What is the atmosphere like where you worship?

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Generally quiet and reverential.

The only exception to that is that since it’s a basilica (pics here) we do get occasional waves of tourists armed with their cameras. Even they aren’t really noisy, but the movement can be distracting at times.

Interestingly, even though the Masses are all in the Ordinary Form (👍), the altar and altar rails are still perfectly suited for the celebration of an Extraordinary Form as well (👍) Sort of like the best of both worlds, really. 🙂
Kinda funky looking. I like it. I attend St. Mary of the Immaculate Conception in Edgefield, South Carolina. It’s just a normal ordinary form Mass, and I am fine with that. My priest is a very sweet Nigerian man, and people there tend to be very friendly. I quite like it. It’s on the National Register of Historic places or something like that (ALL of downtown Edgefield is). I like the cemetery adjacent to it. I like cemeteries for some reason.
 
The Garden of Eden

Unless I let the people in it distract me. 😉

MJ
 
It really depends on the service.

If you’re at the 5pm Saturday service, it’s generally fairly social since it’s a very small service in the side chapel attended by mostly the same people week after week. They generally catch up on the week’s events and chit chat with each other and the priest who is already seated near the altar or standing at the back of the chapel welcoming people.

If you’re at our 8pm non musical service there’s some socializing outside the church building in the courtyard, but inside any socialization is generally quiet and reserved. And the closer you get to the bell tolling signaling the beginning of the service the more reverent it gets particularly the closer to the altar you get. In the last minutes before the bell, some will sit quietly, others will pray. I’d say it’s the most “reverent” service in terms of quiet and contemplation before mass.

If you’re at the 10:30 choral service there is much more socialization going on both outside and inside the church building. Which is generally because the 10:30 is the best attended service. Additionally the presiding priest, preacher, assisting clergy, choir, etc… are all out in the courtyard preparing for the procession so they’re also talked to and such but it leaves less room for the laity to converse so they move inside in advance of the bell and procession starting. But I’ve noted people praying as well before this mass and they tend to be left to their prayers in those instances.
 
I’m part of a large, Charismatic parish.

And the worship is a mixture of the Mass and what you might see at a protestant service. A lot of hand clapping and singing some modern day Christian songs or hymns.

Just depends on which service you go to, some charismatic, some traditional. Having a protestant background; I prefer charismatic.

I am becoming more and more annoyed at people showing up late to Mass. I mean seriously, if you are walking in during the homily you are missing all the scripture readings and the heart of the message for that day. And you are distraction to everybody in there.

Guess i should be happy with people showing up even if it’s late, but i am not. The former soldier in me is extremely irked by tardiness, especially when it comes to honoring God.
 
I’m part of a large, Charismatic parish.

And the worship is a mixture of the Mass and what you might see at a protestant service. A lot of hand clapping and singing some modern day Christian songs or hymns.

Just depends on which service you go to, some charismatic, some traditional. Having a protestant background; I prefer charismatic.

I am becoming more and more annoyed at people showing up late to Mass. I mean seriously, if you are walking in during the homily you are missing all the scripture readings and the heart of the message for that day. And you are distraction to everybody in there.

Guess i should be happy with people showing up even if it’s late, but i am not. The former soldier in me is extremely irked by tardiness, especially when it comes to honoring God.
Wow, Lenten Ashes. I was aware there were some Catholic Charismatics but I didn’t realize there were so many that there were parishes and Masses where they are in the majority. Just wondering how common that is in Catholicism. I had assumed it was just a small minority, but you know what happens when we assume, right? 🙂
 
Wow, Lenten Ashes. I was aware there were some Catholic Charismatics but I didn’t realize there were so many that there were parishes and Masses where they are in the majority. Just wondering how common that is in Catholicism. I had assumed it was just a small minority, but you know what happens when we assume, right? 🙂
Yeah A-s-s-of-u-and-me lol oldie but goodie.😉

I just read a book on the Charismatic renewal. Actually started in the 60’s. Many were sort of opposed to it initially because they thought it was too ‘protestant’ like. Now it’s exploding and different orders or communities are emerging from it.

