What is a Cafeteria Catholic and what are consequences?

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if believing in birth control = cafeteria Catholic would not the majority of Catholics in the USA be of the cafeteria variety?
Being a sinner does not necessarily make someone a heretic. I can agree with what the Church teaches on chastity, that doesn’t mean I am able to practice it all the time. And it’s fairly difficult for 98% of Catholic couples to practice contraception when 98% of Catholic women aren’t pre-menopausal. Don’t need birth control if you don’t even have a period anymore.👍
 
Thanks for the reply, Avila123. I agree that “Cafeteria” can be applied to protestants and other faiths, too. I was just curious as to some examples of what kind of things would constitute that behavior in the USA and elsewhere. For example, is it contraception and gay marriage and that sort of stuff or would it also include doctrinal issues? .
Those items you mentioned ARE doctrinal issues.
 
So…They don’t have to agree? They just have to nod and pretend they do? That sounds…Sort of weird.

You can’t force people to believe something, we don’t have any control over a belief like that. Having sex is something you can pull back from, you can’t do anything about being educated enough to know say that Adam and Eve weren’t a literal couple.

Yeah, check out the science people. It’s not even remotely possible but knowing that is a mortal sin?..🤷 Boy, and I thought that council in the 17th century that condemned the theory that the earth orbited the sun as heresy was silly.
The Roman Church doesn’t try to evade or obscure the fact that the tribunal (not council) erred in its condemnation of heliocentricity and the censure(s) of Galileo in 1616/1633. Tribunals only have juridical and disciplinary authority and are not infallible. Only the pope or an ecumenical council are personally promised the charism of teaching infallibly. In 1825 the church issued a document which apologized for the condemnation and rehabilitated Galileo and his work. St. Pope John Paul II also apologized, in 1989, for the way the Church handled the matter.

That said, a case can be made that the ban of Galileo’s writings was not wrong. The bishops were wrong to condemn his theories with respect to the science but not in wishing to protect a mostly uneducated peasant faithful from what appeared to be a dangerous scientific theory mixed with (and it was a package deal in the writings of Galileo) bad theology and scriptural exegesis. Its publication would have resulted in widespread disturbance due to a lack of necessary knowledge.
 
Being a sinner does not necessarily make someone a heretic. I can agree with what the Church teaches on chastity, that doesn’t mean I am able to practice it all the time. And it’s fairly difficult for 98% of Catholic couples to practice contraception when 98% of Catholic women aren’t pre-menopausal. Don’t need birth control if you don’t even have a period anymore.👍
There’s a difference between being a sinner and openly disobeying Church teaching because you disagree with it. Yes, one could fall into the sin of fornication knowing it is sinful, but then repent of that sin. That’s much different than one who knowingly contracepts despite the Church teaching on the matter, and does not repent (or even believe it is wrong).

The same argument is used for same sex “marriage”. Well, Jesus loved everyone, and he ate with sinners, so what’s the problem with homosexuals getting married? The thing is, Jesus ate with sinners so that he could teach and convert them, not so they could wallow in their sins. Those involved in a same sex “marriage” persist in their sin with no desire to repent, as do many who contracept.

Can’t speak of the 98% statistic, though I’m guessing that they were referring to couples that have used artificial contraception at some time during their marriage, most of which include pre-menopausal years as well.
 
You had it right, a cafeteria catholic is a catholic that picks and chooses what he/she wants to believe. Giving into heresy with full knowledge and full consent will put that person in the state of mortal sin. If someone is in the state of mortal sin they cannot receive the Eucharist, if they do receive the Eucharist in the state of mortal sin, then they commit sacrilege, which is another mortal sin. If someone is in the state of mortal sin then they are at the threat of eternal damnation if they die in that state. They must repent by going to confession, and if they do give a valid confession, they will return to the state of grace and be able to receive the Eucharist.
That’s a pretty extreme scenario. “Heresy” is a word that gets thrown around a lot on CAF. We should be careful about how we use it. To me, heresy is not believing in, and promulgating the non-belief in, the Real Presence, the divine nature of Christ, the Marian dogmas, the sinfulness of abortion., etc. I just can’t slap the heresy label on a Catholic who has a problem with the Church’s beliefs on contraception, homosexuality, the ordination of women and priestly celibacy. If one did that, then most American Catholics are heretics with an express ticket to Hell.
 
what are the consequences?
The Cafeteria Catholics are in danger although most do not recognize why. All the truths of the faith are interconnected and once you reject one truth (in favor of your own opinion) it becomes quite easy to reject another. And that is the nature of heresy. (Not my own explanation but one written by the then Crdnl Ratzinger.) I used to have his teaching on this but inadvertently lost the link and my search results have failed to yield the original. If anyone has it, could you please post it. Many thanks.
 
