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Thank you for your time and explanation. Some stuff here that I hadn’t considered before.
Pax
Thank you for your time and explanation. Some stuff here that I hadn’t considered before.
Pax
It means following your “conscience” and/or best judgment, where you find the Church’s teaching, or opinion on the validity of a marriage and freedom or non-freedom to marry, to be lacking where your situation is concerned. It is an illicit solution. More homely put, it boils down to “I don’t care what the rules are, I don’t think I did anything wrong, I don’t think the rules apply to me, I’m going to go ahead and receive communion and the other sacraments”.
One would certainly think so, and one would certainly hope so.HomeschoolDad:![]()
He might say that, but he could find himself in a whole lot of hot water with his bishop, if he does so.Or he might say “annulment or no annulment, that prior marriage wasn’t valid, I don’t care what anyone says, I’m going to go ahead and administer the sacrament, even though it will have no ‘official’ status”.
Hang on a second: I think you’re conflating the “internal forum” with a particular situation that’s often described in the context of an invalidly married couple (who are not engaging in sexual intercourse), in such a way as to provide an opportunity to allow them to participate in the sacraments. That particular approach is commonly referred to as the “internal forum solution”.It means following your “conscience” and/or best judgment, where you find the Church’s teaching, or opinion on the validity of a marriage and freedom or non-freedom to marry, to be lacking where your situation is concerned. It is an illicit solution.
I do not think of Josephite marriages as being “internal forum”, and I have never heard it described that way before. Rather, I have always understood “internal forum”, as applied to illicit marriage, as being a “good conscience” [sic] scenario, either “I can’t get an annulment but I think it is OK for me to marry illicitly (because XYZ)” or, as I said, “I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong, regardless of what the ‘rules’ say”. Neither of those things are uncharitable, just descriptive of a broken moral compass.HomeschoolDad:![]()
Hang on a second: I think you’re conflating the “internal forum” with a particular situation that’s often described in the context of an invalidly married couple (who are not engaging in sexual intercourse), in such a way as to provide an opportunity to allow them to participate in the sacraments. That particular approach is commonly referred to as the “internal forum solution”.It means following your “conscience” and/or best judgment, where you find the Church’s teaching, or opinion on the validity of a marriage and freedom or non-freedom to marry, to be lacking where your situation is concerned. It is an illicit solution.
The two are not the same , nor should they be treated as such. Moreover, the characterization of the ‘internal forum solution’ as “the rules don’t apply to me” is not only inaccurate, but rather uncharitable.
I’m not talking about a Josephite marriage, per se.I do not think of Josephite marriages as being “internal forum”, and I have never heard it described that way before.
That’s inaccurate.Rather, I have always understood “internal forum”, as applied to illicit marriage, as being a “good conscience” [sic] scenario, either “I can’t get an annulment but I think it is OK for me to marry illicitly (because XYZ)”
That, too, is inaccurate.or, as I said, “I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong, regardless of what the ‘rules’ say”.
That is not the context of the so-called “internal forum solution”. Someone has you tilting at windmills.To point out the sinfulness of such thinking is not only not uncharitable, but, as I see it, a great act of charity, to prick the consciences of people who might be contemplating such a course of action, and to get them not to take that route.
Nobody “has me” doing anything. I think of this stuff all on my own. I observe the Church, and society at large, and comment on things I see as needing to be commented upon. Somebody has to do it.HomeschoolDad:![]()
That is not the context of the so-called “internal forum solution”. Someone has you tilting at windmills.To point out the sinfulness of such thinking is not only not uncharitable, but, as I see it, a great act of charity, to prick the consciences of people who might be contemplating such a course of action, and to get them not to take that route.
Don’t have time to go into detail tonight. Perhaps we can pick up the discussion tomorrow?
