Check out books by Father Benedict Groeschel. He has addressed this and related issues.
Mother Theresa experienced this âdrynessâ or âaridityâ her whole life.
Saint John of the Cross wrote about the âdark night of the soulâ. [He wrote in Spanish and the translations are all over the place, so if you can read the original.]
Read what these people have written or what has been written about them based on conversations.
Spiritual advisors and confessors have heard me and could only say, âKeep coming to Massâ. They would simply advise me to stay the course. Even St. Paul, in his last letters before he was executed, was upset because everything he preached was taken backwards. In the end, he could only write that he had âfought the good fight of faithâ.
Even if it feels empty, just stay with it.
Say the daily Rosary; get to Mass daily; do some spiritual reading. I happen to like things written about Father Solanus Casey. And also books by Father Thomas Green (When the Well Runs Dry and Weeds Among the Wheat). And Father Thomas Dubay (he wrote one about St. Therese and St. John of the Cross ⌠"Fire ⌠" canât remember the name. I found it in the books left behind by a priest /confessor.]
Hang in there.
[Use a little bit of humor here and there. Supposedly it was St. Therese of Lisieux who prayed, âLord, the way you treat your friends, itâs no wonder you have so few of them.â]
I would share these views posted by Monte RCMS, lil john . I have a copy of St. John of the Crossâ *Dark Night of the Soul *here. I found that this particular work wasnât so easy to grasp/read (at least for me [see my username

] ) . Thereâs a fair amount of mysticism in it.
In the final analysis, faith untested is no faith at all.
What I really find interesting about the OPâs comments is how they reflect St. Peterâs own words about faith being tested. Have a look at them side by side :
I am asking this because I am going through a crisis of faith. I go to Holy Mass, I receive Our Lord Jesus Christ in the Blessed Eucharist. I try and live a life worthy to offer to God our Father, but why am I so empty? I believe with my mind, but am I being a hypocrite?
I am a happy, joyous person. Not matter what happens, I will be down for a few moments, but will feel joyful inside.
1 Peter:6-8
In this you rejoice, although now for a little while you may have to suffer through various trials,
so that the genuineness of your faith, more precious than gold that is perishable even though tested by fire, may prove to be for praise, glory, and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.
Although you have not seen him you love him; even though you do not see him now yet believe in him, you rejoice with an indescribable and glorious joy,
So if Blessed Mother Theresa and Saint Peter went through it, we could say that youâre in good company lil john .
One thing I would add â There is never any trial without consolation. Just as the angels came and ministered to Jesus after he had fasted and been tempted in the desert [Mt. 4: 11; Mk. 1: 13]., so also, after these periods of spiritual dryness, aridity or going through the âdesertâ , we too may hope to be consoled. But we need to trust that God knows the most opportune time to console us.
The rosary is something very solid in times of trial âŚas Monte RCMS says and please do: âStay with it.â âŚ
