Your somewhat snide response doesn’t surprise me in the least. Are you one of the 20% and would you like to be more involved?
How condescending. But not at all surprising.
I have been a catechist for years and years, over twenty to be precise, and I have had to fight with DRE’s every step of the way just to present lessons that focus on anything other than,
Just remember God always loves you. Where entire classes became nothing more than coffee clatches where the main topic of discussion was whose husband or boyfriend or wife or girlfriend had been cheating or worse. Or perhaps the memorable night when the DRE, The Deacon three other instructors and about four of the power elite in the Church showed up at my class to take the candidates to a Charismatic service at a local pentecostal evangelical church because the Spirit was really touching them over there and that was more important.
They wanted minimal taught of the faith preferring to say that the Church had made mistakes in the past but was now open to all and judged no one as in the past. Doctrine meant not as much as love for each other and respect and acceptance of all, no matter what they did or how they lived their lives. The candidates and catechumen came to me often, explaining that I had been wrong in what I had taught them. The DRE had told them so. Of course when confronted the DRE denied these things saying the “newbies” had misunderstood her.
I have had to argue mightily with the self appointed guardians of the faith, the Extraordinary Ministers who take it upon themselves to commune themselves and their partners, both married and domestic, before the Priests because after all we are a priestly people correct? And as such, they didn’t have to wait for some Priest to do anything really, not if it was holding them up.
I have had ushers, ushers mind you, tell my non baptized pupils that I was wrong for teaching them that to receive Holy Communion they were to be Baptized Catholics in a state of grace and of the right intention and encouraging them, indeed almost pulling them out of their seats so that they could go receive from their, the ushers wives or lovers or girlfriends or whoever else was up there that day because not enough were in attendance to justify having 10-15 of them standing around the Sanctuary basically doing nothing.
I saw good solid orthodox priests beaten down by the liturgy committees who critiqued their homilies after Mass and threatened to report them to the Bishop if the homilies didn’t represent what
THEY thought was important and relevant to the community, which they as the self appointed spokespersons for decided was correct. In fact, the chairperson of this group often wrote her own homilies and gave them to the Priest and was enraged if he changed them or preached something else. One elderly Priest, a very solid man practically begged the music director to play the Regina Coeli and Holy God We Praise Thy Name during a Mass being offered for his, the Priests deceased mother, as she had always loved the songs. The Director laughed at him and said the days of those songs was long over and that no one would even know them or even listen to them. So he refused to play them.

He was a big proponent of Lifeteen Masses and always had a good crowd of young people, particularly young girls, hanging around him.
I saw a Deacon, instruct my pupils that there was no such thing as Hell or even a judgement, because a loving God, which we have, would never allow any of his children to suffer eternal torment and anyone and anything who said differently was a Nazi.
So you can talk all you want. You can say that in your parish it isn’t like that, that yours is orthodox and good. Great:thumbsup: . I’m happy for you. I’m glad that there are places where there are those who respect the Church and her teachings. Keep it that way, please.
But don’t think for a minute that my experience with these people is unique or rare. It happens all too often…
Oh and lest you think differently,these experiences were not tied to one parish or even one region of the country.