Ironically, your call for clarity on boundaries and dynamics is unclear and somewhat appears boundless!

Please, find something I wrote that you find too unclear or boundless and ask for clarification, I would be happy to do so!
**Boundary = whether God. Whether the victim. Whether the perpetrator. If oneself, whether one is the victim or the perpetrator or a bystander. Also, in a big situation, whether one is the victim of a different hurt than the next person.
Dynamics = the force of the content of the relationship. In your case, implied moralising and getting heavy with people that have got enough crosses without you adding to them by your vagueness.
As I have exactly stated numerous times, your entire article is unclear, for exactly the reasons stated. I thought at the time I was quite bold to accuse you of baiting and switching, but now I see that was fairly neutral. You aren’t doing it deliberately though, it’s just a habit.
If you are going to get these articles put in the parish bulletin, you need to devote completely separate chapters to completely separate topics. Guanophore’s 135 is spot-on.
Vico is valiantly responding to your exact points exactly as you make them. Vico expects you to maintain good boundaries just as much as Guanophore and I do - see the quote from Vico in my post 131.**
Yes, this is true, he did not state such a “hard and fast rule”. Would you like one?
You are the one that has been setting up hard and fast rules by muddling up your readers’ and listeners’ thinking and no I don’t think they would like one of your hard and fast rules.
I think love should be our guide, right? When we have come to the point where we can prayerfully approach a person with love, I think that is our calling.
I’m going to throw that full-on in your face. Love and prayer mean attention to boundaries and dynamics. Only.
He definitely promoted the idea that God’s love is demonstrated through many sources. Holding grudges, refusing to forgive, compromises our own realization of God’s forgiveness. It’s something like, “if you want to feel forgiven, then forgive.” Some might wince at my use of “feel” there, my wording could be better.
That has
a place sometimes but isn’t the main point.
What does that mean, “my feelings don’t need rescuing”? Also, the second sentence is unclear to me. God delaying a man’s move? Sounds like puppetry. I’m confused.
I’m ahead of you in my explorations. Catch up steadily.