For the sake of brevity, I am not quoting BigRo, but, responding to his latest post.
No one is beating you over the head with what the Church says. In one of your replies, you noted that you were unfamiliar with the Church’s stance on this matter. As such, I thought it would be helpful for you to know and for you (and all of us) to make use of the diocesan website to make sure that there are other Masses available should this happen again.
With all due respect, you pointed out that you felt that:
They got a gentleman that has been studying for Deacon for some 4 years to do a sort of abbreviated Mass. It was nice and actually a good experience.
and, in a subsequent post that:
The Communion Service was nice and the deacon did an excellent job. It felt like we all truly had a unifying experience.
I noticed, upon rereading this thread, a discrepancy. Was this man a deacon or is he still a deacon aspirant (meaning not yet ordained)? With all due respect, whoever it was who pressed this individual into doing this really might not have had the authority to do this, since only the bishop can make that call.
Something similar happened about 12 years ago in my dad’s old parish. The pastor, who was in the beginning stages of Alzheimer’s never made it back to the parish. The faithful pressed my dad, an EMHC, into having a Communion Service. It was the Saturday evening anticipated Mass. I told my dad to hold off until I could get my friend, a monsignor who was serving as episcopal vicar at the time, to celebrate Mass. I drove to what would eventually become the Cathedral and told him that had happened. Meanwhile, the sacristan was still trying to find the pastor. My dad was cojoled by the faithful to do a service (not a good idea). My friend followed me in his car (in full vestments). When he got there, my dad had finished. The prelate told the faithful that this was not a fulfillment of their Sunday obligation. While he was ready to celebrate Mass, he told them that they could either stay or make arrangments to attend Mass the next day (Sunday). He told my dad that he understood that he was under a lot of pressure, but, gently told him not to do this again.
We need to be very careful about these things. Sure, the unforeseen can happen, as was in your case, as was in my dad’s case. But, these Sunday Celebrations in the Absence of a Priest should only happen in the parameters described in the section from RS that I quoted in my previous post. You said that you were not looking for any guidance, but, it would do well for all of us to consult the authoritative documents of the Church if we find ourselves in an unusual situation.
Please do not take this personally. You may deem all of this as “legalistic”, but, the Church has guidelines and norms for a reason: to avoid confusion in situations like what you just experienced. These documents give both the clergy and the laity clarity. It is not about being legalistic, it is, ultimately, about following the laws of Christ and His Church. What I wrote to you was in the spirit of fraternal charity. The situation with the visiting priest was beyond your control. However, at least you now know that there are some options available for you.