Do I know what God wants? Am I following God’s Will in my life? Am I making the right choice?
As we go through life, not everything will appear as black and white. Some decisions have greater consequences than others. I know that I have often felt a disquiet within myself until I have made a decision based on personal conscience. It will not necessarily be a popular decision, but one that brings peace of spirit because it is in line with God’s Will.
How do I know it is in line with God’s Will?
What are the circumstances of my life? Do I have family obligations that I need to tend to?
Is it in line with scripture? While scripture may say go forth into the world and preach, and I feel a desire to go to Africa, my family obligations would say that I am more needed at home.
Is it in line with magisterial teaching? What does the Church teach? There were many young women inspired by Mother Teresa of Calcutta. They wanted to join her in India. Coming back to the idea of personal circumstance, she reminded them to look closer to home. What were the needs in their own community? It wasn’t necessary to go to Africa or India to do missionary work. There are people in need in local communities.
Scripture tells us to use our talents. Perhaps a young person is called to university to become a doctor. God will open the doors, provide the necessary scholarships that make it possible so he or she can return to a rundown community that needs help.
Discernment does take time to develop. Prayer as communication involves not only reciting the prayers that we learned in childhood, but also listening to the Holy Spirit.
That listening to the Holy Spirit is often referred to a “prompting.” Walk down this street rather than turning down the other; it’s a gut feeling.
I tend to be stubborn, so I’ve had to develop a listening ear. What are people advising me? It usually takes me three times to hear a piece of advice before I follow through. For example, I was rear ended in a car accident. A man who heard the accident came down and asked if I needed to go to the hospital. “No, I’m fine.” The police officer investigating the accident asked the same question. I still decline the ambulance. After I drive home I decide I better get checked out. That was just a simple common sense matter while others are of course more complex, and too personal to discuss.