What is Romantic Love?

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It’s the first draft of an essay I am writing for my philosophy class, I am hoping someone could give me some feedback on it if possible and of course discuss whatever needs to be discussed 😛

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Just my $0.02…

I think it’s interesting that, in the English language, we don’t really have a different word for the different types of love. It’s all under the umbrella of the word “love” whether it’s between lovers, friends, or parent/child.

Love, in any form, is not an emotion. It is a decision. So, how do we describe feelings of infatuation or lust? We typically use the word “love”, which can be confusing if you are not cognizant of the definitions of love, or if you are assigning emotion to the word.

In Greek the definitions of love are more specific: you have Eros [where we get the word “erotic”] for sexual desire/love; Philio for brotherly love, and Agape which is the selfless, unconditional love that God has for us and that we should have for each other.

As for romantic love, the “forever kind”, I think that there must be a mix of the three. Certainly there must be a lot of Agape mixed in. If all you have is Eros, then all you have is lust which is not a very strong foundation for a long lasting relationship.

Love and its definitions is a topic that has been studied and debated for centuries.

Good luck on your paper. If you want, post the final draft. I’d be interested to see what you end up with.

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+I haven’t read your paper, however, perhaps you will find some enlightenment in the teachings of *Jesus * recorded in the following little portion of Sacred Scripture:
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Matthew 12:30-31

“And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy **heart ❤️ **, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the First Commandment. And the Second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other Commandment greater than these.”​

Doctrinely, based upon the foundation of the above portion of Sacred Scripture . . . as Catholic Christians we are taught that there are three kinds of love imparted to the soul of man by God our Gracious Heavenly Father. . . Who is wholly holy Love Himself and mankind was created in His image . . . *able to love perfectly *. . . before the free will falling from grace through the deliberate transgression (sin) of Adam which cast all of mankind into disordered relationships with both God and spouses and all his fellow men, and the harmony of man’s life in relation to love in all its aspects was tragically destroyed and perverted and cast into grave disorder and the sinful . . . LUSTFUL SELF . . . of man became the center of mankind’s disordered distorted love relationships, rather than maintaining our Wonderful God’s purpose and source of life and health through the true nature and harmony of real genuine holy love in all its three aspects.

One of our marvelous teachers regarding God’s Holy :bible1: Word taught so well regarding Adam and Eve . . . regarding **Eve **who was deceived according to Scripture . . . who Looked, Listened, Lusted, and Lost and Led her husband into sin . . . and Adam who was not deceived according to Scripture . . . rather than truly loving God and his tragically deceived wife now dead in sin . . . who Looked, Listened, Lusted, and Lost and Led the entire human race into sin.

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I John 4:8

He that loveth not knoweth not God;
for God is love.

Doctrinal Teaching on Love:
  1. **** Agape - God’s infinite love for mankind and man’s reciprocal love (which falls under the First Commandment as related above) and
  2. Philial - love of one’s fellow-man/neighbor and
  3. Eros - intimate love exclusively created for relationship between man and woman as spouses . . .
*(both of last fall in the category of the **Second Commandment ***as related above) . . .​

The marvelous God fearing :nun1: Benedictine nuns :nun2: in the European convent . . . through whom **He **graced my soul with a considerable portion of my education . . . have a discipline they both practiced and which was well taught called the . . . Holy Discipline of Detachment. Essentially it is that genuine love is a CHOICE . . . not just emotion . . . which emotion can carry us away is all kinds of “not marvelous” directions if not disciplined by God’s Love with caution and reason. One is to discipline and detach ones **heart ❤️ ** and emotions from anything . . . *people, places and/or things *. . . that might take precedence over our heart’s first love. . . which should always be God and His Ways . . . and if one’s **first love **IS God . . . *and one’s soul endeavors to stay in prayerful constant communion with **Him ***. . . then healthy well-ordered love for one’s mate/children/fellow man/neighbor etc. . . . can . . . and will . . . flow and follow . . . *in a holy orderly fashion *. . . and as the Reverend Mother Emmanuel encouraged all her nuns:
  • “Leave a little leeway for the graces.
    It’s a never-ending affair trying to be good
    but never forget
    when God* orders,
    He gives.”
. . . all for Jesus+
. . . thank You Blessed Lord+
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I like it. Is it okay if I keep a copy of the Final Copy? This is off topic, but I chanced on this thread while listening to What is Love by Haddaway,
 
One of our marvelous teachers regarding God’s Holy :bible1: Word taught so well regarding Adam and Eve . . . regarding **Eve **who was deceived according to Scripture . . . who Looked, Listened, Lusted, and Lost and Led her husband into sin . . . and Adam who was not deceived according to Scripture . . . rather than truly loving God and his tragically deceived wife now dead in sin . . . who Looked, Listened, Lusted, and Lost and Led the entire human race into sin.
Hello Jesus_123,

Could you please explain to me what you are saying here? Which marvelous teacher? How is it that Adam was not deceived? Do you mean that it was all Eve’s fault? Please clarify…

Thank you,

Abba
 
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