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Hokomai
Guest
As a thought experiment I asked myself what I would advise the Church to do about the abuse crisis (in the unlikely event advice was sought from me, an unbeliever). Here is what I came up with:
*]Do what it is doing. Most of the steps reported to have been taken by Church authorities seem sensible, and reasonably effective at reducing the incidence of abuse as well as allowing victims to come forward and have their experiences recognised.
*]Recognise that the concepts of sin and forgiveness are religious beliefs that have little to do with the protection of children. Abuse of children is not morally the same as missing Mass on Sunday, even if each is believed to be a mortal sin.
*]Decree, throughout the church, that absolution is to be delayed until abusers who confess their sin report their crime (not their sin) to the appropriate civil authorities. This will give child victims similar rights to priests who are victims of false allegations under canon 982 Whoever confesses to have denounced falsely an innocent confessor to ecclesiastical authority concerning the crime of solicitation to sin against the sixth commandment of the Decalogue is not to be absolved unless the person has first formally retracted the false denunciation and is prepared to repair damages if there are any.
*]Stop distinguishing in any moral sense between the abuse of children before and after puberty. Children are children.
*]Raise the acceptable age of marriage in the Church from 14 to at least 16, to prevent a false message being given to people who think it may be OK to have sex with 14 and 15-year olds.
*]Reduce the number of people who speak on this issue for the Church to very few, and make sure they know what they are talking about. There are too many muddled messages to assure victims and the public that things are improving.
*]Accept that if you say you are the mystical body of Christ, led by a man who represents God on earth, who is infallible on moral matters, and believe that celibacy is a higher state than being in a sexual relationship, and condemn homosexual sex as an abomination, you will be held to a higher standard than other human institutions. There is no point saying that teachers, or scout leaders, or Mormons are just as bad.
*]Highlight the cases of victims who still love the Church, but clearly condemn the abuse.
*] Use language that is clear and direct, that everyone can understand.
Thank you for paying attention to my ideas.