That’s a pretty extreme scenario. “Heresy” is a word that gets thrown around a lot on CAF. We should be careful about how we use it. To me, heresy is not believing in, and promulgating the non-belief in, the Real Presence, the divine nature of Christ, the Marian dogmas, the sinfulness of abortion., etc. I just can’t slap the heresy label on a Catholic who has a problem with the Church’s beliefs on contraception, homosexuality, **the ordination of women **and priestly celibacy.
The parts of your post which pertain to moral matters must be assented to by those professing the faith. Homosexuality is not sinful, but homosexual acts are. The teaching on the non-ordination of women was declared *infallible *by Pope JP II (now a saint.) Why throw celibacy in the mix? That is only a discipline and you are free to like it or not.
If one did that, then most American Catholics are heretics with an express ticket to Hell.
Christ did tell us the way to eternal life is narrow. Pretty frightening, I’d say and I for one, wouldn’t want to be on that bus.
 
🤷 Boy, and I thought that council in the 17th century that condemned the theory that the earth orbited the sun as heresy was silly.
Which council was that? It wasn’t a Catholic council.

The Catholic council was okay with the theory, which was first put forward by a Catholic priest (Nicholas Copernicus) and it was widely circulated but not published until 1543. Pope Leo X was had no problem, so long as it was correctly presented as a theory and not an indisputable fact as there was no evidence at the time to support it. In about 1610, Galileo after studying the Copernican theory started teaching it as fact (without evidence). In February 1616, a council of theological advisers to the pope ruled that it was possibly heresy to teach as fact that the sun, rather than the Earth, was at the center of the universe, and that the Earth rotated on its axis. Galileo was not condemned, but Cardinal Robert Bellarmine was asked to convey the news to Galileo, advise him of the panel’s ruling, and order him to cease defending his theories as fact. He also asked him to avoid any further inroads into discussion of scriptural interpretation. Galileo agreed but later renegaded. In 1633, Galileo was found (by 7 cardinals) to be “vehemently suspected of heresy” in teaching as truth that the Earth moves and is not the center of the world. He was found guilty in persisting in such teaching when he had been formally warned not to do so in 1616.

Source: catholic.com/magazine/articles/the-anti-catholic%E2%80%99s-trump-card

We learn something new every day.🙂
 
Which council was that? It wasn’t a Catholic council.

The Catholic council was okay with the theory, which was first put forward by a Catholic priest (Nicholas Copernicus) and it was widely circulated but not published until 1543. Pope Leo X was had no problem, so long as it was correctly presented as a theory and not an indisputable fact as there was no evidence at the time to support it. In about 1610, Galileo after studying the Copernican theory started teaching it as fact (without evidence). In February 1616, a council of theological advisers to the pope ruled that it was possibly heresy to teach as fact that the sun, rather than the Earth, was at the center of the universe, and that the Earth rotated on its axis. Galileo was not condemned, but Cardinal Robert Bellarmine was asked to convey the news to Galileo, advise him of the panel’s ruling, and order him to cease defending his theories as fact. He also asked him to avoid any further inroads into discussion of scriptural interpretation. Galileo agreed but later renegaded. In 1633, Galileo was found (by 7 cardinals) to be “vehemently suspected of heresy” in teaching as truth that the Earth moves and is not the center of the world. He was found guilty in persisting in such teaching when he had been formally warned not to do so in 1616.

Source: catholic.com/magazine/articles/the-anti-catholic%E2%80%99s-trump-card

We learn something new every day.🙂
I do have to challenge you here Avila, I’ll have to find a reference once I get back home but Heliocentrism (The belief that the Earth Orbited around the sun) was defined as a heresy by the inquisition in 1628(? Could have been 1638, It’s been a while since I gave a presentation on this subject). That’s why until the late 1800’s any books containing theories regarding heliocentrism continued to be placed upon the index of forbidden books.

I can’t open a second tab on this phone to post a link, but check any issue of the Index of Forbidden Books during that time frame and you will see it has been clearly forbidden as a Heresy.
 
The parts of your post which pertain to moral matters must be assented to by those professing the faith. Homosexuality is not sinful, but homosexual acts are. The teaching on the non-ordination of women was declared *infallible *by Pope JP II (now a saint.) Why throw celibacy in the mix? That is only a discipline and you are free to like it or not.
Tigg…what a shame that the bolded above has to be pointed out on a Catholic forum. That the Church’s teachings on contraception, homosexuality, the ordination of women, etc. would be thought of by some, to not being real important to assent to in order to be a faithful Catholic is nothing short of astounding. Could you please be so kind to explain to me, how in the world have we gone so far off the rails?
Christ did tell us the way to eternal life is narrow. Pretty frightening, I’d say and I for one, wouldn’t want to be on that bus.
You and me both. Peace to you Tigg!

Mark
 
Can someone clarify what the term “Cafeteria Catholic” means and some examples of what kind of things gain someone that label? I assume it means picking and choosing which Catholic doctrines you want to follow and not follow but I don’t know for sure.