Traditional Catholics are learning that it’s not either or here. The Spirit is already there we are just connecting deeper with him and being more inviting to Him. It’s sort of like some protestants with Mother Mary. Giving devotion to her does not detract from our love for Jesus, but it’s perceived that way from some reason.
 
I have been to many different denominations of Christian churches. Here is what I have observed:

Catholic: Before the mass, it is very quiet in most Catholic churches. Like so quiet you can hear a pen drop. I remember I went to Sunday mass this week and for some reason, there was a large group of people who walked in, all talking very loudly and laughing. Many people in the pews turned around, bewildered at the commotion, because it is so rare to hear much noise before the service begins. I remember when I was going through RCIA, we had a function in the Cathedral where all of the RCIA candidates and their sponsors attended. It was not quiet in the cathedral that day. The priest calmly reminded the candidates and their sponsors that this was a space of prayer, not conversation. The strength of a church having a “quiet time” before Mass is that it puts you in a certain mindset, where its just you and God…and you can just focus on that. I will say, however, after the Mass has ended, people tend walk down the center aisle, conversing with one another. Some in my parish have expressed displeasure at this fact, wishing that there was more time to pray in silence after the mass had ended. I have never attended a Charismatic Catholic service so I cannot speak to their atmosphere.

Anglican: I was baptized in the Episcopal Church in the United States and attended Holy Eucharist there for about two years. I would say that in an Anglican church, it is very similar to a Catholic church in terms of atmosphere. It is very quiet before the service, though there may be some lightly spoken conversation among good friends. One big difference between the Catholic atmosphere and Anglican atmosphere is that there is a greater diversity of traditions within the Anglican faith. For instance, I have attended an Episcopal church where the priest was very Evangelical-leaning, meaning that services had more of a rock-and-roll feel with dramatic plays and other kinds of devices mixed in with traditional liturgy. On the other hand, the Episcopal cathedral where I live is very “high church.” Most Anglican churches vary somewhere on the spectrum of high church and low church, with some being more Anglo-Catholic and others being more Evangelical.

Methodist: My dad is a life long Methodist and I have been to his church many times. Unlike Catholics and Anglicans, Methodists have no qualms sparking up a conversation with you before or after the service. But it is still pretty low key, with most conversing in a normal tone. A Methodist service is more like a bible study with singing interspersed. I did attend one Methodist church that had both a contemporary service and a traditional service. The traditional service was very “high church,” with there being candles, and ministerial vestments, and other touches that are more akin to an Anglican service.

Baptist: I was an attendee at a Baptist church for six months. Baptist churches are kind of a whole different animal when it comes to atmosphere. Conversation before the service is raucous at times, with attendees talking over each other while conversing. There are no images in the building, only a single cross (not a crucifix! :)) where the baptismal font is. The strength of having this kind of service is that you can make friends with other parishioners more easily, as talking with them is encouraged. No incense is used.
 
I have been to many different denominations of Christian churches. Here is what I have observed:

Catholic: Before the mass, it is very quiet in most Catholic churches. Like so quiet you can hear a pen drop. I remember I went to Sunday mass this week and for some reason, there was a large group of people who walked in, all talking very loudly and laughing. Many people in the pews turned around, bewildered at the commotion, because it is so rare to hear much noise before the service begins. I remember when I was going through RCIA, we had a function in the Cathedral where all of the RCIA candidates and their sponsors attended. It was not quiet in the cathedral that day. The priest calmly reminded the candidates and their sponsors that this was a space of prayer, not conversation. The strength of a church having a “quiet time” before Mass is that it puts you in a certain mindset, where its just you and God…and you can just focus on that. I will say, however, after the Mass has ended, people tend walk down the center aisle, conversing with one another. Some in my parish have expressed displeasure at this fact, wishing that there was more time to pray in silence after the mass had ended. I have never attended a Charismatic Catholic service so I cannot speak to their atmosphere.

