What is so important about free will?

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If you have been to confession, you already know that this is not how God works at all.

Having been a lost sheep, saved by Christ, all I can do is give thanks humbly to God for his love. He never gives up on me. I am inspired by his love. I will try harder.
Interesting. This might need a whole thread on confession, but it certainly seems to pose an inconsistency. Like a teacher who will let you fix bad homework assignments, but will cut off both your hands if you fail to become a good student by the end of the semester. I’ll have to turn that one over in my silly head a few times.
 
Imagine for a good few minutes a life without your free will as a total slave, not only in body but mind. You’d have no questions to ask because your thoughts would only be parroting of the master of them. You wouldn’t be a happy little human being for very long at all. Your life would be spent to give happiness and satisfaction to another being, not yourself. You’d be a commodity instead of a person. Your personhood, your basic human dignity is tied to having free will.

Your will united to God’s will. A union that is so complete that you spend your life doing good for His sake. A different type of slavery in which your human dignity is elevated by God to His likeness. Your telos, your self-realization would be satisfied only by completion in Christ. Your thinking and priorities would be Christ centered; Christocentric.
If I have given up my will and thoughts of my own happiness and derive happiness only from what I do for his sake, how would that preserve my human dignity, exactly? That sounds like some extreme version of Stockholm Syndrome.

What is so bad about being compassionate for the sake of the people suffering? How is doing it because it is what God wants/tells me to do better than that? Why not be compassionate because being compassionate is beautiful in and of itself? Is that not also a perfectly virtuous reason to do it, even if I had no knowledge of God’s will?

Consider the kind of thought experiment common to philosophy-and used just for the sake of isolating the variables: Imagine if the universe were, in fact, run by an evil genius, as Descartes considered in his investigations. In such a universe, would you think it beautiful to be compassionate for its own sake or for the sake of the suffering people, or should I give those up because they are not the will of that mean-hearted god?
 
Free will was necessary because it set in motion the whole story, which God must have wanted to happen. He wanted Adam and Eve to sin. He wanted us all be separated from him so that we would need something to bring us back that only he could provide. He decided that a blood sacrifice was the only thing that would heal that wound. He wanted Jesus crucified. Its all part of his plan.

He needs us to need him for some reason. What kind of God creates an entire race who’s sole purpose is to love and believe in him? I haven’t figured that one out yet. This is all coming from a non-believer / agnostic though…
 
Free will was necessary because it set in motion the whole story, which God must have wanted to happen. He wanted Adam and Eve to sin.
This is categorically false. God wanted them to trust Him and obey Him.
He wanted us all be separated from him so that we would need something to bring us back that only he could provide. He decided that a blood sacrifice was the only thing that would heal that wound. He wanted Jesus crucified. Its all part of his plan.
He needs us to need him for some reason. What kind of God creates an entire race who’s sole purpose is to love and believe in him? I haven’t figured that one out yet. This is all coming from a non-believer / agnostic though…
Given the misunderstanding above, no figuring out is possible.
 
Hello again Neo.
It would help me understand the frame of your thoughts if you could try explaining how creating someone else for the highest goal of having them be completely and utterly in love with you and wish to freely give up all of their own interests or desires just to be filled with your will instead a) would make sense in terms of anything else we think of as ‘good’, and b) would amount to something more than a kind of self-adoration…Hopefully your great experience in reading the saints will give you the ability to translate it down for me so I can make sense out of it.
I’m sorry but the arrogance with which you reply is too off putting for me today. I have no desire to cast pearls before swine. The highest degree of Sanctity a person can achieve is union with God in this life and it is the ultimate in the spiritual life… If you cannot respect this life time goal that some have cast aside every human consideration to achieve, then I won’t be the one to allow you to scoff. It is an intimacy with Christ few achieve and sharing about it with those who would tear it down and scoff is more than I have patience for today.

Perhaps someone else can help you “understand” what the Saints delight in.

It also occurs to me that you wan tot scoff at Jesus Christ because somehow you think He only creates man so He can be adored. The conversation is too sinful for my taste and borders on blasphemy. Sorry. I’m not the gal to take you up on your “questions.”

Glenda

P.S. Scoffing at the religious convictions of others as well as their God is an act of your free will. * You chose to be *arrogant and condescending.
 
