What if the government was to get out of the marriage business altogether?

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How do you know it’s a small sample?

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New research at San Francisco State University reveals just how common open relationships are among gay men and lesbians in the Bay Area. The Gay Couples Study has followed 556 male couples for three years — about 50 percent of those surveyed have sex outside their relationships, with the knowledge and approval of their partners.
It’s a small sample in one city. I don’t know if it is different in other areas. I know that my friends that live/lived in NYC lived very different lives then I did as single people. I wouldn’t say that their lives represented mine. The study could represent the culture of the San Francisco Homosexual community rather than Homosexuals in general.
 
I still don’t get what you are saying - How does someone not believing in the Real Presence make me not believe in the Real Presence?

Nothing is an accident. Although I didn’t intend it 😉
The same way of how Protestantism started with Catholics who left the Church, and now many are born into Protestant families. Because they grew up in a Protestant family, the grow up not knowing about Catholicism and not having the advantage of growing up with the sacraments. And about what I was saying about the Holy Eucharist. I recommend looking further into the Catholic Church’s teaching on how human marriage of one man and one woman is a sign of the Heavenly Wedding Feast between Christ and His Bride, the Church. And we Catholics participate in this Wedding Feast when we go up to receive Holy Communion. In other words, through Baptism and Holy Communion, all who are members of the Catholic Church are married in a larger way to God. 🙂
 
The same way of how Protestantism started with Catholics who left the Church, and now many are born into Protestant families. Because they grew up in a Protestant family, the grow up not knowing about Catholicism and not having the advantage of growing up with the sacraments. And about what I was saying about the Holy Eucharist. I recommend looking further into the Catholic Church’s teaching on how human marriage is a mere shadow of the Heavenly Wedding Feast between Christ and His Bride, the Church. 🙂
It doesn’t make the Real Presence any less Real if less people are participating in it. It still has the same value. It doesn’t become more Real if the Church is empty or full. The Church hasn’t gone anywhere. It is there if they want it.
 
It doesn’t make the Real Presence any less Real if less people are participating in it. It still has the same value. It doesn’t become more Real if the Church is empty or full. The Church hasn’t gone anywhere. It is there if they want it.
You asked how something can be devalued. If someone doesn’t believe in the Real Presence they aren’t going to treat it with respect. If someone doesn’t believe that marriage is important they won’t treat it with respect. And the government’s redefining of it devalues it by making it seem to people like a meaningless human construct. 🙂
 
You asked how something can be devalued. If someone doesn’t believe in the Real Presence they aren’t going to treat it with respect. If someone doesn’t believe that marriage is important they won’t treat it with respect. And the government’s redefining of it devalues it by making it seem to people like a meaningless human construct. 🙂
It’s not a meaningless construct to people that believe in the Sacrament. 🤷 If they believe they treat it with respect if they don’t they don’t. You can’t legislate people into believing. You can’t make Protestants believe in the Real Presence of the Eucharist by outlawing all other kinds except Catholic Communion.
 
As long as the government is involved in marriage, it must not discriminate with respect to sexual orientation. As far as secular government goes, it is a civil rights issue and Biblical concepts cannot meddle into it.

But I am okay with the Ron Paul solution, and the government getting out of marriage. Why is the government meddling into what historically was a religious concept anyway.

It may be the only solution that satisfies conservatives and liberals on the issue from now on.
 
You can’t legislate people into believing.
Then why are the “gay” activists trying so hard to change what the law says is marriage? Why were they not content to leave the definition of marriage alone and be satisfied with calling it a “civil union” which meant having all the same government benefits? 🙂
 
Why is the government meddling into what historically was a religious concept anyway.
While it wasn’t historically involved in the granting of marriage, government has historically recognized the institution.
 
Then why are the “gay” activists trying so hard to change what the law says is marriage? Why were they not content to leave the definition of marriage alone and be satisfied with calling it a “civil union” which meant having all the same government benefits? 🙂
I think it has to do with CIvil Union being a state construct and civil marriage a federal recognized one.

We acknowledge that there is a difference between Catholic Marriage and a Civil one.

I got married in a Church not a courthouse. It doesn’t make me value my marriage any less that other people did.
 
Why is the government meddling into what historically was a religious concept anyway.
Traditional marriage predates religion and as well as any government institution. A good government will have laws that make sense. If the government changes the definition of marriage for homosexuals in order to be consistent they can’t say no to any other type of sexually perverted behavior. And marriage in the eyes of most will seem like a joke. 🙂
 
I think it has to do with CIvil Union being a state construct and civil marriage a federal recognized one.
Then why didn’t they just fight to have a “civil union” be federally recognized?

Why is changing the definition of a word so important to the “gay” activists?

And keep in mind that this fight wasn’t started by us. 🙂

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Traditional marriage predates religion and as well as any government institution. A good government will have laws that make sense. If the government changes the definition of marriage for homosexuals in order to be consistent they can’t say no to any other type of sexually perverted behavior. And marriage in the eyes of most will seem like a joke. [emphasis added] 🙂
No. Marriage is already being treated by straight people (look at Hollywood) as a joke. So what leverage do straight people have in keeping traditional marriage?