Can such a Catholic receive the sacraments like the Eucharist? Just curious. Thanks.

Also, are Cafeteria Catholics more apt to be found in the USA or elsewhere?
A cafeteria Catholic is someone who chooses to ignore certain aspects of Catholic doctrine, or to interpret established doctrine in a way which does not agree with Catholic moral teaching. In my opinion either with Jesus and His teachings or not.
 
Tigg…what a shame that the bolded above has to be pointed out on a Catholic forum. That the Church’s teachings on contraception, homosexuality, the ordination of women, etc. would be thought of by some, to not being real important to assent to in order to be a faithful Catholic is nothing short of astounding. Could you please be so kind to explain to me, how in the world have we gone so far off the rails?

You and me both. Peace to you Tigg!

Mark
Thank goodness the Catholic Church has you and Tigg to hold it together!
 
The parts of your post which pertain to moral matters must be assented to by those professing the faith. Homosexuality is not sinful, but homosexual acts are. The teaching on the non-ordination of women was declared *infallible *by Pope JP II (now a saint.) Why throw celibacy in the mix? That is only a discipline and you are free to like it or not.

Christ did tell us the way to eternal life is narrow. Pretty frightening, I’d say and I for one, wouldn’t want to be on that bus.
Tigg…what a shame that the bolded above has to be pointed out on a Catholic forum. That the Church’s teachings on contraception, homosexuality, the ordination of women, etc. would be thought of by some, to not being real important to assent to in order to be a faithful Catholic is nothing short of astounding. Could you please be so kind to explain to me, how in the world have we gone so far off the rails?

You and me both. Peace to you Tigg!

Mark
“Uniformity, rigidity – these are hard. They do not have the freedom that the Holy Spirit gives. They confuse the Gospel that Jesus preached, with their doctrine of equality. Christ never wanted His Church to be so rigid – never – and such as these, because of their attitude, do not enter the Church. They call themselves Christians, Catholics, but their attitude drives them away from the Church.”
 
“Uniformity, rigidity – these are hard. They do not have the freedom that the Holy Spirit gives. They confuse the Gospel that Jesus preached, with their doctrine of equality. Christ never wanted His Church to be so rigid – never – and such as these, because of their attitude, do not enter the Church. They call themselves Christians, Catholics, but their attitude drives them away from the Church.”
NeedsMercy,
You put quotes around your reply but did not give a source. Did you “quote” your own words or would you mind sharing with us who actually said what you posted? I’m interested.
 
“Uniformity, rigidity – these are hard. They do not have the freedom that the Holy Spirit gives. They confuse the Gospel that Jesus preached, with their doctrine of equality. Christ never wanted His Church to be so rigid – never – and such as these, because of their attitude, do not enter the Church. They call themselves Christians, Catholics, but their attitude drives them away from the Church.”
Your own interpretation of this contradicts the facts. No where is the pope saying that we are not to follow the Law; the 10 Commandments God gave in order that we might have life to the fullest and that which is interpreted by the Church. We deceive ourselves if we think the Holy Spirit can contradict Himself (Who, by definition is the Spirit of Truth) by affirming our own error and disobedience.
 
There’s a difference between being a sinner and openly disobeying Church teaching because you disagree with it. Yes, one could fall into the sin of fornication knowing it is sinful, but then repent of that sin. That’s much different than one who knowingly contracepts despite the Church teaching on the matter, and does not repent (or even believe it is wrong).
Nowhere in that article did it say that anyone was openly against such a Church teaching or that they disagreed with it, or that they didn’t repent. And additionally a lot people come back to the confessional with the same sin. Don’t be so naive in thinking that one confession and one instance of repentance will automatically make them turn completely away from their sins. Don’t be so quick to condemn, there are a lot of people, even you, that know what’s a sin and still commit them, even when they’re mortal

And it’s the Guttmacher institute, the polling and study arm of Planned Parenthood, and the Washington post, so I take that with a grain of salt. The study is probably based, as you say, on having ever used contraception. The article basically should have just said that 100% percent of Catholics are sinners, including sins of pride, fornication, contraception, adultery, lying, theft, etc. ALL of which are against Church teaching. Being a sinner doesn’t mean you disagree with Church teaching.

However, it is true that a huge percentage of “Catholics” vote left with the side of abortion and are for gay marriage, whatever specifics that includes.
 
Your own interpretation of this contradicts the facts. No where is the pope saying that we are not to follow the Law; the 10 Commandments God gave in order that we might have life to the fullest and that which is interpreted by the Church. We deceive ourselves if we think the Holy Spirit can contradict Himself (Who, by definition is the Spirit of Truth) by affirming our own error and disobedience.
My goodness, I cannot recall giving my interpretation of what His Holiness said. Could you tell me the post number?
 
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