Sorry I lost glendab. I hope the rest of you realize, I’m honestly not trying to scoff at anyone or be condescending (and blasphemy is even farther down the list of goals). I’m on here to see how to see/interpret stuff in a different way, and I’ve been amazed at how well and widely read people in this forum can be, so when someone says they’ve go insight into the saints (or Pope Benedict XVI, or whoever), I’m anxious to hear if they have had better luck turning it into something that won’t sound like academese to me.

I already know I’m confused by the concept or model. If you think my questions too silly to respond to, then just skip me/them.

Maybe someone can give me a clearer sense of what she meant - I thought I was paraphrasing her point about our highest end. I assumed when I offered the example of Stockholm Syndrome, she would understand the distinction I was trying to sort out. Sadly, no.

Neo
 
Sure, I’ve seen this as one possible answer. Let’s explore this a little bit:

1.What does it matter if our justice is greater, though? What end does that serve?
God always wanted and continues to want the best for man, as we should for ourselves; He’s never been against us even though we may well perceive Him to be. Enmity and jealousy comes from man, not the other way around. Man’s justice, aka holiness, also called the “righteousness of God” is defined comprehensively by the term “love”. And there’s no limit to the depth and power and beauty and majesty-to the goodness-of this virtue.
2.Do we create children so they will love us? Certainly we also want that, but isn’t there more to it than that? It always makes God seem like some primadonna who needed to create adoring fans for herself.
“It’s love alone that gives worth to all things”-as Teresa of Avila came to understand. To love God is to choose the ultimate good that one can desire for themselves-and that’s the only reason* He* wants it for us. God is love, and Love is never petty or self-serving, or prideful-only the opposite, in fact. God just wants more for us than we even know enough to want for ourselves…yet.
3.Even given that, why would he care that we love him, since he is really so much farther from us than we are from our own children? As is mentioned a few places, we are like lowly worms compared to him. Who among us would create a bunch of ants or worms for the sake of them growing to love us? (Calls to mind Sebastian from Blade Runner, interestingly enough.)
We’re much greater than that in His eyes, even if we act lower than worms at times; and love compels Him to embrace us even with our inferiority; all of creation is unavoidably inferior to Him in one way or another- but He created us in His own image to begin with, and, to the extent that we choose to love as well we reflect that image and He delights in that choice.
4.Happiness makes sense. Certainly we want our children to experience happiness - that comes closer and seems less self-serving than merely “to love us.”
According to the Catechism God placed the desire for happiness in man’s heart-and this is His highest desire for man. Do a search on beatitude and happiness in the Catechism.
5.Now the question is: how does the possibility of unredeemable suffering help us become more happy or more loving? That is, could not more of his children become more happy and more loving if there were always some opportunities that remained open to them to learn from their mistakes? Are there really no experiences God could give them, with the creative brilliance of an infinite mind, that would sparkle enough to catch their eye momentarily?
The knowledge of good and evil obtained in this life has the purpose, IMO, to drive us to the good, alone-or at least to start that process, putting us firmly on that path. Since God is a God of infinite justice and mercy, we’ll all have that chance in one way or another. But He won’t force us to choose the good or else free will has no purpose or meaning-He really wants us to exercise our ability to choose, for our own good.
6.If the higher purpose is to achieve love and happiness, could there not be a mild, temporary suppression of free will to at least halt the downward spiral of sin-addicted soul? We do the same for children and, as long as they are set back on their free-willing feet, we consider it nurturing, not oppression. If the goal of free will is to help them achieve love and happiness, why would we allow them (L & H) to be sacrificed to it (FW)- that’s the cart before the horse.
Yes, I’m sure so. Our wills, while radically free, aren’t absolute in their freedom to begin with. I’ve had the experience where God aided my will in order to help me overcome an addiction I prayed about-perhaps the first truly sincere prayer in my life incidentally. I had tried everything I knew in my own power over much time to halt this habit-which was greatly compromising my health-but had become even less successful each time I renewed my efforts. But after that prayer I was able to stop for an hour, then a day, then a week and so on, to my complete amazement. And in hindsight I saw that, while overcoming the addiction was good, the greater good that God was aiming at was the increase in faith that resulted from the whole matter.
 
  1. What is the good served by free will that can only be accomplished by preserving our free will?
  2. If our free will is so sacrosanct, why do we only get to have it for 70 years (or 13 or 3) before it is permanently suspended in favor of eternal bliss or damnation?
Please; I know at least one of you will throw out some variant of, “Because God is awesome and he made it that way, so it must be awesome.” Let’s consider that base covered and look at alternatives. 😃 Same for “Are you saying you know better than God?”