Anglican: I was baptized in the Episcopal Church in the United States and attended Holy Eucharist there for about two years. I would say that in an Anglican church, it is very similar to a Catholic church in terms of atmosphere. It is very quiet before the service, though there may be some lightly spoken conversation among good friends. One big difference between the Catholic atmosphere and Anglican atmosphere is that there is a greater diversity of traditions within the Anglican faith. For instance, I have attended an Episcopal church where the priest was very Evangelical-leaning, meaning that services had more of a rock-and-roll feel with dramatic plays and other kinds of devices mixed in with traditional liturgy. On the other hand, the Episcopal cathedral where I live is very “high church.” Most Anglican churches vary somewhere on the spectrum of high church and low church, with some being more Anglo-Catholic and others being more Evangelical.

Methodist: My dad is a life long Methodist and I have been to his church many times. Unlike Catholics and Anglicans, Methodists have no qualms sparking up a conversation with you before or after the service. But it is still pretty low key, with most conversing in a normal tone. A Methodist service is more like a bible study with singing interspersed. I did attend one Methodist church that had both a contemporary service and a traditional service. The traditional service was very “high church,” with there being candles, and ministerial vestments, and other touches that are more akin to an Anglican service.

Baptist: I was an attendee at a Baptist church for six months. Baptist churches are kind of a whole different animal when it comes to atmosphere. Conversation before the service is raucous at times, with attendees talking over each other while conversing. There are no images in the building, only a single cross (not a crucifix! :)) where the baptismal font is. The strength of having this kind of service is that you can make friends with other parishioners more easily, as talking with them is encouraged. No incense is used.
Very insightful, Alex. Based on how you described things, my Methodist church service is “high church” because the pastoral staff at the traditional service (the earlier of the two) that I attend wear vestments, there are candles, an orchestra, and a choir. On the other hand, at the contemporary service the younger minister does not wear vestments and there is no choir or orchestra – only a group of 3 or 4 musicians and a song leader and they tend to sing praise songs instead of hymns.
 
Our church actually took a side room and made it a “Prayer Room,” where people who wanted to pray quietly before the service could. Not sure how often it was used, but it was a nice option to have.
Our parish had a different approach, we have a a rather large narthex as an entry way to the church itself. When you enter the building (from 3 different streets) you find yourself in the narthex, this is where you meet and talk with fellow members, those leaving may have coffee and donuts, RE families connect with catechists, people discuss various ministries/classes/retreats what ever is available. Those who simply want to quiet themselves, pray, reflect can go directly into the church sit down and do so, without the distractions in the narthex. For some reason I don’t understand my kids like to go right into church and sit down quietly, though they are not in the least bit quiet after Mass when they charge into the narthex for socializing, donuts, juice and now coffee.
 
Baha’is can worship in a variety of places… Usually there is an informal welcoming atmosphere. There are no altars, priests or rituals.

Very often we worship in each others homes for Feasts which occur every nineteen days. Sometimes the prayers concern the theme of the Feast but they can also be prayers for healing or other themes. When we pray in a home the friends will recite prayers they have memorized or they can read from a book of Baha’i Prayers. Children can also pray with the adults.

Occasionally we’ll have a prayer recited as a chant in Farsi, Arabic and sometimes a chant in English depending on the nationality of the people present.

Some times we worship in a Baha’i Center…

If it’s a Holy Day there is more of a program with prayers selected especially for the theme of the Holy Day. The program is generally a series of prayers revealed by Baha’u’llah, the Bab and Abdul-Baha but can include selections from other scriptures such as the Bible or the Qur’an.
 
fascinating thread and stirring all kinds of memories here. Because of increasing infirmity and immune system problems I do not attend mass in real time.

When I came to ireland, several things struck me. I was sad that there were so many at mass and it was so… impersonal and anonymous . I knew so few folk… Crowds at mass…

Fairly recently when I was trying standing in the air outside until communion time, the priest spoke at length on greeting strangers who came to church. This was a church new to me… crowded…and not one person spoke ot me after…

Now, I try to go into our Cathedral after mass, to pray and light candles. It is a tourist town so often folk wandering round … In the side area I meet some lovely folk. There was one of the church ladies chatting very quietly to two old ladies, for half an hour since mass… When we talked I said how lovely that was and that there is so much loneliness among the old ones and would it not be lovely to have tea and coffee especially in winter…

Mass and after mass are two different things are they not? Yes holiness and silence. God first then people…
 
Mass and after mass are two different things are they not? Yes holiness and silence. God first then people…
That’s a good one. 👍

I often wanted to find a nice explanation to explain the seemingly cold and impersonal atmosphere in the church during mass as compared to the welcoming and warmth of Protestant services. It is apple and orange actually.
 