I would call that a Josephite marriage, or as some would say, “living as brother and sister”. This situation can exist from the outset, or alternatively, a repentant couple, willing to give up illicit sexual relations, can resolve to live celibately from now on, yet remain legally married and under the same roof for some grave reasons, such as the upbringing of children, avoidance of grave financial harm, or preservation of temporal benefits (pension, insurance, social welfare, etc.). I know you know this, I am just clarifying the term and the definition for the benefit of readers who might not understand the concept.HomeschoolDad:![]()
I’m not talking about a Josephite marriage, per se.I do not think of Josephite marriages as being “internal forum”, and I have never heard it described that way before.
I’m talking about a marriage which is objectively invalid, and which was – at one point – also characterized by marital relations, although not currently able to be described as such.
Modern Catholic Dictonary, Forum…
Yes, please, tomorrow, if you’d be so kind, write up a short definition of what “internal forum” is ,
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The sphere within which the Church exercises her judicial authority. The external forum deals with matters that concern the public welfare of the Church and the people of God; the internal pertains to her jurisdiction in matters of conscience, notably the sacrament of penance, where sins are forgiven or retained and questions of morality are decided as to guilt, restitution, or responsibility.
Modern Catholic Dictionary, Forum
The sphere within which the Church exercises her judicial authority. The external forum deals with matters that concern the public welfare of the Church and the people of God; the internal pertains to her jurisdiction in matters of conscience, notably the sacrament of penance, where sins are forgiven or retained and questions of morality are decided as to guilt, restitution, or responsibility.as the concept relates to living in marriages that are irregular, illicit, and/or invalid according to the teachings and practice of the Catholic Church![]()
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I know. Even without emojis, it seemed clear that it was a sincere statement / request! I’ll get to it tonight!I’m utterly sincere. We all must uplift and educate each other. Iron sharpens iron.
Internal forum pertains to judicial authority of the Church in individual sacramental confession as a tribunal of conscience.
In 1991, per Cardinal Ratzinger, this use of the internal-forum solution would require a “pledge to abstain from sexual relations.”“the Church reaffirms her practice, which is based upon Sacred Scripture, of not admitting to Eucharistic Communion divorced persons who have remarried. They are unable to be admitted thereto from the fact that their state and condition of life objectively contradict that union of love between Christ and the Church which is signified and effected by the Eucharist. Besides this, there is another special pastoral reason: if these people were admitted to the Eucharist, the faithful would be led into error and confusion regarding the Church’s teaching about the indissolubility of marriage.”
Archbishop Jean Jérôme Hamer, Secretary for the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith in 1975 stipulated that for divorced and remarried Catholics the internal forum could allow the reception of the sacraments if “they try to live according to the demands of Christian moral principles.”
Later there was a restriction stated in Familiaris consortio , Saint Pope John Paul II, 1981, reaffirmed in 2005 Synod and 2007 Sacramentum Caritatis :
And if this is all that “internal forum” means when referring to divorced-and-illicitly-remarried couples who do not have annulments — turning their marriage into a Josephite one, when it may not have been prior — then I am entirely good with this and I understand it totally.“the Church reaffirms her practice, which is based upon Sacred Scripture, of not admitting to Eucharistic Communion divorced persons who have remarried. They are unable to be admitted thereto from the fact that their state and condition of life objectively contradict that union of love between Christ and the Church which is signified and effected by the Eucharist. Besides this, there is another special pastoral reason: if these people were admitted to the Eucharist, the faithful would be led into error and confusion regarding the Church’s teaching about the indissolubility of marriage.”
It might behoove the couple, if this is possible for them, to move to a new area (even one nearby), and associate themselves with a new parish, where nobody knows them, and nobody knows of the prior marriage(s). This way, you avoid uncomfortable questions about “how did Brenda get remarried if she and Eddie don’t have an annulment?”, assuming people know Eddie, see him remaining single, and wonder why. Small towns can be fever swamps of people watching one another’s business, commenting on it, speculating on it, and doing other intrusive things that indicate they are sorely in need of getting a life.
