)
–lots of nature documentaries (hey pandas, make an effort!)
–my husband does lots of documentary viewing with the kids–often on technical subjects
–we also have to do 100% of our sex ed ourselves (school doesn’t do it)
–there are also some shenanigans with PE at school (long story), so we need to keep our oldest active–we should be doing more than we are

The kids also do academic contests from time to time, which our oldest LOVES. The best is the county fair here, which offers cash prizes. We also have done the summer library reading program many times.

I was mostly able to relax on the reading and math once we had the kids settled into our current private school, but we still do a lot of enrichment type stuff. I’ve also pulled back a bit from supervising school stuff once we had our third child (the big kids had to be put on the honor system), but now that our youngest is 3, I’m more or less back in the loop. The online grade check system helps a lot.

Aside from the stuff we do at home, there are also some more or less necessary educational things we outsource:

–home ec (we’ve done cooking classes and sewing classes)
–music lessons
–computer programming (kinda sorta–my husband teaches a summer course and our oldest has taken the course)
 
Why wouldn’t you include cyberschool?
It’s not really a program set and executed by the parents. I wouldn’t call online university classes homeschooling, for instance, since they’re an institution’s classes occurring in a home setting. Obviously, other people have other definitions–hence the question posed by this thread.
 
This isn’t really my turf, but I have been struck by the fact that our family does a number of things that I’ve heard homeschoolers mention.

I got deeply into the school curriculum wars about 9 years ago and used to hang out a lot with the excellent Kitchen Table Math online community–it was an “afterschooler” community at the time of parents talking about their kids’ school work and how to survive middle school. (Our oldest was just starting pre-K at the time.) One of the things I learned from my time with the math wars parents is the need to take a lot of responsibility for kids’ education, even when they are supposed to be in a good school.

Here are some of the things we’ve done at home:

–lots of reading instruction and practice for both of our older kids (I own a huge library of little phonics books) starting seriously around 4. With my middle child, there was a time where I was afraid he was going to learn to read before he potty trained…
–lots of Kumon workbooks (especially math–I really love their Geometry and Measurement series)
–a lot of home reading and audiobooks
–my husband reading “serious” books with the kids–Platonic dialogs, C.S. Lewis’s Mere Christianity, a book about catastrophic building failures, etc.
–Kindles for the kids, loaded with free classics (Dumas and huge fat Polish historical novels are less frightful on the Kindle)
–lots of nature documentaries (hey pandas, make an effort!)
–my husband does lots of documentary viewing with the kids–often on technical subjects
–we also have to do 100% of our sex ed ourselves (school doesn’t do it)
–there are also some shenanigans with PE at school (long story), so we need to keep our oldest active–we should be doing more than we are

The kids also do academic contests from time to time, which our oldest LOVES. The best is the county fair here, which offers cash prizes. We also have done the summer library reading program many times.

I was mostly able to relax on the reading and math once we had the kids settled into our current private school, but we still do a lot of enrichment type stuff. I’ve also pulled back a bit from supervising school stuff once we had our third child (the big kids had to be put on the honor system), but now that our youngest is 3, I’m more or less back in the loop. The online grade check system helps a lot.

Aside from the stuff we do at home, there are also some more or less necessary educational things we outsource:

–home ec (we’ve done cooking classes and sewing classes)
–music lessons
–computer programming (kinda sorta–my husband teaches a summer course and our oldest has taken the course)
If I haven’t said so before, your family’s education choices sound pretty close to ideal, IMO. I know you said you use a Christian private school, too, but your emphasis upon forming well-rounded children and making education and enrichment a lifestyle, is right up our alley. If we had a school that we could afford that solid and had a good community, we would seriously consider transitioning, but keeping the rest of the lifestyle perspective even if we get help with the daytime teaching.
 