That’s a good one. 👍

I often wanted to find a nice explanation to explain the seemingly cold and impersonal atmosphere in the church during mass as compared to the welcoming and warmth of Protestant services. It is apple and orange actually.
Thanks, I have rarely since coming to Ireland known that sense of holiness at mass … Probably as I have been struggling physically to cope and probably should have stopped going much sooner… But always since a child I have gravitated to the quiet early morning services . In my Anglican years I hated the Family Services. Noisy etc… Just is a personal thing… I was blessed for years with a good Church of England parish where there was real fellowship. Here everyone looks so … sad. When I was first here I used to go to quiet midweek masses and after communion would sit near the back on the centre aisle to smile at the old ladies as they came by, just to see their faces crack into a grin.

Now I love the cathedral when there is nothing going on except a few praying, lighting candles etc,and the one place I loved was a convent chapel after mass when the peace and holiness wrapped me like a warm cloak… Love too the ancient monastic ruined chapels where the spirit of prayer has been caught and held. 👍 LOVE that… lol!
 
Very reverent at my FSSP parish. There is no talking in Church and no ridiculous sign of peace with the hand holding and backslapping. No one ducks out after receiving Holy Communion on the tongue while kneeling. No extraordinary Eucharistic ministers, no altar girls, or lay lectors. After Mass, people stay and pray and do not talk until they are in the parking lot. It is Heaven on Earth. It makes me feel sorry for all of the spiritually starved people in my diocese who are going elsewhere.
 
Mass and after mass are two different things are they not? Yes holiness and silence. God first then people…
As a protestant who has visited about three masses, I’m seeing the truth in this. The first time the lack of welcome was actually refreshing, I was with a friend and was glad not to be swamped with greetings like I get in protestant churches. The second time, I went alone, and i felt very out of place and alienated. The third time, I could see the affection and conversation after the mass, and the people around me were kinder. Plus, the Bishop came and shook my hand and asked me my name. I think its a barrier to entry that stems from how differently Catholics view their mass from how Protestants view their services.
 
I’m part of a large, Charismatic parish.

And the worship is a mixture of the Mass and what you might see at a protestant service. A lot of hand clapping and singing some modern day Christian songs or hymns.

Just depends on which service you go to, some charismatic, some traditional. Having a protestant background; I prefer charismatic.

**I am becoming more and more annoyed at people showing up late to Mass. I mean seriously, if you are walking in during the homily you are missing all the scripture readings and the heart of the message for that day. And you are distraction to everybody in there.
**
Guess i should be happy with people showing up even if it’s late, but i am not. The former soldier in me is extremely irked by tardiness, especially when it comes to honoring God.
Reminds me of a rather bitter angry homily about this at a mass years ago. The priest lambasted us about those who worked out how late they could be and not commit a mortal sin…trouble of course was that we were ALL THER.E
 
Reminds me of a rather bitter angry homily about this at a mass years ago. The priest lambasted us about those who worked out how late they could be and not commit a mortal sin…trouble of course was that we were ALL THER.E
LOL…so I have to admit I checked into a while ago and the deadline is the offering. If you walk in after the offering, you are not ‘credited’ with Mass attendance and would need to confess… unless you made another Mass that day/weekend 😉
 
I attend our Parish’s Lifeteen Mass at 6pm on Sunday.
It is more for younger people and and teenagers are the ushers, readers, and altar servers. My part in this is choir director and guitar player and we play a lot of Contemporary Christian praise music. We also have many young adults as well as middle aged to elderly. Attendance is 250-300 per week. Having a hard time recruiting teenagers into the choir though! LOL
 
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