don’t see the big deal of your sins? What if you do not care about how you are hurting others? Some sins make you more vulnerable, some make you domineer/dominate others. What is the alternative if you fail to face the truth? What if you lived a materially good life? Do people who do not have Christ long for him? I wonder what if you are good person but you still sometimes gossip when you are upset, some days you are moody - but you do not think they are a big deal - after all everyone else does it. Maybe you correct people too harshly or you secretly believe you are better than others, after all what if you honestly are. I always wonder why God made some people so sensitive and other so callous. If you do not care, is there no sin - it does not bother you?
Q1. What happens if you don’t see the big deal of your sins?
A1. You may be committing the sin of presumption, from the Catholic Encylopedia: “It may be defined as the condition of a soul that, because of a badly regulated reliance on God’s mercy and power, hopes for salvation without doing anything to deserve it, or for pardon of his sins without repenting of them.”
We must assent to the truth, yet may not understand it (there are many mysteries). There is greater merit in assenting without intellectual understanding or so called proof.
Q2. What if you do not care about how you are hurting others?
A2. You may be committing the sin of hate. Fifth commandment.
Q3. Some sins make you more vulnerable, some make you domineer/dominate others. What is the alternative if you fail to face the truth?
A3. Truth will set you free, so not facing it means slavery to evil.
Q4. What if you lived a materially good life?
A4. One can and share with others. If one did not, then repententence is the solution.
Q5. Do people who do not have Christ long for him?
A5. Some do.
Q6. I wonder what if you are good person but you still sometimes gossip when you are upset, some days you are moody - but you do not think they are a big deal - after all everyone else does it.
A6. We all sin. Same answer as A1.
Q7. Maybe you correct people too harshly or you secretly believe you are better than others, after all what if you honestly are. I always wonder why God made some people so sensitive and other so callous. If you do not care, is there no sin - it does not bother you?
A7. If the motivation it so be unkind, then this is sinful. Sometimes bad habits mitigate our culpability in serious matters. There should be respect regardless of feeling.