PMV:
Please explain what a ‘Perfect Act of Contrition’ is and give me an example of one.
----A perfect act of contritition is to be sorry for having offended God, out of love for HIM. (you’re sincerely sorry that you offended God, whom you ought to love above all things.) In other words, you are sorry because you love HIM so much and you know you offended HIM by sinning.
When I think about the song “How Great Thou Art”, it pretty much says it for me in this verse, …“and when I think that God His Son not sparing, send Him to die, I scarce can take it in. That on that cross, my burden gladly bearing, He bled and died to take away my sin.”— That just makes me cry so much and makes me so grateful to God, that He loves us so much, that He took even our death and gave us life.(the wages of sin is death.) He is so loving and kind and merciful, it just makes you have a really grateful, thankful heart when you mediatate on His great love for us. (I think we all ought to have perfect contrition, afterall, who else in this whole entire universe will ever love you like that?) He layed down His life for us. He took our sorrows and our sufferings. He literally died for us. Can you imagine?? (I scarce can take it in)!
As the first commandment says-“Thou shalt have no other gods before me.” You are sorry that you offended Him first, not because you sinned and you are sorry because you don’t want to go to hell (that is imperfect contrition though).
I heard Fr. Corapi say that a perfect act of Contrition is to say AND mean it, not just say it, something like this: “O God, I love you and I am sorry for having offended You.” —
So, if you obey the first commandment, you won’t have any trouble keeping the other nine (makes perfect sense to me.)
He went on to say that imperfect contrition is alright inside the Sacrament of Confession, but outside of the Sacrament, you need perfect contrition. (In other words, if you don’t go to the Sacrament of Confession, (if you aren’t Catholic), or lets say that its 3:00 a.m. and you just committed a mortal sin, and no Priest that you know of is hearing confession right then–you actually have to have perfect contrition and then change your life to show it. Not just say you do). Actually change the behavior (or sinfulness) that you were committing, to do the best you can means that you really try and eventually, (or sometimes immediately), with the help of the Sacraments, (God’s grace), you actually do change.
…hope I helped, but if I didn’t, don’t quit asking, eventually something someone says or that you read will help you to understand. Sometimes I don’t express very well what it is that I actually mean. I love that verse in the Bible that says, “Come to me all you who labour, and are weary(heavy laden) and I will give you rest.”