The internal forum is not an individual independent decision but that given in individual confession. It is not the only condition, for if one reads more on what was given before by the Church, it is necessary to avoid giving scandal to others that know of it, by receiving Communion, and also that for serious reasons there cannot be separation.…
And if this is all that “internal forum” means when referring to divorced-and-illicitly-remarried couples who do not have annulments — turning their marriage into a Josephite one, when it may not have been prior — then I am entirely good with this and I understand it totally.
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And if this is all that “internal forum” means when referring to divorced-and-illicitly-remarried couples who do not have annulments — turning their marriage into a Josephite one, when it may not have been prior — then I am entirely good with this and I understand it totally.
The internal forum is not an individual independent decision but that given in individual confession. It is not the only condition, for if one reads more on what was given before by the Church, it is necessary to avoid giving scandal to others that know of it, by receiving Communion, and also that for serious reasons there cannot be separation.
I have covered all of this in posts upthread. There has to be a serious reason, such as keeping a home together where children are being raised — it’s not their fault that their parents conceived them in an invalid union — or because they would lose much-needed benefits such as pensions, social security, insurance benefits, the list could go on and on. But just staying together because they like one another’s company, not a good enough reason. And I have to think that maintaining lifelong celibacy would be a huge challenge for many, not to be crude, but that spouse you have been accustomed to sharing conjugal life with for years — boom! — no more relations, never again, no matter what, it’s either that, or remove yourselves from this occasion of mortal sin, no matter what kind of sacrifices that requires of you.
And I know what this kind of sacrifice is like, from a slightly different angle — when my wife and I separated and divorced, having to accept total celibacy of an indefinite duration, possibly the rest of my life, was a bitter pill to swallow. Not easy to accept. I eventually did, but it wasn’t something I would have chosen. I am sure many widowed people go through the same thing.
I think this is what it usually means but it has also been understood (both in the past and, in some instances, to this day) as a way for someone to say that the (invalidly married or at least illicitly married) couple does not have to abstain from marital relations because the prior union should not be considered as binding. This determination would be made “in the internal forum” because something prevents the use of the external forum (i.e., tribunal).And if this is all that “internal forum” means when referring to divorced-and-illicitly-remarried couples who do not have annulments — turning their marriage into a Josephite one, when it may not have been prior — then I am entirely good with this and I understand it totally.
Yes, but there are no “automatic” penalties. So, a priest could do this and nothing would happen necessarily. The bishop could attempt to apply some sort of penalty but it would be contingent upon the priest’s contumacy and would have to come at the end of a legal process. There could also be so-called “disciplinary” measures that are, strictly speaking, not penalties (e.g., removal of faculties, transfer to another office).Are there canonical penalties, or any other kinds of penalties? If so, what are they?
You touch upon something very key here. I’ll reproduce the relevant paragraph for the benefit of the reader:HomeschoolDad:![]()
I think this is what it usually means but it has also been understood (both in the past and, in some instances, to this day) as a way for someone to say that the (invalidly married or at least illicitly married) couple does not have to abstain from marital relations because the prior union should not be considered as binding. This determination would be made “in the internal forum” because something prevents the use of the external forum (i.e., tribunal).And if this is all that “internal forum” means when referring to divorced-and-illicitly-remarried couples who do not have annulments — turning their marriage into a Josephite one, when it may not have been prior — then I am entirely good with this and I understand it totally.
This letter from the CDF speaks of the idea.
I’ve heard of it myself. That’s why I asked.I’ve seen this happen (a priest witnessing a marriage when the Parties are not both certainly free to marry) on an occasion or two.
I’m in something of a situation calling for careful discernment, and “internal forum” in my case boiled down to talking it through with my confessor and following his direction. It was not intended to grant me my every wish in spite of what the Church says, simply to help me on my way back while not unnecessarily endangering my (invalid due to lack of form and waiting for a radical sanation) marriage, which is shaken enough as it is by my choice to come back to the Church.it boils down to “I don’t care what the rules are, I don’t think I did anything wrong, I don’t think the rules apply to me, I’m going to go ahead and receive communion and the other sacraments”.