If our function in life is just to end up loving God completely or be condemned to a lake of fire and worm-gnawing forever, why not just create us filled with love and simpler intellects?
Why even both with the option of Hell? Is the love so much better for him to receive if there are also some souls screaming in agony for all eternity? Surely not.

If our function is to learn and grow, then, learning and growing seems a wondrous good in and of itself, so why do we only get to do it for 70 years? How is learning and growing by some better if there are millions upon billions who can never learn and grow beyond the moment of damnation?

There are other examples, but this should give those of you who are serious the shape of the engagement. Free will does not seem an intrinsic, highest good on its own. What is its telos, and how could that telos only/best be accomplished by temporary free will with a crazy-high fail rate?
Our highest good is our infinite capacity for love because it enables us to be united forever to God and all that He has created…
 
Hello Neo. It’s me Glenda.
If I have given up my will and thoughts of my own happiness and derive happiness only from what I do for his sake, how would that preserve my human dignity, exactly? That sounds like some extreme version of Stockholm Syndrome… or should I give those up because they are not the will of that mean-hearted god?
Oh dear. Can you explain how you get from God’s will being desirable in one’ s life to Stockholm Syndrome?

I’ve got a easy definition of that condition from the Wikipedia for this discussion: "Stockholm syndrome, or capture–bonding, is a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors, sometimes to the point of defending them. These feelings are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims, who essentially mistake a lack of abuse from their captors for an act of kindness. The FBI’s Hostage Barricade Database System shows that roughly 8% of victims show evidence of Stockholm syndrome.

Stockholm syndrome can be seen as a form of traumatic bonding, which does not necessarily require a hostage scenario, but which describes “strong emotional ties that develop between two persons where one person intermittently harasses, beats, threatens, abuses, or intimidates the other.” One commonly used hypothesis to explain the effect of Stockholm syndrome is based on Freudian theory. It suggests that the bonding is the individual’s response to trauma in becoming a victim. Identifying with the aggressor is one way that the ego defends itself. When a victim believes the same values as the aggressor, they cease to be a threat.

Battered-person syndrome is an example of activating the capture–bonding psychological mechanism, as are military basic training and fraternity bonding by hazing." en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_Syndrome

Perhaps you view God as some sort of captor who has subverted your human will? Did mom and dad “force” you to go to Church with them on Sunday’s or face punishment? Guess what? To some extant this is true. If you skip Mass on Sunday, it is a mortal sin, one for which you’ve given up your place in Heaven and will face an eternal punishment - Hell - unless you take yourself to Confession and give it up to God. Good job mom and dad if you ask me. I was a tough mom.

It will be interesting to see how you equate Stockholm Syndrome to following Jesus Christ. Fill me in. I’m curious.

Glenda
 
Hello Neo. It’s me Glenda.

Oh dear. Can you explain how you get from God’s will being desirable in one’ s life to Stockholm Syndrome?
Is it not designed into the metaphysics and our very nature that we suffer horribly every time we assert our own will rather than just being as transparent an agent of God’s will as we possibly can? The more we do it or the longer, then proportionately the greater and longer our suffering and torment ending at a point where we are condemned to a lake of fire forever and ever after.

It seems fair to consider how rarely it is the case that believers receive positive experiences as tangible as this, but, rather, they perceive the absence of suffering and torment to be a sign of God’s love. If we consider our real experiences, and not just the points of debate, would you not agree that this is true for many, many churchgoers?

Neo
 
Our highest good is our infinite capacity for love because it enables us to be united forever to God and all that He has created…
We can say that, but can we understand it in meaningful human terms? What I mean is, can we make sense out of how it would be good if a parent were to say, “I had children for the highest purpose of them uniting their will with mine forever”?

If I can get you to consider fairly, and then reflect on the difference: Is it not more fitting to allow that while we want our children to be virtuous, we also want them to be different from us in their tastes and in their willing. If they are just subsumed under our will and our tastes in all things, what would they really add something beautiful or meaningful to the world? They would not be works of art in their own right, would they? Merely (more or less identical) copies of the same painting.
 
