Hi everyone. New reader and first time poster so please be gentle!
Where I come from it has never, in my memory, been a problem to use female altar-servers. Admittedly I’m relatively young; I probably didn’t pay too much attention before I was 6 (when the rules were changed), lol. I suppose because of this I find it quite odd that the idea of female servers poses a problem. It provides people, regardless of gender, with a great way to be actively participating in the Mass. This is good because, contrary to what some people here are suggesting, the Mass is not simply a spectacle that is to be observed. Rather, it is a sacrament that the community participates in, in various ways. This can be as simple as joining in with the congregation when they say prayers, or it could be taking a more active role; such as that of a music minister or an altar-server. That said, one is not obliged to take on such roles if they don’t want to – however if one is both able and willing I don’t see why there should be something stopping them.
So my question is – why not? I believe that Jesus would be absolutely thrilled that there would be women who wished to serve him in any way they could. So far nobody has been able to provide an adequate reason as to why any girl or women should not be allowed to be an altar-server. To prove this, I want to discuss the common responses we are getting here:
Male altar-servers are the way it’s always been. If it ain’t broke don’t fix it!
I’ll be frank “because it’s always been that way” is not a good excuse at all. For a long time women weren’t allowed to vote, or get certain jobs simply because of the fact that they were biologically different. Did that make it right? At risk of sounding like an extreme bra-burning feminist (not that I have any bras to burn, being a guy, lol) the answer is no. Of course not! Heck, for a long time in some Western countries women weren’t even allowed to refuse their husband sex if they didn’t feel like it at the time (to use and extreme example)! I’m sure many people are glad society changed their attitude on that issue.
The idea that “if something isn’t broken that we shouldn’t try to improve on it” is also lazy at best. Sure, we could sufficient. However I personally don’t think that “sufficient” is a good enough. Female altar-servers certainly don’t make a Mass any
worse, and the opportunity to serve God in this way may even bring some of these young ladies closer to God. We all have our own unique spiritualities and I think we would be failing our duties as Christians if we were to deny a girl or woman the chance to get closer to God - if this is one way she may do so.
By having female altar-servers we are denying young men the chance to be altar-servers. This is having a negative impact upon vocations to the priesthood.
This one is equally hard to swallow. In my experience no guy is ever denied the chance to become an altar-boy by the presence of a young lady who wishes to do the role too. Both male and female altar-servers can serve alongside each other if both wish to volunteer for the role.
Some people suggested that seeing women doing this role would mean that people would see it as a “girly” task and therefore not decide to do it. Again, this is really not the case. I don’t know about you, but when someone says to me “altar-server” my mind still automatically conjures images of altar-boys moreso than altar-girls. Not necessarily because I think this should be the case, but because in the public eye the role is still seen as predominantly male. Where I come from we still generally have a relatively equal number of boys and girls as altar-servers; thus it has become more of a unisex role.
The idea of the altar-server as priest-in-training has also faded into obscurity in recent years. As a result, it is not necessarily the case that those choosing not to be altar-boys will miss hearing their call to the priesthood (although, as I said above, the likelihood that a boy would not choose to be an altar-server because a girl also does the role is quite miniscule). This leads on to my next point:
Women altar-servers are a devious back-door into promoting the idea of women priests!
See what I just said – but basically the idea of altar-servers as a lead-in to the priesthood is not prevalent in today’s society.
The female altar-servers have girly-bits that might distract the men of the congregation.
Yes, but the same could be said about the effect of attractive male altar-servers on the young women of the congregation.
Since ugly altar-servers may distract people I propose that instead we put aside the idea of gender and only allow really average-looking people of either gender to be altar-servers. Thus no lust and no problem! (/joke)
Women are inherently moody and emotional. Especially when ‘that time of the month’ comes around!
I’m sure that many women would be offended by the first half of this point as it suggests that they lack the self-control to perform a task without letting their emotions interfere. In most lines of work this generally doesn’t prove to be a problem, I don’t see why it would be any different in altar-serving. I’ve also met some pretty emotional men in my time who certainly need to get control of their emotions better than some of the women I know.
Part 2: While PMS does exist (I’m not a PMS denier!), it generally doesn’t prevent most women from doing tasks they have been assigned. Yes, for some women it can be a problem but generally most have a level of self-control that allows them to overcome their mood-swings.
(I have to cut my post here, it’s too long, lol. More in the next post…)