It’s not really a program set and executed by the parents. I wouldn’t call online university classes homeschooling, for instance, since they’re an institution’s classes occurring in a home setting. Obviously, other people have other definitions–hence the question posed by this thread.
No, they don’t call it homeschooling, for obvious reasons, but it kind of is. Online classes have come along way as far as their credibility, but online colleges don’t have the same pull with some employers. It does depend on the position though, but they would rather that there be some affiliation with a brick-and-mortar school. But I digress…

If the involvement of the parents’ is there, I don’t see it as different. I know many families that have home schooled and in one case, the younger kids were taught using books and other materials and tools provided by a company but the older child used the state’s online high school. II don’t see how one is homechooling and one is not.

One friend just started homeschooling her 10 y.o. this fall. There are online classes; some are required to be attended “live” while others can be done using a podcast (her daughter prefers the live classes because of the interaction with the other students and teacher). But there are field trips, hands on work, as well as some organizational needs that requires a parent to be involved. I hear about everything they are doing and this kid is spending most of her time with her parents or in art or dance classes, things that the home school program doesn’t offer, and not with the cyber class. And everyone, parents and student, are really loving the process.
 
It’s not really a program set and executed by the parents. I wouldn’t call online university classes homeschooling, for instance, since they’re an institution’s classes occurring in a home setting. Obviously, other people have other definitions–hence the question posed by this thread.
It was confusion on my part. I cyber school and we teach 7th grade religion and go to weekly adoration with son. I could never homeschool because I have no support from DH–horribly demanding job–and I would not know how to teach.

So we are not a Dugger-like family. Homeschool to me meant lack of brick & mortar school.
 
If I haven’t said so before, your family’s education choices sound pretty close to ideal, IMO. I know you said you use a Christian private school, too, but your emphasis upon forming well-rounded children and making education and enrichment a lifestyle, is right up our alley. If we had a school that we could afford that solid and had a good community, we would seriously consider transitioning, but keeping the rest of the lifestyle perspective even if we get help with the daytime teaching.
Awwww! That’s very sweet.

Yes, we use a private Protestant school. For us, it’s mainly a matter of figuring out where the gaps are and filling them.
 
Only through observance and some contact with homeschoolers I see excellent catachesis of the Catholic Faith and a vital integration of Church and education.
 
Homeschooling to me means either geographic necessity or a serious personal commitment to meet all aspects of a childs formation within the home and family in a way that prepares them for life after school.

I distrust and object to the principle that distorts the lovely African tribal proverb which states “I’ve seen the village and I don’t want it to raise my child”. I think if you have so much contempt for the village… don’t take from it. Go it on your own and be like the Amish. People that exploit the benefits and the generosity of the ‘village’ while at the same time demonising it are just hypocrits in my opinion.
 
Children that don’t go to a brick and mortar school and have very dedicated parents. I help with homework, and that is difficult enough for me…

I never met a homeschool family in real life.:eek:
 
There are many different methods to homeschooling. online, unit studies, living books, parent led, child led, school at home, etc. So I don’t get hung up on method.

I draw the line on who is funding it? If it’s private funded, parents paying 100% for it, directly out of their pocket, it’s homeschooling. If it’s funded by the government in any shape or form then it’s public school at home and no longer homeschooling.

Many homeschool advocate groups like HSLDA draw the line in the sand at the same point. If you are using a public school at home option HSLDA will not allow you to join or will not cover you … because using public school at home is not homeschooling. So I look at the same way if a advocate group like HSLDA will let your join then you are homeschooling if they turn you down because of your schooling method then you are not actually homeschooling.
 
I draw the line on who is funding it? If it’s private funded, parents paying 100% for it, directly out of their pocket, it’s homeschooling. If it’s funded by the government in any shape or form then it’s public school at home and no longer homeschooling.

Many homeschool advocate groups like HSLDA draw the line in the sand at the same point. If you are using a public school at home option HSLDA will not allow you to join or will not cover you … because using public school at home is not homeschooling. So I look at the same way if a advocate group like HSLDA will let your join then you are homeschooling if they turn you down because of your schooling method then you are not actually homeschooling.
As homeschooling evolves (and grows), the marketplace is noticing…look at all the curriculum providers, umbrella schools, hybrid options with public schools. They’re chasing dollars. So where homeschooling used to be parents assuming all responsibility for curriculum, instruction, assessment, recordkeeping, costs, etc., these days the waters are getting pretty muddy.