And how is gay sex so deviant? Despite some people’s opposition to essentialism, the fact remains that it is normal for some people to have same sex attraction. There have been gays all throughout history. It is an insult to say that their behavior is deviant, when they honestly believe God created them that way.

It is also an insult to analogize gay relationships to polygamy or pedophilia, or child porn. In the latter three, those are crimes with victims, and some of them being child victims. In contrast, gay relationships are between consenting adults.

Speaking of polygamy, if you want traditional marriage, why not bring back polygamy (which was traditionally practiced)??
 
It is also an insult to analogize gay relationships to polygamy or pedophilia, or child porn. In the latter three, those are crimes with victims, and some of them being child victims. In contrast, gay relationships are between consenting adults.
Consensual polygamy has no victim, yet it is a crime.
 
No. Marriage is already being treated by straight people (look at Hollywood) as a joke.
So how does the government going along with the joke help marriage? What’s not a joke is all the poor kids born out of wedlock because of people taking marriage as a joke.
 
Consensual polygamy has no victim, yet it is a crime.
It’s a crime so far. But I would bet a million dollars (if I had it) that polygamy and incest are going to next up at bat since they have a stronger argument than the homosexuals had. The only argument that homosexuals are using is an emotional one. But the polygamists and the ones who want incest to be recognized by the state have a historical precedent. And the argument that people in incestuous relationships might have a deformed baby won’t hold up in the courts since the government fully expects that every unwanted baby will be aborted. 🙂
 
It’s a crime so far. But I would bet a million dollars (if I had it) that polygamy and incest are going to next up at bat since they have a stronger argument than the homosexuals had. 🙂
It might be ephebephilia, you never know.
 
It’s a crime so far. But I would bet a million dollars (if I had it) that polygamy and incest are going to next up at bat since they have a stronger argument than the homosexuals had. The only argument that homosexuals are using is an emotional one. But the polygamists and the ones who want incest to be recognized by the state have a historical precedent. And the argument that people in incestuous relationships might have a deformed baby won’t hold up in the courts since the government fully expects that every unwanted baby will be aborted. 🙂
I agree with you on this 100%. And with regard to incest and children with deformities there are already a couple of “scientific” studies saying that incestuos relationships don’t have any effect on offspring and that their children are normal. Now these studies came out directed to children of sperm donors when the ridiculously high numbers of offspring of one sperm donor living in a close area started to come out with the purpose of telling people the fears that half sibling unknowingly getting married and have children are nothing but myths, however I wouldn’t be surprised if the groups in favor of incest will start bringing those studies out.
 
I would like to thank almost all of you for hi-jacking this thread and making it about a lot of things that were not in my original question.

My original question had nothing to do with redefining marriage or civil unions.

[sarcasm] Yay for a flame war [/sarcasm]

Would anyone like to get back to the original question and offer some thoughtful, non-emotionally charged, rational discussion?

Thanks
 
I would identify myself as a conservative orthodox Catholic. I love the Church and find great wisdom in all her teachings (at least the ones that I’ve been able to study and understand). I am trying to reason through the implications of taking the position that the government should not be involved in the marriage business at all.
If we look at the LGBT position, the main thing that they want (as far as marriage is concerned) is equal rights to heterosexual couples. The civil (legal) rights that currently accompany a marriage license are tax benefits, the ability to adopt, the rights to make end of life decisions and rights for inheritances (am I missing any?).

So, what if those “rights” or benefits went away for heterosexuals?
One implication would be that the government would need to get out of the adoption business too (which the Church does a much better job of handling anyway).

What do you think? Is this a defensible position to take?
The original question is answered by the Catechism and has been referenced several times in this thread. The civil order has an obligation to recognize marriage, because marriages make families and families are the indispensable building blocks of society. The homosexual lobby has no right to demand that their sexual relationships be recognized as equivalent to marriage because they are not marriage.

So no, it is not a defensible position.
 
I agree with you on this 100%. And with regard to incest and children with deformities there are already a couple of “scientific” studies saying that incestuos relationships don’t have any effect on offspring and that their children are normal. Now these studies came out directed to children of sperm donors when the ridiculously high numbers of offspring of one sperm donor living in a close area started to come out with the purpose of telling people the fears that half sibling unknowingly getting married and have children are nothing but myths, however I wouldn’t be surprised if the groups in favor of incest will start bringing those studies out.
What I bolded above is actually not a new teaching in liberalism. I took a college class called “Human Sexuality” in 1986, and I remember that it made that claim about incest in the college textbook way back then. It’s strange how for decades liberal college professors have been teaching that it’s a myth that birth defects are caused by incest, and now “gay marriage” apologists are singing a different tune about it for the “gay marriage” debate because they want to deny the fact that incest will be next. It’s a kind of feigned moral indignation. I think their memory will suddenly be refreshed once they’re sure that they’ve won the battle on so-called “gay marriage”. Once that happens, I am 100% certain that the same ones who argued for “gay marriage” will be defending incest and polygamy with the same zeal. Maybe the fact that these supposedly new studies are coming out means that they are confident that the battle for “gay marriage” is already in the bag and want to start setting up for their next battle for redefining marriage again but this time to include incest and polygamy. 🤷
 
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