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Sparkythedog
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I’ve heard the term “scandal” used in these forums. What does that word mean in Catholic circles?
There is a particular sin that is giving scandal. This means that a person acts in such a way that others are led to believe that something bad (sinful) is actually not. The sin is usually applied to those in a position of influence and the victims are those who rely on them for guidance and example. Giving scandal often leads another into sin.I’ve heard the term “scandal” used in these forums. What does that word mean in Catholic circles?
No you are not responsible for other’s viewpoint unless you are participant in a behaviour that can lead someone to erroneous interpretation.I have trouble understanding this as well. I was married when I became pregnant with my son, but public opinion was that I still looked about 14. (I frequently had clients stare at me hesitantly and then ask if I was old enough to be working) Was I giving scandal by appearing to be a teen pregnancy? I never understood how much responsibility lands on us for what others might imagine about our lives.
I think this illustrates well what many think of scandal which is not actually scandal (in the technical sense). If someone looks at a person’s externals and condescendingly thinks this person must be a big ol’ sinner, there is not really “scandal” going on because they aren’t being tempted to follow suit. They are simply committing the sin of rash judgment.I have trouble understanding this as well. I was married when I became pregnant with my son, but public opinion was that I still looked about 14. (I frequently had clients stare at me hesitantly and then ask if I was old enough to be working) Was I giving scandal by appearing to be a teen pregnancy? I never understood how much responsibility lands on us for what others might imagine about our lives.