Also keep in mind that given changes in government-funded education, (such as closely monitored school “performance” via testing, and federal dollars tied to the actual number of students attending the public school) the public schools are very eager (some are desperate) to get and keep students’ butts in their chairs. Especially the high-performing butts, of which homeschoolers are a significant percentage. Hence, the government is trying to lure families with attractive “compromise” options - dual schooling, hybrid schooling, “free” curriculum and even cash incentives (at least when we lived in AK, they were throwing computers and cash at HS families) to allow them to register the kids on their public roll…boosting their census, boosting their federal aid dollars, and, if you read the fine print on the agreement, allowing them to retain significant control over curriculum, testing, and sometimes even methods. Caveat emptor.

So I think I agree with Mommyof2green’s observation, in part. If the parents ultimately are the legal entity responsible for financing, selecting, implementing, and assessing the educational program, then it’s homeschooling in the true sense.

I would have to add a category of “hybrid” schooling, where the parents are responsible for certain aspects (selecting an umbrella school, such as Oak Meadow), supervising day-to-day work of the children via instruction or selecting third-party instructors (co-ops, cyberclasses, dual-enrollment with a public/private institution), but have ceded power/authority to outside organizations in other areas. For example, Oak Meadow will sell a parent a box of curriculum/supplies as a one-off transaction - from that point on, what the parent does is his/her own business. But Oak Meadow also offers a “distance ed” enrollment…the parent receives the box 'o stuff, supervises the day to day activities, performs instruction…but they are required by Oak Meadow to submit work every couple weeks, which is graded by the OM teachers, records are maintained by OM, and the student follows the OM course of study, resulting in an OM diploma. In some states, this actually counts as private school enrollment, legally, so that family wouldn’t be listed as HSers. In my current state, MA, the OM distance-ed enrollment is not sufficient for homeschooling. The parent still must submit an education plan to the local district annually, and submit an annual progress report/evaluation (there are few options for this, but the bottom line is, parents have the ultimate responsiblity). So all these “dual” things are murky, indeed. People interested in home education should carefully research the legal requirements in their state/district as they select their HS format/curriculum/method.

To speak to Mommyof2green’s comment about the HSLDA, I think it stresses the importance of carefully looking at all obligations contracted by use of third-party providers in homeschooling, whether it’s an umbrella school, curriculum provider, public school program, co-op, independent teacher-evaluator, testing compay…there can be some unfortunate fine print that might “bite back” farther down the road. It’s important to keep one eye on The Big Picture for your children and for your family.
 
I got deeply into the school curriculum wars about 9 years ago and used to hang out a lot with the excellent Kitchen Table Math online community–it was an “afterschooler” community at the time of parents talking about their kids’ school work and how to survive middle school. (Our oldest was just starting pre-K at the time.) One of the things I learned from my time with the math wars parents is the need to take a lot of responsibility for kids’ education, even when they are supposed to be in a good school.
This is actually “a thing” in home education parlance - most often, it’s called “After Schooling”. It developed as a way to assist the families that offered education above and beyond the child’s day-to-day formal instruction, also to define supplemental education that completes or reinforces the formal (day-to-day) schooling. Most parents actually ‘after school’, if they’re helping with homework or school projects. But (probably again following the money) curriculum providers and educational organizations saw the opportunity in offering supplemental materials, “independent study” courses, tutoring (à la Sylvan), and enrichment programs to these families. While it is not monitored by the state (as yet), after-schooling certainly counts as home education, or homeschooling. Parents who are big on portfolio/resume/application development for their kids can get a LOT of mileage out of the after-schooling thing. For older kids in a competitive environment (academic or employment), it can really make a difference. So it may be worth documenting privately, for future use.
 
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