The knowledge of good and evil obtained in this life has the purpose, IMO, to drive us to the good, alone-or at least to start that process, putting us firmly on that path. Since God is a God of infinite justice and mercy, we’ll all have that chance in one way or another. But He won’t force us to choose the good or else free will has no purpose or meaning-He really wants us to exercise our ability to choose, for our own good.
Yes, but (aiming back to the OP) how is the acquisition of knowledge or the process of moving toward the good made good/better only in the presence of a once-and-for-all moment of sentencing after which some will never again be able to learn or move back toward God?
 
Yes, but (aiming back to the OP) how is the acquisition of knowledge or the process of moving toward the good made good/better only in the presence of a once-and-for-all moment of sentencing after which some will never again be able to learn or move back toward God?
Humans are moral beings. We have a responsibility, an obligation to do the “right thing”, whether we like it or not, whether we accept that or not. Hell speaks of justice, a consequence to our actions. It’s a declaration: that good and evil exist and that evil ultimately has no permanent place with good-and we need to act accordingly. How God will work it all out in the end, we don’t know-only that it will be based to one degree or another on our actions, on what we’ve done with what we’re given. Luke 12:48:
"From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked."

The Parable of the Talents applies here as well. God is infinitely fair, more so than you or I. We can trust he’ll do the right thing-and all will be compleletly satisfied by it.

I really appreciate what Julian of Norwich, a 13th century British visionary, was “shewn” by God. Living during the Black Plague and burdened by concern over the fate of so many dying around her she prayed for understanding. God gave her a locution, one of many, but this one is quoted in the Catechism and, while simple and terse nonetheless gave her a profound assurance which we can all take to heart:
He told her: **“All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well”. **

We can trust Him to work out the details, but for now it’s apparently best for us to also have in mind that justice demands that evil has serious consequences.
 
Our highest good is our infinite capacity for love because it enables us to be united forever to God and all that He has created…
It makes sense to say we have children for the purpose of being united to them forever - which does not imply that they are split images of ourselves. We respect their individuality but we have a common purpose based on love with the same values and principles.
If I can get you to consider fairly, and then reflect on the difference: Is it not more fitting to allow that while we want our children to be virtuous, we also want them to be different from us in their tastes and in their willing. If they are just subsumed under our will and our tastes in all things, what would they really add something beautiful or meaningful to the world? They would not be works of art in their own right, would they? Merely (more or less identical) copies of the same painting. We can say that, but can we understand it in meaningful human terms? What I mean is, can we make sense out of how it would be good if a parent were to say, “I had children for the highest purpose of them uniting their will with mine forever”?
Unity does not imply uniformity nor does identity imply identicality! Opposites attract and similar persons are less attractive to each other because variety is the spice of life. Yet there has to be fundamental agreement on important issues; otherwise they will be at loggerheads. That is why there is so much diversity, originality and individuality in the world. No one can reasonably claim that we are all chips off the old block! In fact it is when people are vicious they become predictable because they have one-track minds: all they want to do is feather their own nest and leave everyone else to fend for themselves.
 
Humans are moral beings. We have a responsibility, an obligation to do the “right thing”, whether we like it or not, whether we accept that or not. Hell speaks of justice, a consequence to our actions. It’s a declaration: that good and evil exist and that evil ultimately has no permanent place with good-and we need to act accordingly. How God will work it all out in the end, we don’t know-only that it will be based to one degree or another on our actions, on what we’ve done with what we’re given. Luke 12:48:
"From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked."

The Parable of the Talents applies here as well. God is infinitely fair, more so than you or I. We can trust he’ll do the right thing-and all will be completely satisfied by it.

I really appreciate what Julian of Norwich, a 13th century British visionary, was “shewn” by God. Living during the Black Plague and burdened by concern over the fate of so many dying around her she prayed for understanding. God gave her a locution, one of many, but this one is quoted in the Catechism and, while simple and terse nonetheless gave her a profound assurance which we can all take to heart:
He told her: **“All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well”. **

We can trust Him to work out the details, but for now it’s apparently best for us to also have in mind that justice demands that evil has serious consequences.
:clapping: It can be proved logically that egoism is destructive and self-destructive because
it causes unnecessary suffering and alienates others. Every vice incurs its own punishment and every virtue brings its own reward: divine justice is at the heart of existence.
 
Is it not designed into the metaphysics and our very nature that we suffer horribly every time we assert our own will rather than just being as transparent an agent of God’s will as we possibly can? The more we do it or the longer, then proportionately the greater and longer our suffering and torment ending at a point where we are condemned to a lake of fire forever and ever after.

It seems fair to consider how rarely it is the case that believers receive positive experiences as tangible as this, but, rather, they perceive the absence of suffering and torment to be a sign of God’s love. If we consider our real experiences, and not just the points of debate, would you not agree that this is true for many, many churchgoers?

Neo
  1. Maybe it would be easier to think that God doesn’t condemn anyone to hell. Those there chose to go.
  2. Why would Christians ever believe an absence of suffering is a sign of God’s love? That certainly didn’t hold for Jesus…
 
If I have given up my will and thoughts of my own happiness and derive happiness only from what I do for his sake, how would that preserve my human dignity, exactly? That sounds like some extreme version of Stockholm Syndrome.

What is so bad about being compassionate for the sake of the people suffering? How is doing it because it is what God wants/tells me to do better than that?
It isn’t. You are setting up straw men. You seem to have been fed some very distorted ideas about Christian doctrine.

God is the Good. Period. All our desires for goodness point toward God. There’s no dichotomy here.
Why not be compassionate because being compassionate is beautiful in and of itself? Is that not also a perfectly virtuous reason to do it, even if I had no knowledge of God’s will?
That is exactly the same as doing it because God wills it. Indeed, if you do it because God wills it, being prepared to do otherwise (i.e., not show compassion) if God should will that, then you are worshiping an idol and not the true God.

An atheist who is compassionate for compassion’s sake worships God. A Christian who is compassionate in order to earn heaven has, at best, a very rudimentary and immature faith, and at worst is an idolater.
Consider the kind of thought experiment common to philosophy-and used just for the sake of isolating the variables: Imagine if the universe were, in fact, run by an evil genius, as Descartes considered in his investigations. In such a universe, would you think it beautiful to be compassionate for its own sake or for the sake of the suffering people, or should I give those up because they are not the will of that mean-hearted god?
In such a universe, the being “running” it would by definition not be God.

Edwin
 
An atheist who is compassionate for compassion’s sake worships God. A Christian who is compassionate in order to earn heaven has, at best, a very rudimentary and immature faith, and at worst is an idolater. Edwin
You will hardly ever find an atheist who believes in compassion for compassion’s sake. Rather, if he believes in that, it is because he is trying to prove something, such as that he can be a better Christian than some Christians are. But that is not worshiping God.

A Christian who is compassionate in order to earn heaven does so because he wants eternal friendship with God. There is nothing idolatrous about that.

We do not as a rule do things for their own sake. We do them, if they are moral goods, because they draw us closer to friendship with God. There is nothing more important than our friendship with God.
 
You will hardly ever find an atheist who believes in compassion for compassion’s sake. Rather, if he believes in that, it is because he is trying to prove something, such as that he can be a better Christian than some Christians are.
I don’t know how you would possibly know this. Obviously I’m speaking hypothetically.
A Christian who is compassionate in order to earn heaven does so because he wants eternal friendship with God. There is nothing idolatrous about that.
We do not as a rule do things for their own sake. We do them, if they are moral goods, because they draw us closer to friendship with God. There is nothing more important than our friendship with God.
Friendship with God and being a holy person are the same thing. There is no conflict between them. I’m responding to the hypothetical case raised by the OP, in which a Christian does separate between these things. Without speculating on how common this is, I think you’ll agree that it’s possible, just as your example of an atheist acting compassionately to “prove a point” is also possible (whether common or not). A Christian hypothetically acting this way (behaving compassionately because it happens to be what God wants, but theoretically open to the possibility that God might have commanded something quite different) would be committing idolatry. I hope that indeed no Christians have ever behaved in this way.

Edwin
 
Those in heaven have used their free will to permanently earn heaven. Those in hell have used their free will to permanently damn themselves. The rules of the game are set. The strong players win and the lazy cheaters lose. We needn’t worry about God’s justice and his mercy. They will prevail where and when needed.
No one “earns” heaven.

As far as “God’s Justice and God’s Mercy”, many seem to want their twisted view of justice on others and mercy upon themself, sad to say.

God’s Justice and Mercy are so intertwined as to be One and one day ALL will know.

As it is written, “It is God’s Will that ALL be saved”, maybe we should pray for God’s Will just as God-Incarnate taught us.
 
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